My wife is having an affair what can i do by law the her and him?

jude

in some states if she leaves and abandons the home, the one that stays gets more financially. too bad that u probably can't do a thing to him, or her. most states are no fault divorce states. to get even u send her a message by way of a deputy when u send her the divorce papers. u will never be able to feel the same about her again. never think that at some point karma won't come back to bite them.

Big J

Divorce her and be very angry at him.

veronika A

in some states, adultery is literally against the law, you can take them to court. But rationally, think about why she did it, no affair starts in a happy marriage

LeeH

I'm with Big J. There's really not much.
However you can do lots of passive aggressive smearing of their names if you want to get revenge. Telling the truth isn't illegal.

Kristiane-Cubical ninja

By law you can divorce her. If you live in a no fault state, you get no benefit, but if you do not then you might be able to limit assets of your going to her in the divorce.
Legally you can hate his guts.

Miss BHave

Divorce her citing infidelity as the reason. If he purposfully was in pursuit of her knowing that she was married, you could go out on a limb and sue him for Alienation of Affection, but that is a serious long shot. But it has and does happen.

And remember, there is a reason for her cheating and you do have something to do with it, so dont blame it all on her. It takes 2 to tango.

dr. know it all whocan'tspel

well i heard of a woman who sued another woman for breaking up her marrage and causing mental anguish, and she won the case.

Dave C

Hire a good lawyer and use the affair against her in court to get the better outcome

Leave him alone she is the one to blame not him, yes he probably knew she was married but she was willing to go through with it

SAM

Do not treat her as a "property" you legally own.

Instead, think of her like a toy that you should share with others.

The African Queen

Some states have the alienation of affection law. I think you just go through a civil court after your divorce & sue the other person for money since they had an affair with your spouse.

Trisha

I'm with big J too, get rid of both of them, you sure don't need that B ULLSHIT. GOOD LUCK MAN

Sue C

You can simply tell her that you know she is not being true to you & your marriage by having an affair w/someone else. Let her know you w/NOT stand for it, decide IF it is worth working on your marriage, OR if it just would be BEST for both of you to separate & divorce her. I would NOT stand for the disrespect she is giving you & your marriage. Do NOT accept the unacceptable. You are better than this, you certainly deserve far better than this. Tell her you KNOW what's going on & that you want nothing to do w/her. Tell her she's free to pack up & leave & go w/her cheating b/f & stay w/him. I wouldn't even want her around me to have to be forced to even look at her! This is just plain disrespect & degrading to you. She is NOT worth it & w/no doubt just do it again if she doesn't even stay w/this person she is now with. Get her out of your life, put her in your past, & start a whole new beginning for yourself. I'm a firm believer in that things happen for a reason. I feel you've found out reason being that she just is NOT the rite person for you. Now it's up to you to find the rite person for you. She is out there & you WILL find her, you WILL find the happiness you so deserve. Leave her to her cheating ways, & find yourself a decent loving girl who IS the rite one for YOU...All the best to you...:)

Ravinder Nagpal

mr.black says your wife it is not right . and pass some more time for your wife. and says i love you and many more . i think afther some time she loves only for you and other person avoided

TRIXIE

not much. but you can file for the big 'D.i.v."

life goes on

divorce unless you want to be second fiddle.

Isabel

Divorce. Easier said than done right?

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