My wife makes me do things in bed I don't want to do. What can I do to save myself?

Sure! I believe that one! 2 points!

larythebear

be a man and do the deed, do be so selfish, think of somebody else for a while

Bornredprincess

Get over it. At least you're getting some??

aj_lets_go_shopping

Tell her that you don't want to do them. And that it makes you feel uncomfortable.

thylawyer

Save yourself for what? Or is it for whom? Try it, you might like it!

Sassy

same thing u do every other time she makes you do those things.....lay back & enjoy it

ft3535

you need to sit down and talk to her nicely and calmly and HONESTLY
truthful talking back and forth can open things up
and make your marriage only better..
talk..be honest..
Good Luck

flowers70

what are ya gay? just say no

Unfrozen Caveman

cut your thing off

retrobate1

be honest..
tell her ur gay.

Thoughtfull

Buddy, you were saved the day you married her! keep smiling. :)

celticwoman777

Don't let her bully or coerce you into doing anything in bed that you find distasteful. It's OK to say no. Talk to her, explaining why you don't like it. If she truly loves you she won't make you feel bad or guilty for not wanting to do these things.

akdani4jesus

Say no or tell her to back off and if that doesn't work make up a lie about a "condition" you happen to have that night!

kayla141655

sleep some where els like in the kides room adn say you need soome daughter and son time and hang out with your litte boy adn girl and read to them or something

Meatbee

Learn to like them Dude you might save your marriage.

mdm63

Poor baby, take it like a man

Fe-Fe

Just be honest with her, and if she respects you as a person, then she will respect the fact of you not being comfortable with what she has asked you to do. No one should be made to feel uncomfortable for the sake of ones pleasure.

twentythree

what things? dude, man up and speak with your wife...let her know you like pleasing her but you also like other kinds of touches...also, try to like these things, expand your horizons...as long as it doesn't hurt a week afterwards, go for it

whitewulf2001

tell her that some things you just are not comfortable doing. see if you can come to a happy medium(no pun intended)

lafytafy202

just say NO

yojo12

do you ever make her do things that she doesn't want to do? is it reasonable what she is asking for, or is it demeaning. Like are you being selfish. Dont expect to get head if you dont give it sort of rule. But if you dont feel comfortable with it, or are hurt by it, you need to tell her, and find a different way of satisfying her.

holly

tell her you do not want to do it it makes you feel strange and agree on other things you both like

chilli

Care to share just what "THINGS" you're talking about??

kerr31

tell her it makes you uncomfortable, and stand up for yourself and say no.

happy1hereâ™¥

sleep on the couch if she doesnt stop!or make her!

maryannmccarthy2003

OMG!!!! If my bf was not here with me right now, I woulda thought he was typing this. Just do what ever she wants, hell, you just might like it!!!!

My bf's response-
Go with the flow because it will feel so good. I used to resist, now I just go with it and it's worth it!! Try it, you will like it.

See, he's finally seeing things MY way!!! ;-)

heyhey952000

make her do thing that she did to you that always works for me

iamtroyhello

get one of your buddies to stay over

luv41anatha

try doing the same thing to her. she might not like it as much then tell her thats how you feel...

marinasinger

Just explain to her that you don't like to do those things. Then, maybe, suggest some things that she could do instead!

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