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My wife begged me to let her "experience" our next door neighbor as her birthday present. I did. Now what?
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My wife begged me to let her "experience" our next door neighbor as her birthday present. I did. Now what?

It started off as a joke, then she wouldn't shut up about it. Finally, two weeks after her birthday, she came in with a tape and wanted me to watch her "birthday gift" to herself. She had taped herself with him and wanted me to "experience" it with her. She said if I got aroused, she'd "take care of me" but she would get to do him again; and if I didn't stir, she'd never touch him again. I couldn't help myself. Now she says "a deal's a deal". Now what?


    




Brown Water Drinker
Well, just show her the tape of you and the neighbors Husband. Then say "ARE YOU JEALOUS NOW!"


Quasimodo
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Chump.


Thats what.

Nice set of horns you have there.


Rick31
Your wife is one sick puppy. Leave her.


LadyRed4u727
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Wow wut have you done.....a can of worms doesnt even begin to describe the problems that you have just created


Siggy1964
You were ignorant enough to give in to begin with, you just gave her carte blanche, to continue. You basically said yeah its okay to cheat on me I gave you my permission. You get what you give, you give what you get. See if she would like it if thats what you wanted to do also. If thats what your both into than I guess that would classify you both as swingers. Vows obviously mean nothing to both of you. Later


ginawinabean
never ever make a deal for your wife to cheat on you. now she's going to think it's ok for her to do it all the time. no matter what she says she can't rub her affair in your face and she can't do it again just because she says a deal is a deal if she keeps doing that divorce her. you just opened the door to hell. she's already showed how much she doesn't love you from what she did.


tinaturner
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Don't be stupid. She was already sleeping with the guy next door.She wanted to let you know.She may have already had the tape put up.If you continue to let her sleep with the guy she may leave you for him one day.Put a stop to it now.


Tiffany D
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Im sorry but leave the B*tch! She wants to sleep with him and be with you. There is no telling what she told this guy for him to sleep with her knowing you two are together. How would she feel if you did that with another women? And did you say it was ok for her to go do this with the neighbor or did she just do it? Im sorry but that shows you no respect. Get out now before she gives you something like a STD.


Slide Ways
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leave her and beat you neighbor down. He knew she was married. AND YOUR STUPID FOR LETTING HER DO IT.


Bridget S
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Cheating is cheating. If she insists on having him, she has to let you go first.


PantherFan
I hope this isn't a real situation...because if it is...I don't see it ending well for your marriage! The damage has been done, and now she wants to do it again? And she taped it! Dump her...and go find yourself a good woman who will respect you and the relationship you have!


Insert clever name here
All of you are sick sick sick!!!


Magicman
Okay...now what?

You allowed it to happen so you shouldn't be so alarmed. She did bring it to your attention before it happened and you couldv'e said no but you didn't.


THE BLONDE WITCH PROJECT
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Why don't you all just have a threesome together?........I'm sure you and your wife would forever cherish watching the video of you all bumping uglies with your next door neighbor ....It could be your anniversary gift to your wife........


Esther
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Have you ever heard the phrase; "Once a cheater always a cheater"?

If she did it once, statistically she will do it again. Maybe not with him next time. And maybe next time she'll bring home a present like HIV or an STD


HHH
where is ur manhood? where are ur b*lls son, did she take them from u and destroyed them herself? well being at the bottom of the listwhat i will tell u is this, u need to leave her. u need to find a family member where u can stay w/ for awhile until u can get back on ur feet or kick her out. she has been sleeping w/ this guy all along but tis time she told u about it and then the kicker is she taped it. i dont care how many times she begged or pleaded dont take her abck. the trust is gone. u need to get some courage and some self esteem and take the bull by the horns. she has disrespected u and sh*tted all over u. dont take the b*llsh*t anymore. as for the neighbor, what is done is done. u dont need to go to jail behind some sl*t wh*re, she aint worth it. u better get tested my friend because she may have given u an std or worse aids or hiv and right now they dont have a sure for that.

after u get the divorce and get back on ur feet take some time to urself . have fun then when ur ready for the next girl that comes in ur life u will know what u want and u wont have to settle like u did w/ the wh*re u had. there are good women out there and u just have to find them.


marypoppins
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you opened a can of worms......


something fishy
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I bet every guy on the block is a happy camper with her as a neighbor, ask her to show you the other tapes...lol..you'll have to move when the rumors start flying


manny
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This is not the first time she did with the other neighbor too !


Linda C
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Tell her good bye because she don't love you and you don't love her! This is no way for married people to act, get you a stan by woman so you can have your on birthday party. then get a divorce~


mas172413
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I would tell you wife how you really feel about it. Tell her you don't like it. If she wants to experience it again then you will look for a lawyer. She needs to respect how you feel! Or ask if she wants to watch you with someone else. Or join in. Tell her the only way she can experience it is if you can join!!!


I am the Walrus
Sounds like you married a tramp!

And it sounds like you need to be assertive with her - she sounds like she wears the pants and dominates you!

If she's giving you the heads-up and whining like a baby about having an affair w/ someone else, why don't you have the courage or guts to stop her in her tracks, why do you give in to her whims?????

You need to boost up your confidence quite drastically, because if you don't leave her now - she's bound to give you some VD very soon, and then what?


b4
START LOOKING FOR YOUR NEXT EX. -- YOU SCREWED UP


Racer
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LOL... you made your own bed, now sleep in it dude !!

ps... good story writing by the way..........





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