My wife has left. she is pregnant 5 moths?

Chrissie

maybe she does really love you, but is overwhelmed by the situation. she doesnt want to be pregnant, so may be taking the stress out on you. maybe she doenst know what else to do, and her hormones are ranging like crazy.. try to relax a bit. dont try to commit suicide. think about the kid you're going to have.. why would you kill yourself and let the kid be fatherless? give your wife some time.. also, call her or leave her a message or text to let her know you love her, and you know she's stressed out and her hormones are making her very emotional, but you love her no matter what and you'll always be there for her, always. and let her know that having a baby might not be so bad. tell her some of the good things the three of you can do in the future & let her see how having a baby can be fun! hopefully, she'll come around..

maiden_and_sabbath

dont kill urself

Thum-Thum

You need to find a cousellor and discuss how you are feeling. How about a close friend or family member!??

Ending your life is not the answer.

jessybaby023

Not killing urself... Is it really worth it.. she is carrying ur kid... Soon enough she will realize that she needs you.. there was a reason for what she did.. She needs time alone time to think... She does not want to hear about u wanted to kill yourself and thats going to make her and the baby stressed neither of them need that... DONT DO IT got to someone... go to counsiling... something...

sona

i understand the situation because the same thing happened to me i didn't want to get pregnant but i did....and after i did i was happy about it...its a gods gift to us...why didn't she want a child and worst come to worst if she still doesn't wanna come back ...than have good relationship with your child this is no reason to end your life you can't change what happened. try try try your best to talk it out with her.GOOD LUCK

alexis christian

ITS NOT DIFFICULT TO END LIFE.... BUT YOU HAVE TO STAY IN HELL FOR ETERNITY. so please don't

aneurodoc125

Why punish yourself because your wife is so immature she cannot handle the idea of a child? You need to be concerned about the welfare of your child right now. I suggest you contact an Attorney who specializes in Family matters. Your kid is going to need you. Man up.

srilanka_everquest

it is very hard, in fact I know what you are going through, but you just have to trek through it, you are about to be a father, so get your nursery together, and start going to church and counseling. It will get better, but it will be a long while, if you need someone to talk I'm available

Babs

Killing yourself is not the answer to getting your wife back. You need to talk to her and work out your prob. Deffinately see a counselor.

MiamiBoy84

She is either doing that for attention or she really does not love you. There is no such thing as working in a relationship, once it is over, it is over. Just think of your child from now on and for that, you need to be in good terms with her.

Determinedlittlelady

Pray

Elaine S

Dont end your life. Go out there and get this girl. If you truly love her then dont give up so easily. And atleast if she didnt want to be pregnant then go get her back and tell her that you want your kid with you as soon as the kids is born so that the baby can be with someone who wants them. But talk to her, just dont give up so easy. Women get very emotional and change when they are pregnant. But whatever you do, dont end your life, your baby is going to need you in his/her life no matter what happens.

lela

you need to talk to a professional about this they can help you .. but i will say ending you life is not the right solution

pinky

u r taking the wrong solution. this is not the rite way, try to convince her. Take her somewhere outside and talk to her freely and explain her how much u love her, Wait for sometime she will understand u and ur problem will get solved soon.

Peter B. Giblett

Firstly - do not do anything crazy.

One of the biggest problems for anyone to face is the difference of views between two people. I have been where you are in the past and believe me the best thing you can do is take time.

As your Ex is 5 months pregnant she may at this time be going through hormonal changes and this may affect her mood. Give her the space she needs, but keep at arms length, without stalking her. Offer support when you think she may need it.

If however she really does not want you around, then maybe this says something about your attitude towards her. I would look into how you have approached this whole period, learn by it and move on. I know you probably do not want to hear this but there are other women out there who may be right for you.

Unblindisback

Alonzo, give your unborn child lots of love. God is love. You were created out of love. When you created your child you created with love for your wife as well. Don't give up on yourself nor your child. My friend open your heart to God and he will help you. He has helped me I am going through painful divorce but God has been answering my prayers little by little in his OWN Way. Pray to God every day and read the bible. Love yourself and committ yourself to being the best DAD.

comingbacksoon

as hard as it will be,you need to take a few deep breaths and calm down. Your wife is going through a very emotional, irrational time right now because of her hormones and the fear of haveing an unwanted pregnancy. You must forget about yourself for the moment and be there for her and give her what she needs, whether it be some space from you or just a shoulder to cry on. If you put her needs 1st, as irrational as she may be, if she doesnt get pressure from u to have to meet your needs, in time she will calm down and come back, but i stress it is important not to burden her at the moment or u will drive her away even more. Let her yell, let her cry, let her do what ever she wants at the moment to help her get her fear and what ever she is feeling out. Once she does this she will calm down. you need to be strong for her and your babt right now, not the other way around. Im sure she loves u, she is just crazy right now

lex

don't kill yourself..
maybe you should see a therapist

sand

i don't know if this is a joke but stop---- your getting ready to kill yourself because she left you-- and you took the time to type this well you better straight up and call a help line or talk to someone -- it is not that serious -- and if it is a joke it is not a good one --man up -- I see why she left you -- sorry but you asked what should you do -- live !!!!!!!!!!!

trugangsta1992

Well one... don't kill your self very bad idea you have to be there for your child it is your right i mean if it isn't yours you can do better than her maybe she's hiding something i feel awful for you don't kill your self =/ and sleeping pills are best. no pain

Lica R

Woman can go a bit loopy when they are pregnant. Just let it run its course and maybe go into couples counseling. You are going to be connected to this woman for the rest of your life because of this baby. Whether she likes it or not!

