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Jack B
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It is to be expected that a man will wander, but for a woman to do this is indicative of deep emotional troubles. Such a woman is best left alone. |
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cmdrbnd007
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Dude, both, you need to find out if she wants to continue in her marriage with you and you need to determine if you do also. Good luck. |
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cathy
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Even if nothing else really did happen (which it might not have) you still have every right to be mad at her. If she gives you an honest apology then of course you should try to forgive her but it doesn't sound like shes even done that. You shouldn't have to be worrying about something like that at all. If you guys really love each other then it might be a good idea for you to tell her about how you feel and then have a discussion about the direction and meaning of your marriage. I know it doesn't sound fun but in order to have a mutually supportive relationship you guys should be able to trust each other.
I really hope that things work out well for you and that you guys can work your way through this. :) |
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Leslianna
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well usually when people say it never happened or thats all that happened it usually means they are LYING!!! so maybe you should watch her only when shes around him but be camoflouged( spelling?) good luck |
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Captgoody
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This is what I wrote 15yrs ago when I found out...
" Really, I had it made pretty well, you know? I guess I should be glad I found out about her when I did, because sooner or later I would have found out. But who am I kidding? Who would ever be glad to find out that his wife of fifteen years was having an adulterous affair? And after all we've been through together… all that we've shared… why would she abandon me now when I need her the most?
I know I have to resolve this matter before it drives me insane. I have to stop thinking of the magic’s we shared. The magic that gave us insight into each other that no one else will ever posses."
This can eat you alive. Prepare yourself. Do not blame yourself for things that you can't change or control. You can not be responsible for other peoples actions. Never let your happiness depend on others. You are in control of NO ONE but YOURSELF.
DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF!!!!!!!!! |
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james o
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wow man that's sad. well yeah you should be worry.. but i think you should do something... she might have a crush on him.. but you still her man.... maybe she wants a little of action... kind of like when you both we bf and gf... you were more sweet and romantic... so she missed it... just try to get to have more fun with her.. and make her forget about that boss... she is yours all you need to do is to make her have fun.. and make her an unbelievable day... |
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inconsiderate_***
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That alone is grounds for a divorce. I would kick her to the curb, but that's just me. |
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prncessstina
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I think that your wife and possibly you as well need to find employment else where. There definitely needs to be talk about what happened and why it happened in order to move forward from the incident. You have every right to be concerned and this is not acceptable behavior. We all make mistakes but we need to own up to them and be completely honest if we have the hope of moving forward. You may want to consider counseling...this could be the tip of the ice berg and I don't say that to scare you but to be proactive and nip this thing in the bud right here, right now. I firmly believe couples can work through anything so long as both parties are willing to work through it and put forth the time and effort. |
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chanelle
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she is so not worth it, ditch her |
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pablo_asawa
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well she is honest..she kissed her boss
yes i would be worried...as she will probably do it again and probably more went down..(no pun intended) but you already know this...good luck...it could get ugly for everybody as this is against most company's rules..unless he owns the company and then you are really screwed..check out labor relations...this is not going to go well for anyone...but at least you showed them that you have rights too |
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you either need to leave now before something else does happen and you get really hurt or you need to get her away from that job and make sure she stays away from him
why is everyone telling him to get a divorce you don't even know the whole situation |
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Heads up!
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Don`t trust her she is lying , more is happening and she wants that raise.. Get a private investigator to find out what else is happening.
Also have a chat with lover boy boss man. |
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Willie M
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invite hi over for drinks one evening and maybe the 3 of u can get it on. |
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sloegin
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Honey, kissing is cheating too. |
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emo eyes
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she is already cheating. What a witch. Leave now cause she is on her way out. |
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Private P
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I would file for divorce, immediately. |
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Ivan S
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Kick her to the curb! |
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just curious
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if she didn't want anything more to do with her boss, she would've left the job as soon as it got personal and she would've felt too guilty to stay on. obviously that's not the case here. dump her. imagine, she does that and YOU, her husband, works in the same office! wow! she's probably humping the boss in your bed when you are working late too!! get out, now. |
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SMH
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Once a cheater, always a cheater. Cut you losses and get out now. What's next? The paper boy, the grocery clerk? People like you wife should not be married. If she cannot honour her vows, get out now before she makes you look even more like a fool. The boss is probably laughing behind your back because it happened right under your nose.
Get rid of her and find someone who will treat you with the respect that you deserve and who will love you and only you.
Good luck to you! |
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cinnamon35
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I always tell people to go with their first mind. She was very bold to do something like that and you all work for the same company. If you didn't see her acting like she did sooner or later whatever they would do together behind your back would come to the light. I would ask my boss straight out. If he had no regard of your feelings and kissed your wife then I don't see why you can't go to him and ask him if he has slept with your wife. That is if you really want to know the truth. Yes you should be worried. Because anytime a person crosses the line in a relationship as far as feelings go other things are bound to happen if they haven't already. |
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Raven Hood®
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I agree with James, sometimes we are so busy working we neglect the person most imprtant to us and they turn to other sources to look for attention. Give her attention mate, just be lovey-dovey and all that. Also, remember to talk to her about your feelings and make sure she gets it into her head. See what happens then and decide again what your going to do. |
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Lilly_girl22
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well you should trust her but do tell her that you felt uncomfortable and hurt. if she does it again then still try to work things out. god doesn't want you to get a divorce. |
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daninn
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i'd be well pissed if my gf kissed another man. ask her why and how she could do a ithing like that |
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jimbobo676
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ummm well seeing as to how she confessed that she kissed I wouldnt see much more harm in telling everything else if there was anything i would think but then again i dont kjnow. if she loves you then she needs to stop if she loves him file for divocre and be done with it. just in this situation do what will make you happiest in the long run is all i can say. and go with what you know is all. |
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Dirty Martini
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Trust your gut you know the people involved better than we do.
Tell her she is a) finding another job and b) going to a marraige counselor or
c) you are getting a divorce |
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jeffgln
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Ask her about and if she says yes , talk to your boss or threat to leave her.(you have to be careful women are crazy liers) |
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joyceeleann
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No..moment is over ..move on...she isn't messing around..if she wasnt she wouldn't of admitted it.. |
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Billy Z
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Trust your marrige and wife.. dont do anything for a bit, but make sure to keep an eye on her at work!!!! mAKE WATCHIN HER SEEM casual. |
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