My wife and I have recently spilt up. I left because she is having a affair.?

ascoile

Well you said you left, that makes a difference.

Jewells

Probaly but I am not sure. Contact an attroney.

rohak1212

Yep. If you don't live there she's entitled to let anyone she wants live with her.

Unless you want to fight for the house and make her move out you really can't say who lives there with her.

Sorry.

bronzebabekentucky

get a lawyer and stop paying it!

crystal m

hell no!!!!!!!!!! tell her 2 get her out of your house!!!!

GM DEALER

You need to contact your court house, and ask for an attorney. Depends on what state you live in.

FLOYD L

tell her your going to move in the other half of the house and she is going to pay for half the morgage.that are tell her you are going to sell it.or burn it down.

the wise one

if you left on your own accord she can do what she wants,
if you have children the courts will not let you sell the property until the youngest kid is 16,
however if she moves a lover in you will be quids in if your case goes to court for settlement as you could prove adultery easily..
the property would be valued now and once it can be sold she would only get half of the value at todays prices,, less any major repair costs that she helped pay for..

good luck bud

Anchor Cranker

Unfortunately mate you left the family home, there is pretty much nothing you can do. Whatever you do, DO NOT stop paying the mortgage if it is in you name you are still legally responsible under the terms of the mortgage.

Get a good lawyer ASAP!

RichFire 999

An old friend of mine faced the same predicament. He was a fireman and whilst on nights his missus was s*a*ging a copper! He moved out....copper in! He lost everything .....sorry mate...be prepared!

torphins

no i dont think so if she does then she is taking the piss!! if she does move him in stop paying and let her stand on her own too feet cheeky cow!!!

rebel

can you sell the house or ask her to buy you out,tell her you aint having it,i feel like swearing,good luck.

RE Broker

yes she can and you can stop paying the mortgage.....:)

jen

She might be able to because you no longer live there. Definitely get a lawyer because the laws about this sort of thing is different in every state. You have my sympathy in this situation, it certainly isn't fair for you.

sandpipper

Hi look it sounds like you've moved out (i remember your last question) and your not thinking straight at the moment, if your in the UK and he is going to move in and it looks like he is going to tell them they can rent the house from you for the going rate.
this will give some rights I.E. you need a credit check done also a criminal record check mostly because your leaving your child in the house, it will also help you fight your case when and if you have to go to court, it may also show your wife things about him he wouldn't want her to know about.
Right this the way she will play this in court you moved out on your own free will that means you deserted your child and home it will not mater to the courts why you did but you did, really you've got to get back in the house for one if you have a home and a job you will stand a better chance of keeping your child and she will be the one paying child support and not you and your going to know all about that when the CSA get their teeth in to you.
get yourself down to the CAB and get back in doors.
If you need support from some one who has been through what your going through and not just comments email me
Tony

Shortstuff13

She can if she wants to & if you are no longer living there. (You should be in the house not her) It'd be like rubbing salt into your wounds, but some women have no class. I don't know what your plans are but if you're planning on selling your home, & sharing what's left after the home is paid off, if it isn't already, that will lessen the time the guy can live there.

chucknorris905

not if you dont allow it

beverley

i think you will find that yes she can

abc

I don't see how she can since it is still your house and her house, but I doubt she has moral fiber since after all, she is having an affair.........my sympathies!

Put it up for sale!

The Doctors Daughter

seek legal help!... shes screwing you over hun!

BabeHeart

If you aren't living there to stop her, then yeah probably...or if he doesn't move in, nothing to stop him from staying the night from time to time

Unfortunately yes. She can. It's still HER house too. I suggest you get an attourney ASAP and list the house. If she's going to be living there she either needs to buy you out or agree to sell and split the proceeds. The sooner the better. Clearly this marriage is no hope for repair. Sorry to hear this. Good luck to you.

2muchcoffee

Get a lawyer and get a divorce!

stretchskeleton10

no, if you are the one that is paying the mortgage then she should be the one to move out of the house. How inconsiderate of her to actually try and get this guy to move in with her to your house! I would definitely get a lawyer and solve this.

John S

Well she is living there and she can have anyone over that she wants. ANd yes she can do that because she isn't married to him. As long as she doesn't get married and your paying the house well your stuck paying the house. And also why did you leave you should have kicked her out. And you say your smart. well if it was me, I woudl be in my own house watching TV and not worrying about who staying in my house.

Shannon H

She lives in the house, she should pay the mortgage...otherwise, they should go somewhere else to live! I think it's kind of sick that she's moving him into the marital home anyway.

I feel for you. Chin up.

Tom B

Get your *** back in your house! Wait til she is gone, to avoid a fight, go in, lock the doors and then change the locks pretty shnelmacker. Possesion is nine tenths of the law,
Legally she cannot stop you from entering the marital home, like you can't stop her, but don't what ever you do, leave the house! And if she comes back with the new s**t head, restrain yourself from cutting his c**k off and call the police. PS, now is the time to get evidence of the affair, and divorce her cold *** ASAP on the terms of an affair.

Sharon

I suggest that you handle this legally before anything happens..

honda civic

i say go to a lawyer and take back your house that you built and she ruined

bunny

Yes, she probably can <clueless/classless/tasteless as that would be...> You need legal advice IMMEDIATELY...to know your rights...are their children involved? -If so, that should be explored too.

By the way, she's a helluva trollup if she does this...

Grace

Switch

Go back and Kick her out!

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