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My wife hits me...what can I do?
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My wife hits me...what can I do?



    




Scorpio11
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That sounds like abuse to me...report her.


openminded
makes no difference if it is a guy hitting a girl or a girl hitting a guy, it is abuse. leave,


mom
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get her some professional help :o(


Dave
Leave her. Tell all your friends and family the reason your leaving the *****. Then go to the gym and get some muscles so no one will hit you again.


arsenalsalam
Report her. And immediately talk to your mom.


MeToo
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Give all the reasons not to hit you. Talk with her, love her , help understand were the violence comes from, pray for the situation, seek counseling. If the hitting is that severe maybe you ought to leave for awhile.


glduke2003
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abuse is a 2 way street.....turn her in....but have proof.....and make sure you press charges


saabbbbbo
Well, I always try to follow the old saying: fool me once shame on me fool me twice shame on me.
When it comes to being hit I'd put that same theory in to perspective. Hit me once.....


Shemit
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If u love her, Grin & Bear it.
If u don't ,,then hit back ---- tit for tat
Then have a big laugh & kisss & make-up.
Simple Mr. DaneG


DearAbby
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If you're really serious... you need to do something about it.

It's only a matter of time before you get pissed and hit her back and then you'll be in a world of sh!t. Besides, you don't actually want to end up in a situation where you would actually hit a woman do you?

"My wife hits me" tends to suggest that this is a common practice. And it's common because you're allowing it. I strongly suggest you get counseling for yourself. After you've done that for a while, then look at getting into couples counseling with her.

Physical abuse isn't cool no matter who is doing the hitting.

Get professional help.

Good luck.


suzanne w
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there are lots of reasons people hit instead of talking the question is do you love her enough to find out or should you move on.
its a learned trait that can be fixed if you try.
but she needs to know strait up you dont like it.
either stop and get help or goodbye.
she may surprize you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


tarshbn
I'll tell you the same advice I've told a man I care about greatly who is getting abused by his wife.

You are the one who allows her to do this by putting up with it. By staying with her. The only way to make her stop is to leave.

You can't put all the blame on her if you are willing to take it.


Kitty
Bake her cookies! give her milk, set her @ss down, and talk to her! tell her honey i love u but if ur hit me one more time i will have to leave u because I'm not going to hit u back, I'm a man and not a punk so let this be ur last time hitting me and don;t try that S..t again!!!!


allen m
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Smack that bioooooootch back then let know how your doing oh did i mention make sure you have bail money LOL


brown_sunglasses
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leave her.. no one deserves to be hurt physically and mentally in any relationship... and never - ever hit her back... dont stoop to her level...


looken4answers
the best thing to do is run fast and cover your head so she don't hurt you,but she needs to stop this crap. if you called the police she would go to jail for spouse abuse.


jh452004
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several things that you can do. first you can just leave. call the cops, however they might think it funny, you could hit her back, however I do not recommend that, as it is a cowardly act to hit a woman no matter what. my best advice would be for you to get professional help for her, physical,emotional, verbal abuse is a form of violence that should not be tolerated. anger management classes do help if you attend and follow the guide lines set down. talk to her, find out why she hits you, i know what the urge to hit back, but don't. get some professional help and work towards a solution.


clueless
Do what my Husband did call the police and lie like it was more to it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


j3z7kd1j09aj
hits her back. and show her show is the boss.


thank you come again
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DIVORSE
don't hit baack


GreenBeansRevenge
hit her back


Common Sense
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Call the police for spousal abuse & assault...
Divorce her is she continues assaulting you.
Or...
Hit her back....Spank her butt....


Nick Z
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Abuse is abuse regardless of who does it and to whom. If you can't stop it through marital counselling, then divorce is your only reasonable option.


jasmine
get proffesionel help and work towards it


flutteredonby
see if this website will help


booboo
Seek counseling


Biker B
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Get help for yourself first (counselling and support) and then try and persuade her to join you. Violent partners usually dont respond well to being told what to do - or interference by third parties... but perhaps if you show her how much you want to work it out, it will help her to take that step towards mending whatever is wrong in your relationship.

You don't say whether you love her and want to work it out or not.


Kristen H
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Get away from her. That is not good for anyone. If she does it again, call the cops and let her spend the night in jail.


missapparition
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LOL What are you doing to provoke her?

Seriously, if this is a major problem, then you should sit down and talk with her about it. The only thing that you have to make sure of is that if you are asking her not to do something and she makes good on it, you have to also make good on the things that she asks YOU not to do...





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