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My wife is terminally ill. Can I mess around?

She has heart condition and is semi-invalid. I am the primary care-giver but need some lovin', too.


    




missusjonz
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If you're really serious, I'm with the person who said "Ask her."

If you don't have the nads to be honest with your wife about your needs, then you don't deserve to have those needs met.

On the other hand, being honest with her like this will likely be very painful for her. . . maybe you ought to just stick with Rosie Palma and her 5 Little Friends.


Fancy You
You are sick, dude! Your wife is sick and all you can think about is getting laid. You have problems!


Mommyof4
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Have some respect for your wife. Remember those vows that said in SICKNESS and HEALTH...well, here's your chance to prove you meant them.

Keep it in your pants!


hotmama1
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Is this a serious question? I guess I'll never understand what you're going through, but as long as your wife is alive, its still cheating. She loves you, and unless you have her blessing to move on, its morally wrong. Think about this: Put yourself in her position, and she cheats because you can't give her "lovin", how would you feel, if you were terminally ill? If you knew that you might die, and she was screwing around on you?? Think about that!


Kelly
You are sick and disgusting. Your wife is dying and you care about getting off?


Trillian
I hope she haunts you till the end of YOUR days if you even go through with this.


mustang.sally06
This is by far one of the most selfish questions that I've ever seen on here. Your wife is terminally ill (or so you say), and you're worried about gettin' a little? Wow. What a guy.


vampire
YOU ARE NOT NICE GO TO BLANK


Queen
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WRONG!!!!!!!!!!You should be ashamed of yourself.


Besmirched Tea
Don't risk your inheritance... Just love her when she is not looking. Gently, though, due to her heart condition


Johndabr
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No

John B.


paulars27
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WOW. You are sick and twisted. Its a shame there are people like you in this world...A SHAME. GOD HELP YOUR WIFE.


m3_mY$3Lf_!
can you mess around? what? what kind of question is that? don't you love your wife? didn't you vow to love her in sickness and in health. don't your wedding vows mean anything to you?


FatElvis
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Sorry, no.


monkeys mom
You can do what you want to do, but would you want it done to you?????
Put yourself in her shoes, then ask yourself this question.


gussie
Have you already held the funeral or are you going to wait until your wife dies.My sympathy is for your wife, she didn't chose to be sick.


AmAnDa LoVe!
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omg!!! thats soooooo sad.....i am soooooo sry


cstinkerbell6969
Ummmmm Im sure she would love to have some LOVIN too! I admire you for taking care of your wife in the time of her illness. Its a great thing u r doing standing by her side like u are. Thats what marriage is all about. I know its a hard thing to do. To watch someone u love get worse and worse. I think it would be totally disrespecting your wife if you were to mess around on her. I know u have needs- u r only human but she is still alive you know! Ill or not- she is your wife. If you feel you HAVE to mess around atleast have the courtesy to do it away from your home! Do not flaunt this in her face or in your relatives face. Be extrmely discreet.


Buster
No, wait until she kicks the bucket.


swirlgoddess
oh sure it's not a problem...

IF YOU DON'T HAVE A SOUL!


Lynn
NO and I'm sorry for you situation but this is when you need to think more about her than yourself. That's part of loving someone. Good luck


mZgRoW*N*sExY
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You are sick and I hope you rot in hell!!!


sexy5_poppinmami
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if it that serious just ask aint like she can't say no


knowitall
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touch yourself


BROKENHEART
First let me say I am very sorry to hear about your wife. Second let me say shame on you. Would you mess around if she wasn't terminally ill? You are being rather selfish. I think that your point of needing love is valid, but did you ever love your wife? Do you love her now? I would be faithful to her last breath. Wasn't part of your vows till death do us part?


dipper9stikk
HOW DARE YOU PIMP, SHOW SOME TRUE LOVE & RESPECT FOR YOUR WIFE PLAYA. IT'S 'TIL DEATH DUE YOU PART THE LAST TIME i CHECKED.


qte39
Do the words "Till death do you part" mean anything to you?


SimplyCrazy
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you are just a freak fool


chelle
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That is so wrong you should be ashamed of yourself





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