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hurting in ohio
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do not listen to anyone only you can make that chioce ...ask yourself these questions???? ..do you love her ? can you forgive her? can you live with this situation? And if your religious at all ask God for his help on this matter? secondly ask yourself why did this happen,and how can I stop it from happening again? Did she feel that you no longer desired her as before or when you were first married? Did she feel unappreciated? Do you notice the little things that she does? Do you criticize her alot about the house or how she looks?Can you let her know how you feel when your around her? God Bless and Good luck |
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os1r1s2
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Dump her or learn the meaning cuckhold(you're halfway there). |
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boober
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Dump her remember the old saying "BRO'S BEFORE HO'S" what a
BIOTCH |
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David R
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Why do you feel the need to point out that he's black? |
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hotsing1
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yes, she would expect you to do the same. she is obviously not ready to let go completely of him, you need to tell her to choose either him or you. |
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pigpen
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You dont have too. But for your marriage to work she shouldnt see him no more. Then you must truly forgive her for being an adulteress. Marriage counseling would be a must also. And alot of prayer would help.Good Luck. |
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Christy
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divorce her |
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hdpatch
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In a heartbeat !!!!! |
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monkeys mom
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Absolutely!!!!!!! If her so-called friendship with a man that she had an affair with is more important than working on fixing your marriage, than you should most definately end it.
Why would she want to continue hurting you?? She obviously does not care enough to make her betrayal towards you a little easier for you to handle, in fact she is making it impossible.
Find yourself a woman who will provide you with respect, honesty, loyalty, caring and love, after all that is what a marriage should be.
Good luck to you. |
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sunset_superman1
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every1 makes a mistake your allowed 1 |
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iyamacog
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Whatever you can live with is what you need to do.
No one can make such a decision for you. You must do it for yourself. You will only get varying opinions here.
May you make the best decision for YOU! |
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Fairy Codswallop
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Oh dear, if you don't trust that they are just friends then get rid of her. |
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qte39
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DANG...your drawing a pretty tough crowd here today!!This is something between you and your wife. Sitting down and talking to her about it might be a good place to start, let her know how you feel about this man being in her life.Don't be listening to everybody in Yahoo Answers...they don't know the situation |
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Press288
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definatly. she is no use to you anymore, because she doesnt love you back, and if you stay with her, she will just be using your money and supplies, living in your house, eating your food, when she doesnt love you at all. |
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marabierto1961
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dump her, kick her in the butt, drag her a s s out, wrap her up and send her to the black dude, but whatever you do, hide the family cash first! |
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melspags6
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Divorce her. once a cheater always a cheater especially if she still has contact with him. If she cared enough about the marriage she wouldn't of cheated in the first place and she would have broke all contact with him to save her marriage. Get out while you can no matter how much you may still love her and no matter how hard it will be. |
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Cattales
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duh, once a cheater always one. Btw, what's his color have to do with it? |
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sparkling_apple
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Are you mad becusae she cheated? or becasue she cheated with a black guy? |
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somechick25
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YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why would you even question this? I for one would not stay with a cheater, or could not even have that person touch me ever again! Do you honestly think she is not doing this anymore? I highly doubt it. Go find yourself a real woman, one who will respect and love you, because obviously your "wife" does not. What a lousy b-i-t-c-h-! And the guy, what a scumbag! Some friend. Sorry man, friends don't pork their friends wives! |
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scottie2h2004
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God lord dump her a s s!!! |
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i_know_all
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UM DUH!!!!!!!!!!! |
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STEVE0 THE CLOWN
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damn bro thats shi++y if you want to be with her tell her she needs to stop hanging with this guy or your outty. she shouldnt behangin with the fa& she cheated on you with anyways. dont put up with that $hit. i personally would give her the boot. |
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wolfman
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yes |
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charlesjerrell
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yes,yes,yes |
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TeaSwami
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She has destroyed her trustworthiness in MANY ways. It makes no real difference what race the guy is, of course, but the family-friend thing is pitiful. The boss-thing is pitiful. The stubbornness and lack of contrition is pitiful.
What are your aspirations for a home life?
Most people would not prefer to have the problems you face and unfortunately your wife is unable to be realistic.
I'm sorry. |
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chelle
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CRAZY AS IT MAY BE AN AFFAIR IS AN AFFAIR BUT I CAN RELATE BECAUSE MY EX B/F CHEATED WITH A WHITE WOMAN AND I FELT AS IF I WAS WAITING TO EXHALE BUT TECHNICALLY WHETHER HE IS BLACK OR WHITE SHE CHEATED. I JUST MOVED 2,300 MILES AWAY FOR A NEW BEGINNING |
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average joe
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Yes, even though it may hurt, it is the right thing. |
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msmelissahernandez28
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I think that you should leave her alone because one she broke that trust with you there is not turning back and you will never be able to trust her again because you will always wonder what she is doing and your going to be so frustrated with your marriage. |
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skiingmom_of6
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IT WOULD BE HARD TO TRUST HER AGAIN, BELEIVE ME; MINE DIDN'T CHEAT ON ME AS SUCH, BUT JUST SNEAKING AROUND, & THEN BACK TO DRINKING; & OUR MARRIAGE IS DISSOLVING SAD TO SAY, COUNSELING DIDN'T EVEN HELP. HOPE THINGS WORK OUT FOR YOU. |
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