My wife in bed with another man?

Jessica

since u are the PERFECT gentlemen you deserve so much better! i thinku should confront her about it and if she is let her explain and make ur dissision from there...good luck

fro

Your story just doesn't ring true. Try again but with the truth this time.

Monty

Is it Karl "The Mailman"......

Melanie J

Tell me you are joking...please?

allgiggles1984

stop posting and do soemthing about it NOW or never. no off...lol

zajucomom

Move on and take your daughter with you.

crissy c

I THINK YOU SHOULD CONFRONT BOTH OF THEM AND IF THEY DINIE IT THEN YOU SEND HER ON HER WAY ANYWAY. I MEAN THAT IS PRWETTY FU**ED UP DOING THAT **** IN FRONT OF YOUR KID
DUMB B**CH SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF HERSELF, SHE AVIOUSLY HAS NO RESPECT FOR YOUR CHILD SO DO WHAT YOU GOT TO DO AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE FOR YOUR CHILDS SAKE

luckford2004

Confront her and then probably get a divorce lawyer.

Switch

Hide behind a bush Saturday morning and wait for him to come. I will leave the rest up to you.

If the mask fits...

You should leave your wife and take your daughter. She is obviously a bad example for your daughter.

ken j

get his *** fired remember the postman always rings twice!

Stand

DUDE!
Leave her a**. What else is there to do. But, once you are sure you are going to leave, say something "smart". Like "Oh, by the way....the postman stopped by, he said he wants his boxers back"

Sam

SIr get you and your daughter out of there and quick.

Very Honest

All you should do is kick this scum out of you and your daughter's life.

goldfish1679

confront her then see where that goes
saying sorry doesnt really cut it
cuz they always do it again

sorry hope things turn out ok
best wishes

Zaferus

Frankly, Scarlet, I don't give a d*mn.

Farm bred, grain fed, all natura

Wow, that's tough. But you did marry her "for better or worse, until death do you part". True, this is pretty bad, but I would honor my vows, stay with her, and tell her she has to stop seeing him. I would also call the postmaster and inform them of what their postman is doing on his route.

BennBJBear

Sorry..but after reading this..my impression is simple. This is a fictional (made up story). The use of certain phrases and words makes it ring as though the bell has cracked and cannot chime true. "..the fiend..." what person uses a term like that in a case such as this? Perhaps your avatar has something to do with that.. what was the point of mentioning the supposed skin color of the 'postman' unless it is a subtle attempt to elicit even more 'sympathy?' Sorry if I'm wrong, but I really don't think I am. There is no sympathy or advice from this end.

phil p

set her up....plan a fake buisness trip then show up at home and start kicking @$$!!!!!

~Drea~

why would u stand for this?! i am sure u deserve better! and u need to find someone that u know will be faithful! or if u really want to hit her where it hurts(not hiting her) then confront her about it! tell her u know what has been going on and if u want a divorce then tell her that!! do what is right for ur self and ALSO for ur daughter! u want her to be happy to!

SG GAL

Make another business trip out but this time, have a hidden cam so you have something as a prove. Also, get a private investigator to take photos of your wife and her lover. Once you have that, confront her about it. See what she has to say. Depends on what you want. if you want to work it out, see a counsellor, if not, get a lawyer. DO your homework as you dont want to get screwed by her financially.

2 cute 4u

I'm sorry you have to go through this :(

I don't know what you SHOULD do. But I would consider this marriage to be over. I dont think i can ever forgive my spouse for cheating on me and in my own house. If you really love her, try to work things out with her, but it will be hard to since she has already ruined your trust in her. I really don't know what else to tell you except to love yourself and live for your daughter. Good Luck.

tim_mcgraw_22_7

well if you really love her bring her to marriage counseling...and if that still doesnt work leave her... good men dont deserve lying cheating wifes...go find something better that is going to respect you and what you do for your family!

Tyson

Confront her about it, and if that's not enough get some hard on evidence sh'es fine because it's you who's got the ice box where your heart used to be.

chocolateknight69

Ask your wife if she's happy in your relationship. See if you have been missing something in her life and what could motivate her to doing so without telling her.

Then decide if you want/can stay with her and try and get things right, fix whatever the trouble was, put your relationship back on the right track.

Then decide if you can :
- simply ask her, if she has been cheating, in the most calm and relaxed manner. -> and then talk about things, and decide if this marriage can be saved
- live, love and forget

If after that she goes on lying to you... then I suggest you consider moving away for a bit.

All I'm saying is, marriage is hard, people cheat (doesn't mean it's right), forgiveness can happen, things can be saved. It depends of you and her. Try or don't try. the decision is yours.

Clever_Cat

divorce her. simple.

The Voice Of Reason

well if she is cheating on you then confront her either save the marriage or walk away

Barbara B

Speak with your lawyer first - make sure your rights are protected.

Then make plans to move out. And move out. No drama, no threats, no confrontations. Just go.

Any future conversation should be done through your lawyers.

Tim

Be careful that you are acting on second-hand information. Even if it is your daughter who told you, you never know what agenda she has going on with your wife.

I'm not suggesting that you ignore this, just tread slowly until you are 100% certain.

and you thought she was with you because she loves you?tell the postman you got a pick up-your wife.

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