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Valerie
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Introduce her to your wife's boyfriend. |
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Faraasa
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leave the state or something craaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaazy may happen |
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♥ Sunshine ♥
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you cheated on her and she still is keeping your sorry ***? |
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luvlisteningtomusic
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First of all this should of not of happened but you probably know that by now. If this woman knows that you are married she is partly to blame as well. Stop calling her will be a big clue, if she calls you tell her you want to work on your marriage. I suggest you go to marriage counciling. Hopefully your wife will be able to trust you again. |
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robert_ranchero
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Well, I guess you stepped in it didn't you. Why did you get married if you didn't love her? You're on your own on this one, buckwheat. |
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flash
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How should you do it? Is this a joke? Do it with your tail between your legs, and do anything possible in your power to help her with this situation. If you have kids, which I pray you don't, let them know that you clearly made a mistake, and that you've let them and their mother down greatly. Congratulations on destroying your marriage. |
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teresa d
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u r not asking this ? duh leave the g/f if u love your wife do the right thing |
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Lara C
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I CAN'T BELIEVE U WERE CHEATING ON UR WIFE- IM SURPRISED UR WIFES NOT BREAKING UP WITH U-right ladies?-u should be ashamed!!!!! |
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Answerer
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tel her in da face |
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brian h
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count your lucky stars you still have a wife |
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linetap
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Tell her that you are married. Or you could always tell her that you're gay. |
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darcy179
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My question is are you happy with your wife? No matter how you tell your girlfriend you will break her heart. I could bet you money that you and your girlfriend get back together. Because most men that cheat on their wives are not happy and now that she knows about your girlfriend she will make your life miserable. So make the right decision the first time. |
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♥♥♣BABY GIRL♥♥♣
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well u did some bad and if she don't want u can't blame her 4 it.but hope it works out 4 u.goodluck |
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sleftout
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Wow your wife must really loe you.........I told my ex no need to leave the girlfriend you two can have each other.....sad thing is once a cheat always a cheat.....now he has cheated on that girlfriend and she destroyed his home.....so you need to really look long and hard at your life.....if she loves you enough to stay with you......then maybe you need to change your ways..... |
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halocraze86
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Tell her that you love your wife and the vow you made to her on your wedding day is more important than a little piece of a** on the side. |
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prince47
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you have break-up, otherwise your life will be broken, that is family life. |
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Tarabeara
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Figure it out on your own. Cheating when your married is soooooooooo stupid. |
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bosslady17872
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well you lousy louse, she should be forcing you to leave, she is way to generous..if ya do it once you will do it always i hope she throws your a** out in the street, you and your little ? |
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♠♣♥Rogue♣♥â™
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Your wife is as dumb as your girlfriend is. I would have kicked you out and taken you for everything your worth. |
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goldwing
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Does the word, "Bye, C'ya" bring any thoughts to mind??? You could add, "Was good while it lasted." You might also say, "Thanks for the memories." You also should start practicing saying, "But, your honor...." because I suspect you have not heard the last of this one, no matter what you do. Good luck |
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you know me..
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pice of $h!t ur lucky she even wants to stay with u...
you better make up ur mind and maybe leave your wife she deserves way better.... |
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bdmrplemons
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Well does she even know that you are married? If she does then she should understand, but if not then Well your a F%@#$% DUCK |
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olive_olive_72
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u go to her and tell your girlfrined that my wife found out about u and i want to work on my marriage so u got to go. and thank god everyday that your wife is willing to work with u which by the way will take a lot of hard work on your part. she will never trust u again. you are very lucky that she is giving u a second chance. |
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totallylost
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Pray she don't go "Fatal Attraction" on you for sure. You are one lucky man to have a forgiving wife, and I hope you are asking because you don't want to hurt the girlfriend's feelings. Or did you tell you were married? Did you tell her you were leaving your wife for her? I sure hope you told her you were married, and she just thinks this wasn't for keeps. You don't know about people now days, but I would do it soon. Tell the truth for once and ask her forgiveness to if you have lied to her as well. Then go give the time you spent on your girlfriend to wife, because, she is the one who deserves it! Please be careful, and talk to your wife if you are having problems, or let her go and find someone who would love her like she needs...not when you want to! I am sorry, I am not being very nice, but I am trying to help. You admitted your mistake, and the biggest step, now you have to fix things...God bless.... |
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sparkles
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Not talk to this girlfriend anymore and probably fess up and tell your girlfriend that you are married and that she was a mistake. Go to counseling with your wife. And keep to your wife. You are lucky she isn't divorcing you over this. |
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dukeofhmong
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Dude, that's crazy man. Adultry right there! I won't bash you because you had the guts to post this question on Answers, but that's just bad man. I'm married myself and I love the woman I'm with. Is there something in your marriage life that's not complete? Because the reason why most married couples look for others is because that other person can offer something that he/she does not have in their marriage. I suggest that you leave your girlfriend and stick to your wife. Try some marriage counseling, if all doesn't work out, then divorce your wife and go out with your girlfriend, but I warn you, the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Hopefully there are no kids involved, because if there is, take into consideration that you'll be putting the kids through a lot if you were to get a divorce. Luckly for you, your wife does not want to get a divorce, which means that she still loves you and is giving you a second chance. Second chances don't come around a lot, so make sure to take it and change for the better. Whatever you decide to do, good luck and god bless you. |
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bea
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If you really love your wife you need to break it off completely,and something you need to think about is if you really love your wife why do you have another girlfriend,you are lucky your wife is giving you a chance because any other woman would tell ya to get your sorry a ss out and don't come back.Your wife obviously loves you very much to give you a second chance if I were you a would not mess it up. Especially if you have kids together.I think you need to treat your wife with alot of respect and kindness from now on,I don't know your whole situation like if she has done this to you or not but just think about if you truly want to be with your wife or your girlfriend.Who has done more for you and put up with all your problems in your life and who will stand beside you through the good times and the bad.good luck |
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MARIANNE G
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I recommend honesty: why did you have to have a girlfriend and be a married guy? You should look at that question honestly and not try to play games. You have ended up hurting the feelings of 2 women, and that is really unfair. Try to look at that issue and then make a decision. Are you unhappy with your wife? Did you do it because of the thrill? Or do you miss something in your marriage that your girlfriend had? Only when you are able to answer these questions to yourself, will you be able to make the right decision. Any man who cheats has an issue to take care of, and so you need to take care of that with honesty. Then talk to your girlfriend being honest with her--not trying to tell her something that's not true(i.e. I love you but....). Because in essence are you taking the chance from her to meet someone else who is not married.
Well, I wish you the best of luck.... |
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