My wife made me hit her!?

beckihrh

You have issues! Get out and get a divorce!!

Magan~rebel

Get a divorce

kamal

If what you are saying is true I think you shoul have a long talk with her and if it doesn't help, and you are not dependent on her in any way, like kids or financially etc. I think you should in a very nice way get divorce after playing the same game with her, Got it?

Steve

Leave, unfortunately the law will always favor her in a physical confrontation. The best thing you can do is get out of there before she makes you totally loose it and do something stupid that will land you in jail.

2Dots

She didn't make you do anything you didn't want to do. She baited you knowing exactly what would happen and how she would handle it. If things have degenerated to this level then the best thing for you to do is divorce.

diamondprincezz456

y did u hit her!!! dont hit her if u dont wanna get accused. alot of women will make u do something just to make u get in trouble. Be carefull!!

kaindragon

well take pictures. and then leave her. the picutres should be of all the hurts she has casued you. and then find a VERY GOOD Devorce Atterny.

margarita

Divorce her.

smplyme132

Your wife seems to be mentally abusive, too. There is center's out there that can help you. Your relationship sounds like it has turned to a toxic situation, and is getting more toxic as it goes. Stop this now! Get counseling for yourself. You know better than to hit any woman regardless of the reason why. It sounds like your thinking is becoming clouded as far as good judgment goes. You probably need an "Anger Management" program also. This would help you deal with all your bottled up anger, instead of hitting someone, and giving in to bad ideas. I am sure there is a abusive hot line somewhere in your phone book. If not look one up on the Internet. Don't walk, "RUN"! before you end up in jail, doing lots of time. Only you can make yourself stay in this bad situation. Only you can help you. Only you can end this abuse. It takes two to fight, and if your not willing, then she will look awfully stupid fighting with herself.

misskitty

Dude, if she hits you first, don't hit her back. Call the cops...SHE goes to jail!!

teresa.hereford@sbcglobal.net

No one MAKES you do anything!! You're a grown up If you can't control your temper get out and get a divorce then get yourself ome anger management classes before you start another relationship.

you're a wimp

jaimestar64cross

You have your own mind and I'm sorry you made a bad decision --- when put in a position like that --- just get your stuff and leave... there's nothing to stay around for when the relationship has turned into a war zone

yankeegurl

how could SHE make YOU hit HER??? that doesnt really make sense...!

texansis

Divorce her.

you should have left her, not hit her. just get away from this relationship because its obveously bad for both of you, get a new life and forget about her. its never okay to be violent.

JustinC.

break up with her..divorce her.she may be bipolar, so if you even love her., persuade her to get help!

Kelisangels

Get a divorce. Do not listen to people. As a woman I can say sometimes a woman deserves to get her azz beat. You shouldnt be left off the hook cause your a woman, especially if your a provoking b'tch or hit first.

Yes you are a man, but women can abuse their husands, it make you no less of a man. Things will only go down hill, get away why you can. I wish you success with this situation.

p.s. Try your best to refrain from hitting her, unless she gets a weapon or something, you can defend yourself, but only do so if it is really warranted.

Owlwings

Leave her

janaye

divorce her n tell an officer that shes abusive or just leave n go stay somewhere else

baby_luv

I would get a divorce dude.

sportschic

D-I-V-O-R-C-E

free_angel

She didn't hold a gun to your head and force you to hit her. As for staying with an abusive spouse, you know how to walk away. You have no one to blame but yourself when you keep going back for more.

tranka007

leave her she did not make you hit her.

cgspitfire

Whoa! Buddy! You're the one in control of your actions. You say she makes you do these things but you're the one who makes the final decision in how you lash out. You both need some serious help as at no time should things be so out of control that you're striking out at anyone in anger!

RCF1977

Well, you hit her first in the incident that was reported, so you deserved the charges.

If she abuses you, call the police each time...but don't hit back. At some point she'll leave a mark and be arrested herself. Or, you could just leave her - that's what someone smart would do.

polly :)

get a divorce you dont want to spend the rest of your life with such a cow.

justin_allgood

I personally don't think you should ever hit a woman. My wife beat the hell out of me while I was holding my 2 month old daughter and although I wanted to knock her out I refrained becuase I knew if I touched her once eveything would have been my fault. The only thing you can do in that situation is take the abuse until you can report it and lets be honest you can take a beating you are a man and the best way to get them back for beating you is not to go to their level and hit back it is to call the cops and let them take her to jail and that will make her think about it before she ever hits you again. If you are starting to hit each other both of you need to get help especially if you have kids.

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no body can judge it , becoz at some point ur wife might be wrong or might be right ,and at some part u might be right or wrong ,but the thing is some times u reach the end of the line with some one ,the way ur talkin about her it shows that u hate her the way even dont want to look at her face at this point y u have to make ur both life so boring n disgusting simple as that just DIVORCE .

I Bleed Black & Gold

leave,pack up and go!don't hit her anymore you'll make it worse on yourself.then file a restraining order on her,than shes not allowed withen 100 feet of you.

loraine dino

my husband when mad want to kick our stuff inthe house ai want to divorcwe him!!!!

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