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My step dad is cheating on my mom.HELP?

my dad married my mom at 30 his was around 19. They had been together 4 or 3 years. He cheated on my mom twice. IM pretty sure he still is. Today I check his phone and looked at his text messages.it said ''I luv u and i miss u'' from Cole. Then I check whom he sent to him or her idk. He said ''I love u and miss u 2. My mom loves him and I don’t wont to ruin her life. he also helps r family too. IM 14 HELP!!!!!


    




kd_lifer
You really shouldn't go looking for trouble as you will usually find it! Don't do anything - tell your Step Dad how much you love him and appreciate what he and your Mom do for the family - maybe he will waken up and stop cheating!


guineagirl10
Look, you need to tell your mom. It may hurt
her, but it would only hurt her way worse if
this went on any longer! She knows that you
are looking out for her!


Realtorific
Talk to your Mom and tell her of your suspicions. That's no way for you or your mom to live. After you pass on the info, step away from the situation and let them handle it.


beachtan365
tell him that you know and that you suspected something so you had to find out for yourself that's why you checked his phone. tell him that you love him and tell him that he's making a really big mistake by doing this.


trickedb'tch
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I feel sorry for you and your mom, but really he is only 4 years older then you, he is not grown up yet, your mom should have left him with the rest of his age and stayed away from him, I would tell her immediately right now.


Cathy M
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Stay out of it. It is none of your business.

At 14 you have better things to do with your life than to stick your nose in the drama between your mom and stepdad. You shouldn't even know any of this stuff -- especially the part about him cheating twice -- tell your mom to stop making you her sounding board.


Wheat Kings & Pretty Things
tell him you know, and don't hold back any tears, be honest , he needs to see what this is doing to his family.


Katie M
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Tell him you know what's going on and tell him he'd better come clean with your mom or you will. And then follow through. How dare he put you in the middle of this garbage.





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