Nicole J

I think you should try to focus on your child. maybe that will help.

THE political scientist man

I would highly suggest seeing a psychologist and talking to them. I know you might think this is useless, but by talking you can straighten everything out in your head and by doing that you will put yourself on the right path. Also, I am sure that once you are thinking with your head straight your wife will be much more willing to talk to you. Do not make any rash decisions and please see someone. You will be very happy you did looking back on it. Good luck man.

Alfred C

Hey dude ending your life is not the way out. Everybody out there has had some ***** break our hearts. You'll get over it and life goes on. If she left you and put you in this pain and misery why would you want her in the first place? I know times are tough right now but it will get better. Also seek a lawyer and get child custody rights. She's a nut.

m@d_c0w

Let her know that you want to be a part of the baby's life and that you will do anything to help her. All you can do is show that you care.

joshua a

man, you need to realize that ending your life is not the answer. once you leave her and decided to end your life, it may have a great effect on her and your child.

she may be very angry that's why she left you, but time could only tell how both of you can handle such situation.

if you really love her, you must also love your soon-to-be-born child. hang on, not for any body else but for you and your family especially your child.

joe r

dont take your life
thats the wussy way out of things
man up and talk to her about whats going on
maybe she doesnt want kids
theres always adoption
give her 3 days with no contact from you
then call her and try to talk

Iylenas

Every single thing that happens to us in this life is for a reason. For one thing, pregnancy changes the way a woman thinks and feels about things. She may have already felt the way she does now, but the pregnancy just heightened everything. Take some time away, and let her have some space. Set yourself up in a small space somewere, a Hotel Room, that's all I have, I pay $490 a month, and I am perfectly happy. I have been divorced for 8 years now, and I am much happier, because now I get to live my life for myself. This is some sort of lesson for you, and suicide is not the answer, because if you take that route, you will have to be born into this life again, and learn the same lesson which is being dealt to you right now, but next time, it will be harder, because you will have to start all over again, from being a Baby, and work up to this lesson. Read "Sylvia Browne," for more on our lifes lessons. Put your heart into something you like to do, maybe a craft, a hobby, read, especially, I want you to get your hands on as many Sylvia Browne books as you can, and start reading them. If you are weak, go lay down and read. You need to go for walks, get fresh air, no booze, and eat vegetables, fruit, and grains, to stay healthy. One never knows when things in this life will change. It could change tomorrow, and she could realize that she has made a mistake, you will have taken the suicide route, and then you won't be there, when she decides she wants to resume things. What you should do, is to quiet your mind. Think about a mantra, listen to music, and read. If you know what sign you are, look up alabe.com and do a chart on yourself, and see what is going on in your life. Also, astrology.com, has compatibility reports, and you could type your information into the computer, and your wifes info, and see if you can recognize a problem with your relationship. Everything is as it is meant to be, and when you read Sylvia Browne, you will realize that we all write our lives out, before we come to Earth to live them out. Whatever lesson you wanted to learn, you are learning it right now, and now it's not as easy as you thought it was going to be, but you will get through it, because you wrote the story of "the rest of your life" too. Do some deep breathing exercises, go to your public library and check out some books, and do some reading. If you have to go to work, maybe you have some vacation time coming. This too, shall pass. Everything does. Be strong, ok? I thought I lost my daughter one time, I was sure I had, but then things turned around, and now I am so happy, that a miracle happened, and I was totally amazed. Divine Intervention. Hang in there O.K? You may contact me, if you need someone to talk to. Iylenas@yahoo.com I want to know that you're going to be ok. Take Care, and get as much rest as you can. Namaste' Iylena

cher85

you need to relax dontthink ofending your life first you have a child even if she leaves ... if you go and do something irattional you will regreat it ... she is angry and if she doesnt want to be with you she doesnt but for the child you have to be strong ... if everything was fin e she wouldnt leave something is wrong ask if you need and u will get a n answer ...good luck again good luck and be a strong man for your child if not for your self ...

Avant Garde Dog

Don't kill yourself over a freakin' woman. That is weak. I got news for ya. There are literally BILLIONS of women, all of whom have the capability to lie, cheat and leave. Buck up, fella, and go get another one. Oh yeah, and learn to have a little self respect. Any scag that'll run off when preggers is certainly not worth your life.

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