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scottie
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You bet, it doesn't seem normal behaviour! |
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sjr
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Ask her to show you his messages... If she's got nothing to hide, she'll be pissed off about lack of trust, but will show you, otherwise, she's lying. |
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invalid chromosome
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If you contact your phone company, they'll be more than happy to include all the messages in the next bill, plus you can probably get them to send months before's bills as well.
Sounds to me like it's not just a friendship, thats alot of text.
I suggest you read htem, since she is probably deleting them. |
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Andre
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i'm no lady, but i smell i big fat RAT! I'm sorry mate, but i'd pack my bags (or hers preferably). |
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punxsutawney phil
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Secretly take her phone and send him a text saying Ă'm pregnant'. |
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Karen G.
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yes, there is something going on. |
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witchnanny
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Get real, of course something is going on! If my husband was texting someone like that there would be hell to pay. |
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Skywalking
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That's far more than normal, even 1 text should be suspicious. Time to get on out. |
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Doodie
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That's one hell of a friend!......Ask her to show you a few of the txts....If she's got nothing to hide and wants you to stop worrying she won't mind...I suspect that she won't be too happy with that suggestion! |
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skapunkspud
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400 to 600 times a month!?! jesus christ!!! i dont even send that many texts in a year! unless he is her best friend or brother, id say theres probably something going on. |
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Wiggly_pumpkin
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Do you know who the man is?
I would ask her if you can read the texts
The contents will reveal all
And if shes not keen for you to see
I would suspect
theres more to it than friends....
Good luck ! |
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boricua_2290
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400 600 times a day? Oh man let's just say it... There is something fishy in this.. investigate now.. do you have a way to text this man from her own cell phone if I were you I get to the bottom of this..text him and talk to him as if you are her... say something that you know he is going to respond the first text should say Hey where are you? or something like that and continue the texting from what ever he respond to you.. how you do this is without telling your wife get to her cell phone and "misplace it" cell phones get lost every day.. or you can wait till she is sleeping or something,but the best one is just taking the cell phone and act like you don't know where is at just for one day.. you have the right to know. good luck. |
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THE SINGER
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Absolutely. If you are married - your wife's friends should also be yours. You are in a commited relationship - none of you should have 'friends' outside of each other's knowledge. Sit her down and talk to her and ask her to be honest with you. If this friendship is indicative that something is missing in your marriage - this would be a good time to talk about it and get it right. |
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bigbowlsofbeef
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HOW MUCH IS IT COST YOU? |
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tedrfandthedog
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Somethings going on for sure. |
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penney
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Definitely something going on. |
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Brutal Honesty
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Yep, but understand John it's not her fault it's yours. Think about it, why do you choose to be with this lady? The amount of messages, what she says doesn't matter, its cheating no matter how you slice it. Think about it this way, if she has that much time to do that, she's neglecting time she could use with you, is that alright with you? Sure wouldn't be with me, drop her, if not you need to confront her and get her telling you HONESTLY what is going on, shoot she could be asking him advice on how to be a better wife, or she could just be simply looking for a way away from you, with out the honesty this relationships doomed anyways..... |
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S Csparky
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very very good freinds..? |
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spazzydee17
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she must not be a very busy person if she has time to send that many texts.... yep, there is something going on. Do you know who this other man is? Has he been a part of her life for a long time? I would be suspicious of my husband if he sent 1 or 2 texts per month to the same girl, let alone 400 to 600. That is crazy and absurd. You have a right to know what they discuss, and you should ask her to stop. If she refuses, then she just placed that "friendship" above your marriage. |
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Deltic21
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400-600?! Wow, thats a lot of texting! Even as a friend that would be somewhat unusual, so reluctantly one would have to conclude something very intense was indeed happening. Ask her and see what she says. Ask to see the texts. If she refuses, you should worry, although there's always the chance that she may just be planning a huge forthcoming birthday surprise...?! |
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duttyjoncrow
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If it were only 300 times then it's just friends but 400-600 hey she's been skipping work to add some texture to her texting I'm afraid. Confront her with your accusations but do it by text. |
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PeteB
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Of course there is soemthing going on. |
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robppc20022002
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sack her cant be good |
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Gem Gem
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Ok, lets put this into context. I'm very sociable, have 4 close friends and use my mobile for work, and I use about 700 texts ALTOGETHER per month.
what do you think? |
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carnival queen
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Of course there's something going on!!! Why are you burying your head in the sand? |
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Wolfsheart
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Not normal and not right. Move her along. |
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Live_For_Today
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Sounds like another Shane Warne on the go lol. |
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Liz
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Naaah, ya think????? |
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jennyequinox
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no we are just friends...she would never cheat on you she loves and respects you too much and I certainly would never do anything like that...is this the kind of krap you hope to hear? well I'm afraid that he is banging her and the sooner you open your eyes to this the sooner you stop being a fool..sorry to be so blunt but smell the coffee for gods sake |
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jacquie
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Yes, not cool. She thinks she's pulling one over on you. If they're such good friends, have him over to the house and let him be your friend too. |
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