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My wife got into a tragic car accident that burned 70% of her body. She no longer has hair and her beautiful?

face is gone. She looks like Freddy Krugger. She cries every night wishing the accident never happened. She tells me all the time that she does not feel beautiful anymore and would not blame me for leaving her. My question is I already hired a lawyer to prepare my divorce papers. How should I break this news to my wife. Me and her best friend are getting very close & I want to move on with my life. (The picture above is how she use to look)


    




dollynjanie
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You are a worthless piece of crap. To bad it wasn't you...


portuguesebolha
you are an idiot. These are the times your wife NEEDS you...you married her after her face and hair??? You are a selfish man. People are beautiful even without a pretty face and its not like it was a fault. She can always get plastic surgery and find a new husband, because she deserves better then you. By the way, why are you going to hurt her even more by going out with her bestfriend? You are a dumbass. Wake Up

and I think you are getting this oportunity of her being in pain, to **** her friend. You are trash


lifeislove
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You are wrong. I am sorry. What happened to better or worse,sickness and health, 'till death do us part? She needs you now more than ever BUT if you are out of love with her it's best to let her know so she can prepare herself. Thew only way to do it is face to face. I feel really sorry for her. Hopefully she will meet a man that loves her for who she is and not her looks.


lookin_for_my_thong_panties
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Thanks for the points loser


amanda m
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you need to be slapped. she needs your support and her supposed best friend. wrong on your part


chartley
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I am not going to judge you because I don't know how you feel or who you are and I am not perfect either.

I'm just going to answer your question which is be compassion and sensitive about her feeling. Think how you would be treated if you were the one in the accident.

For all the people who are quick to judge this man, who is married or dating someone who face is burned and disfigured? I am not saying it is alright, just be compassionate toward this man just as you are with his wife.


meatball288001
Bad enough that you are stepping out on your wife, when she needs you the most, but why with her, so call best friend.
Might as well send the news with a person that your wife hates. You done a the rest of stabbing her in the back your self.


Poser, Scene, Emo Kid
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i agree with number 3. how could you leave her in her greatest time of need for her best friend?


angel
omg why are you leavin her.its not her fault why she looks and feels that way.you are supposed to be with her for better or worse.


Coffee-Infused Insomniac
Mr. Maaarrrkkk nnneeeeeedssss tooooo beeee baaarrrbeeecuuuueeeddd

Anyway, if I was your wife, I wouldn't want you around. I'd burn you.


jmminnc
The women that have stated what they have here have not walk in your shoes. I can assure you if the places were changed they would be out the door so fast.

I do think you are faced with a hard choice. I'm sorry I can not say How to do it. That is just some thing you must do alone.


Ready2Go
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Wow, so I guess you never loved her in the first place. Ask yourself this, would she be leaving you if it were you in that hospital bed??? The only reason she says you should leave is because she can't stand how you look at her and she is terrified that you will reject her. She is trying to prepare herself for the abandonment you are about to make. Trust me when I say she will still be shocked and hurt when you leave and you will probably be taking her last ounce of hope with you.


~love u~
did u fall in love with the way she looks or with her the person she really is. put Ur self in her shoes how would u feel if she left u for Ur best friend when u need her the most


SuNnY BlOnDe
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excuse me....you look like freddy kruger..the best friend must be desperate...ohh man....


kimberhill
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I think you are a liar.

Either that or an a*hole. If this is real then it sounds like you only married her for her looks. In which case she is better off.


Baghdaddy
I guess the Marriage Vows are not important.


olin1963
Your wife's tragedy is not the loss of her physical beauty. It is the loss of the time she has devoted to you in error. Doesn't she deserves someone who cares about her unconditionally? Do you think that you would deserve that?

But to answer the question, I would say that you should write her a letter telling her that you do not deserve love at all yourself so you cannot love her either.

WK


Mr nice guy 2U
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YOU have a very poor sense of humor . Not at all funny , but you have to be kidding cause no human being could be so cruel as to leave their spouse when your needed most


kitty512
OMG! When she needs you the most. I am trying not to be selfish here and I understand must be difficult. But, didn't you fall in love with the person inside and not her looks? She probably needs you more than ever. You are not only divorcing her, but you are going with her best friend and that is really wrong. If you ever cared for her I would suggest you putting those divorce papers on hold for a minute until she is able to understand what is really going on.


ninjadanielsan03
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See all the replies above and think about the Karmic consequences of your actions. Oh, and hope it never happens to you!


Optimistic
Pity! This means you don't love her for who she is! Think how much you will break her heart! You want to get on with your life? Well listen up mister optimistic, if you were in her position right now would you want you to leave her! She probably loves you and wants you with her, not say " where over!" I bet your the most stone hearted person ever. You don't feel one bit pity for that poor women! Shame on you~ Marry the devil for all I care but your wife-to-be-dumped will curse you. She will bid you a horrible life!


nis
i agree with every answer above. put yourself in her shoes how would you feel.


Izzy
I think you should leave and go with her best friend, you certainly both deserve each other. I pray your wife heals and finds someone who is a decent human being. She will be better off without you and her so called friend.


kw11
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Yea. great plan, you evil piece of sh#t.
P.S.- Her face is probably better looking than yours. Burns and all.


SimplyWhite
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How can you say 'she looks like Freddy Krugger'.
Just remember 'what goes around comes around' and in the end you will pay for everything you've done.
The situation must be difficult, but you married that woman for her looks and you don't deserve to be with her.
If it was you in the accident, I don't think that your wife would ever do such thing to you.
It's your life, but you just bertrayed the person who loves you I don't know how you're going to live after that.





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