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My wife is upset cause i won't take my ex-girlfriends off speed dial what should i do???
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My wife is upset cause i won't take my ex-girlfriends off speed dial what should i do???

We just got married, isn't there a 90 day grace period or a 100 mile rule i can invoke or something like that?


    




larylz
wow how many people were you trying to piss off
yes there is a 60 day return policy


Baby_val79
get those numbers off. If those girls were important to you in the first place, you would have married them instead of your wife. Did you include a 90 day period or 100 mile rule in your vows on your wedding day? if not then cut that crap!
How would you feel if your wife had her ex-boyfriends numbers on speed dial. She should be your friend, lover, companion, and everything. Sweetheart, it's about time you started maturing and cutting off that kido stuff.


Purple4Me
Did you just come up with that number? You want to start your marriage off right get rid of that number. Fact is you should have deleted it when you got engaged. There's only 2 reasons why you still have it. 1 your trying to piss your wife off, or 2 your not Thu with the ex and then you should have waited before you got married. If you really love your wife you'd get it off your phone.


abbynormal92243
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why would you need 90 days to push delete?
Are you keeping in contact with your ex-girlfriends? Are you thinking you need someone to fall back on when things get tough? Do you seriously think your wife is being unreasonable by wanting that number gone? Do you WANT to make her insecure?

By keeping that number, by refusing to get rid of it, you're telling the woman you just promised to love and to cherish that she's not the only one in your heart.

Perhaps you shouldn't have married her if you weren't sure you wanted to spend the rest of your life with her.

Your marriage is going to be only as good as what you put into it.


onaitsebas
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DOOD...
GET THE DAMN THING OFF YOUR PHONE!

Your married? you love her? WOMEN NEED TO WIN!
You want a good marriage GIVE IN MAN! :)
WOMEN are always right REMEMBER THAT
Put yourself in her shoes!!!

I don't know what to tell you more.. Please by leaving it on your phone you will ruin your RELATIONSHIP

What you need for anyway? It is your EX is it not?

Anway i feel like i am asking more questions than answering HEHE

BTW Your married there is no 90 days this 100 miles that.

Hehe Hope this helps.. Really man get rid of it. It will save alot of trouble as you can see its causing trouble thats why you came ask help here!

PS: I am A man.. Just incase my name don't make sense.


MJ
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sorry dude, but I'm on your wife's side here...they should've been removed the moment you asked her to marry you...Why do you need them anyway? You're married...let the baggage go...


Elizabeth L
you are really pushing your luck. Take them off. and lose their numbers...


charlie
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GET RID OF THE NUMBERS IF YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR WIFE!! You can keep your little black book but in a keepsake box, but as far as the numbers on speed dial, what's the point. YOU AREN'T GOING TO CALL THEM, RIGHT????? So they are just cluttering up your phone.


SuzzyLou
Take your ex-girlfriend's off speed dial...DUHH~!


melanie f
first of all u need GOD in ur life....if u have ur ex girlfriends phone number on speed dial u dont love ur wife


cassandra j
those numbers do not need to be on speed dile anymore unless ur still using them as booty calls but still ur married why would u want there numbers on speed dile ur wife have every right to be upset


cutieangelgrl02
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Tell her that you are friends with them and you have no desire to be with them. Also tell her that she should know you enough to not be so jealous.

If she loves you, she should understand.


chocolateheaven84
Once you tied that knot of marriage its time to get rid of the numbers honey.


txguy8800
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I can't believe you're so stupid. Your question has to be the most stupid question I've seen all day.

Dude, you're wrong and you know it.

TX Guy


Carmalee F
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QUESTIONS IS WHY DO YOU WANT HER ON SPEED DIAL. SHE IS YOUR HISTORY AND YOUR SPOUSE SHOULD NOT HAVE TO DEAL WITH THAT. WHY WOULD YOU CALL HER IF SHE IS YOUR EX. IF YOU WANT TO BE FRIENDS WHY ARE YOU NOT TOGETHER. YOU CAN'T BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR EX WHEN YOU GET MARRIED...SERIOUSLY PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES, SHE HAS HER EX-BOYFRIEND ON SPEED DIAL. DOES SHE CALL HIM? DOES SHE GO TO LUNCH WITH HIM, DO THEY CHEAT TOGETHER?
THOSE ARE THE SAME THOUGHTS SHE HAS TO THINK ABOUT.


Marianne not Gingerâ„¢
Take your wife off speed dial instead.


40something
TAKE THE EX-GIRL FRIEND OFF SPEED DIAL AND MATTER OF FACT DESTORY HER NUMBER.YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE HER NUMBER NOWHERE OF YOUR REACH.


Man.With.A.Plan
I would take them off speed dial, and put them on sticky notes stuck to the wall near the phone. Introduce your wife to swinging.


Sanitizer
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Tell her your pre-nup agreement has a clause in it protecting your speed dial numbers for one year from the day of holy matrimony. If she denies having a pre-nup tell her in no uncertain terms she definitely signed it and will have to take your word on it.


Gypsy
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Actually there is a clause now, you have exactly 45 days from the date of the marriage to get rid of all items pertaining to your exgirlfriends. And, that rule does not apply if you travel regularly more than 250 miles from home for 5 or more days at a time.


Biker
Be a man and take that crap off of the speed dial.


bluez
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What do you still need them for?


daddysnurse
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If you love her, you will take the numbers off. That is going to make her feel even more important when she knows you've done that. You are making her feel like your phone numbers have more value than she does and you wouldn't want that. If you didn't love her, you wouldn't have married her..............


jessy
ha! ha! Such fun your having! Is your wife giving you the right attention you want?Grow up!


armywifeoftony
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Take the numbers off speed dial or your wife is going to take you to the cleaners.


TooBeauCoup
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LOL. Just store the numbers someplace where she won't see. No need to rub it in. You know she's got the digits of some boys on the side too.


swtz69drmz
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90 day grace?? 100 mile rule?? Would you have that opinion if it were her ex's?? I would think NOT. Lose the numbers or lose your wife. It isn't much to ask. You made the ultimate commitment to her and now you should show her that you are hers 100%. The only possible reason you could have for even saving these numbers is thinking that they might come in handy later! If that is the case, then you really should have never gotten married to begin with!


thewildeman2
You said a vow right? Then why do you need ex girlfriends on speed dial? You don't. You are a married man now, act like one.


latina
I understand if she feels disrespected by that. An ex is your past and your wife is your present and future. The only person you have to worry about pleasing is your wife and if she feels better if you delete the number, then delete it. Put yourself in her shoes and think of how you would feel if she had an exboyfriend as one of her speed dials.


SouthernKNC
you're funny!





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