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My wife cheated on me with more than one person. she says she is done cheating, will she stop?
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My wife cheated on me with more than one person. she says she is done cheating, will she stop?


no, have you ever been unfaithful to her?

willow, the yodakitty from hell
I don't think so , but I don't know her, so it is hard to say ...

I wish I could say she would but I can tell you from experience that she won't. She has crossed a line and every time she crossed that line to cheat it got easier and easier. She may stay true to you for awhile but eventually she will be tempted again and that line will be so easy for her to cross once again. I know it hurts but you are better off ending things now than trying to work them out with her.

I always say once a cheater, always a cheater - you're better off finding someone who will treat you better. Some things are worth working out but she has cheated on you with multiple people. You deserve better.

No, you think staying with her now will make you happy, but in the long run, it'll just bring you so much more pain. You should respect yourself more, and protect yourself more. There are good faithful women out there, just got to look a little bit and find one! I got a feeling you're wrapped up in your wife's looks, a pretty face doesn't mean a pretty heart!

Kraken Uramen
I don't think so, Jack.

let me answer this way simply no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no never never

problemly not but don't let her get you down try to work it out if not set her free. one time cheat yeah she can stop but more than once i dout it.

Truth Hurts
You already know the answer to that question soldier boy. No. What made her cheat all those other times? Lonliness? Boredom?
What will happen when she experiences whatever those feelings were again? She is not done. And you won't be able to trust her either.

2 me a person will never change but others disagree, she will still cheat or not but its up 2 u 2 find out, give her a second chance or tell her u dont want ur feelings hurt again that she need 2 get the steppin.

probably not.

Probably not.

Once a cheater always a cheater, if she really loved you then she would have never done it the first time and then a second time. You need to move on and find someone who will respect you.

HELL NO she will not.

No offense to you but once a sl ut always a sl ut. sad but true.

Once a cheater...

more than one..no..better keep an eye on her.

once a cheater always a cheater....they have a tendency to cheat and find that "excitement" knowing they might get away with it.

if she stops, are you able to get over it and forgive her completely?

I am so sorry that you have had to deal with such pain. I know it isn't easy.

Since she has cheated on you multiple times I believe your wife needs counseling to get to the root of why she cheats. And you both need marriage counseling to expose the root of the cheating and find a way of healing and reconciling.

Please pray this prayer (Beliefnet.com):

Dear God,
You have defined my desire: to be of immeasurable value to my spouse. Guide me in the ways that lead to this richness in relationship, and be glorified in my every effort.

I want to honor my spouse--and you--through my behavior. How can I do that today? Please show me and empower me.
Amen. ~~~ Heather Kopp | Source: "God's Little Book of Guarantees for Marriage" (Multnomah).

I pray that you and your wife can heal from all that has caused this painful rift in your marriage. God bless you both!

thats a big negative and time to take that negativity out of your life buddy

she's probably out banging someone right now!

You need to cheat on her ...show her who's the man.....let her feel what you felt....then if she ever cheat on you again...find someone else...good luck!

l dont think she will. maybe its time to think about parting and both move on ,

depends....how long ago was the last time? what was the reason? did she seem sincere?

nope, sounds like she cant control herself! you guys need marriage counseling or a divorce. try counseling first.

Once a cheater, always a cheater. I'm sorry to say, but I see a divorce in your future.

Get into some marriage couseling and also get some blood test done - make sure she didn't bring home something like AIDS...

If you thought she would stop you wouldn't have asked this question. You know the answer. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. If they do it once they will do it over and over again. Get out and don't look back.

You need to go to counseling and resolve whatever issues caused her to cheat. There is a reason she did it, and you need to find out why and work to change it.

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