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My wife cursed at me in morning on my way to work?

Friday morning when i got up around 4:30am and was getting dresses i was making noise getting dressed q walking around etc and she started to curse me about waking her up and she said that she wish that i wrap my car around a pole then later when i return home from work and was going to sleep she raise the volume loud on the tv so i cant sleep then she poured water on me while i was trying to sleep what should i do ?


    




Vanity Affaire
Sounds like you have a wife with a bad case of pms, buy her some tampons and some midol and tell her to plug it up.


[♥]
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Tell her to stop that behavior.
it is a bit childish.
and that you dident mean to wake her up


I See You
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Get some counseling post haste.


Sthephen P
Seperate beds may be a good idea!


curiousN
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You poor thing, that's no way to treat someone you love. Evidently, she knows she can get away with this type of behavior towards you, and will continue to abuse your love for her.

Marriage should be founded on love and respect and if she doesn't respect you, trying to be considerate at 430am, then, you really don't have a marriage, just an abusive relationship that will continue as long as you tolerate it.

Ask yourself: What keeps me here, is this the kind of life I want for myself? I sure hope, not.

Good luck in your decision and God Bless!


KB
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I think what you should be asking is what is the REAL problem here? Very childish behavior on her part - I see counseling ahead for you two.


ChemoAngel
Tell her she'll be sorry when you're gone. My aunt and uncle had a huge fight the day he died of a Massive Heart Attack, you can bet she changed her tune when she found him dead. Tell her petty arguments are worthless, and what comes around goes around.


pam w
i think you should sit down talk with her let her know that the things she is saying @ doing are hurtful let her know that you meant no harm when you woke her up while you trying to get ready for work


chuckie3003
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hey man... you gotta stand up and be a man... let your wife know that you will not be demasculinated in any way... you probably have stood up to her before she is going to disrespect you and do you like that until you stand up to her.... plus women like to be told off... they love a deep authoritative voice putting them in check....


tony_le12
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for the fact, if you wish to win lottery it is hard. Disaster intending to following every one of us.

Will be less cruelty if she just file for divorced instead of wish some thing will happen to you. you should starting to open all drunks and closets in the house to see if she is already have a man there


sophia_of_light
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Is it done with humor? Tell her you think both of you are lacking some...

Tell her you think it's time to seek marriage counseling and that it seems as though there are some issues that need to be worked out. If I were you I'd go threw with the counseling b/c if there are problems like this now without the humor there will be more to come... Sorry to say and good luck...


LIFE
tell her its not a competion!


kelannde
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She was (not so subtly) trying to tell you to KEEP THE NOISE DOWN in the morning when you get up.

Learn to compromise. Learn to be respectful of each other. Try to be quiet when she is sleeping, and she will try to be quiet when you are sleeping.

It's called "compromising" and it's a very important part of every mature relationship.


~Preggo with ma #2~
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hello talk to her to see what is bothering her that she is acting like this!


PattyAnn
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The fact that you wrote to the list instead of working it out, tells me a lot about your marriage. Your marital problems are between the two of you.
She has a side in this story too, and I'd like to hear both. You both need to grow up.
It sounds like you are headed for divorce court. Your marriage is not what it should or could be.
Good luck to both of you. I hope there are no children at home too. :-(


matzldy
wow. There are some deep issues in this marriage.
Seems strange that your wife would just start this out of nowhere. Have the two of you been having problems? If not, I would definitely have a chat with her. I don't know what the schedules are in your home, but if she is on a separate sleep pattern than you, it may be more considerate of you to get ready in another room.
I do believe this stems from something more deep, though. Do some digging and find out what's going on with her.


pr0qu0
People can be very moody when they are woken up too early. Some people can even be in a dream like state for the first few minutes they wake up. Most times they are not even aware that they did or said anything out of order.

I had a friend who was the nicest person I ever met. But if you'd wake him up in the morning he'd kick and curse you! Later that day he'd have no recollection of it at all! It was like he had been sleep-walking.

I think you should talk to her about it. See if she even remembers what happened. odds are she doesn't. If she's otherwise a good woman, give her the benefit of the doubt!


macy
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Give her a smack round the head and then kick the ***** through the door and her clothes after her.


pimpplayer4ever
Well something similar happened to me like 2 weeks ago thoough! But I think she just mad at you and she's tryin' get get revenge for what you did to her when she was tryin to sleep, nuthin more though. Just mess around with her and everything should be just fine trust me! Thats what I did!


godofwar2masterR
grow some balls!


dark eyes
Maybe try being quieter in the morning...have your items you'll need for the day laid out the night before. Losing sleep makes anyone grouchy.


Love Me Or Hate Me...I Dont Care
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Take a drive and wrap your car around a pole. Make her regret saying it.

OR

(recommended). Talk to her and see why the f she is doing this to you. Can't find out anything if no communication is going on.


Wudbiser
dude, you married a bytch


Rick M
Grow a set and pack up her things ...tell her she can come back when she grows up! Sounds like she doesn't respect you at all so kick her out


John S
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Payback is a B****.

Maybe you should try to make less noise at 4:30am!

My teenage kids used to make noise at all hours and I had to get up early for work. So when I would leave and they were sleeping soundly I would turn the stereo on full blast and go to work. They learned to be more considerate.


#1 stepmom
Set up some household rules. She seems to need her sleep. Put your clothes in another room, and get dressed in that other room. Try your best to be quiet, but don't get me wrong-you shouldn't let her pour water on you and she shouldn't hope you get into an accident either. The 2 of you have issues to work on.


dialovesu
hahahahah sorry but ur wife sux!! lol n also she is trying to get bak at u for wat u did!!! dude she is evil!! hahahaha all i can do is feel sorry for u!


chiney cheeks
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How long have you been married to a psycho??? Maybe she needs some space or she just hates you and doesn't want you anymore. Or she could be pms. You two need to talk. Sit down with her and ask her why she's behaving so irrational.


fantasyFreak
i think she may be a little stressed! you could try to talk to her, maybe there is a problem or you have one and do not know it, maybe she is moody beacuse she is pregnant.. try and ask her it'll help!


freakyanimeluver
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that's what angry women can do so don't piss them off. xD





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