My wife is upset?

missyandgordon

Because she expected an answer that was do able.Not the fact that you fantasise about her SISTER!!!!She wants to be the one to fufill your fanasies and now that you said it was her sister,well, that will be FOREVER in her mind and she will always worry and be jealous.Not very smart on your part.If you HAD to pick something, you should have tried something like"you are my fantasy".Or IF you HAD to pick someone,pick a movie star or someone she dosen't have to worry about you actually being in the same room with.C'mon.You were asking for the couch tonight!!Make it up to her NOW!Tell her you were just joking because you wanted to see how she'd take it.Then,try the "you are my fanatasy"line.IF she asks about a woman,pick a movie star.Go ahead and tell a little white lie,to keep from messing up your marriage.

barrett j

because women are screwed up in the head. they were sent here just to make our lives HELL!!!!!

tasha_hotty

because we want to no the anwer but we dont no how we are going to act when we get the answer.

Chaosman

You're a MORON! Women ask these questions to TEST you! You're not supposed to answer truthfully! OMG!

tekno

you might as well go for it now. why? because i am guessing you wont be seeing either one of them after the divorce. wtg!

lovingdaddyof2

First... Your wife is insecure. She asked the question for affirmation. She wants to know that she is your fantasy.

If you are ever asked a question about what you want. The answer is always "You Honey. What more could I want." It reaffirms her and keeps you off the Sofa.

deathtrapp1

cause women are f**ked up and they all do that so don't fall into that trap again!

meemeemee40

if she would have asked u "do i look fat in this dress , i promise i wont get mad" would u have said yes or no?
even if she looked like the good year blimp. when she asked u something like again START SMALL...like seeing her walk around the house will only a flower between her teeth (what ever) then work up to the BIG ONE but u probably should omit family members for u fantasy's. most or the time women do tend to get emotional we don't all start out that way and really mean it when we said it. u said u never said u would actually do it but it was so on u mind it was the first the u blurted out right. this is not saying that we women are smarter BUT i have heard that us lady's use more of our senses (including) brains then men so we technically see things n a whole different way. I mean come on if she had said to u the same about u brother or any male family member..good luck watch out

sincerely, see me

You ll be gettin a divorce soon.
That was the worse thing to say, you should have replaced the sister in the fantasy with someone else at least. Believe me she'll be looking at her sister funny for a long time and I have a sister so I know

Katherine B

Maybe deep down she wanted to be your fantasy girl.Now everytime she sees her sister,she is going to think you want her.

misscanada_y2k

Tell the truth but NEVER use names. That's the part that hurts!

rayjenne24

hey
silly silly man! I know you cannot even believe how royaly your messed up, this ones a dozzy! whoa, she is gonna have to calm down! and you will have to let her, she has good reason to be upset! wow-you have to sincerly aplogize! never ever use family or friends! use strangers, you dont know always! ohh and we ask to find out crap-stuff we kinda already know and every now and then we find out a piece of info we didnt want to really know in the first place, prime example!
dont forget to say sorry!

sheron s

She needs to be upset. What if she said something like that about your brother, or better yet, your dad. Wouldn't that make you upset. Next time think before you speak.

jib

because thats a totally sick fantasy and involved her sister!

Belen

Wife tricked you into admitting what you have in your mind and what you would like to do if you have a chance. I don't blame her for getting pissed because you entertained dirty thoughts about her sister and now, to cover your behind, you are conveniently saying that it was only a fantasy. I don't think it was only your fantasy; that was your true secret desire.

flutter_by_baby20

Okay buddy What were you thinking? How long have you and your wife been together? I f you don't know by now that when a woman says she will not get upset about something you say, that it actually means you better not say anything to piss her off then your screwed! Anyway sorry you should apologize to her tell her that it would never happen in real life no matter if her sister walked up to you and begged you!

Mistress Mychel

men do the same damn thing, I can't stand it, tell her that you cannot trust her lying ***, and she is doing a piss poor job at being the one person that you should be able to confide in honestly especially if she asked for information that you were not volunteering and she needs to think about how she would like to communicate in your relationship, respectfully,open and honestly, or should you just tell her what she wants to here as you grow further apart resenting your childish,selfish,untrustworthy spouse who has no respect for your feelings and no integrity as she did not even attempt to keep her word and now she is playing emotional games as a penalty for being honest, dont tolerate the bs for one more minute it is just a downhill slope from there demand the respect you deserve and return the level of respect that you are recieving

wrestlersmama1967

BECAUSE WE REALLY WANT TO KNOW!
BUT WE DONT WANT YOU TO TELL US!

ilovedragonflies6

it's a test. it's always a test. trust me I DO IT!

myjamsandwich

You fell for that huh? Tsk. Tsk. Tsk.

believer

Dumb answer! You should have known better!

LeeLynn

I had a similar talk with my husband before. But he told me his fantasy and I got really pissed. If I was you I would just keep telling ur wife that it is just a FANTASY. And that you do not intend to act on it. Maybe use woman ask these question's to see if our husbands are thinking the same as us I am not sure. Just let her be and tell her you would not ever actually, do it! good luck!

shannon d

You probably shouldnt have said that it was her sister you fantasized about. Now every family function she is going to be suspicious of you flirting or watching the sister. Sometimes you need to bend the truth a little.. you could have told the same fantasy but put another woman in it. Would you want her fantasizing about your brother?

mr. Bob

You haven't been married for very long have you. It is questions like this that are a set up they don't want to hear the truth, because if they say they wont get upset you had better say nothing about it or if you are good enough to answer the question without really answering it. Some other questions to watch out for: Do I look fat? Which outfit do you like? There are many others you may have to find them yourself, but they all will end with come on and tell me I won't get mad or up set

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