My wife never take care of my son what should I do?

Roseann

Just try to talk to her and explain she should do her duty still she is not ready to take care then its better to seperate

Matthew Ocean

Sit down and talk to her about the problem.
If she does it again, leave her and take your son with you.
It's as simple as that my friend.

Truth Sets You Free

If you have issues with your wife with not taking care of your child..seek professional intervention

sabesque

why would you want to get separated and abandon your son. That's what you will be doing if you separate. Are you the man of your home? why is your wife going out and partying? Instead of getting separated and leaving your son with no one, instead take on your proper role as head of house. find out what your wife is missing in the relationship that she needs to go out. your son needs a stable family to grow up in. you married you wife for a reason and she married you. what has changed and what can you do to restore it. do all that is possible. but it is very important that you maintain your position as man. woman don't respect a guy that not a man even if its her husband. she needs to see that your in control of your family. Also the best thing you can do for your son is openly love his mother.

rockandrollrev

Sit down with her and talk to her about this, in a marriage sadly a lot of people fail to communicate, it is so easy to walk away but if you are committed to your marriage as you should be, then talk to each other

Ricky S.

Take your son with you and stay separately. When she missed her (yours) son automatically she come back.

dannyboy

Discuss it freely and frankly with you wife, but if she is adamant and does not mend her ways, then I suggest you seek a divorce and custody of your son. It is the kid's future which is at stake. Try bringing up your son on your own, or get married to a woman, who is willing to accept looking after your kid as her own. This way he wont feel the absence of parental love.

Dub's

Tell her everything you're feeling about this issue, make it very clear she has responsibilities as well. If she cannot handle this then file for a separation and take full custody of your son.

Sue C

I would have a serious talk with her. Let her know she's either going to start to be a mother to your son or she's going to loose him completely. She's either going to straighten herself out, or she's going to be shipped out for good. Let her know you've given her fair warning, say what you mean, mean what you say. There is NO reason for a mother not to take care of their own child! If "playing around" is more important to her than her son, then she can party to her hearts content after she leaves your home. Depending on his age, you can always put him in a good day care or have someone come & look after him in your home. He needs love & attention when he's growing up & these are very important yrs. of his life. It can either make an angry adult out of him or a normal caring loving person. Too many young adults who grow up getting in trouble has all stemmed from their childhood & how they were raised. You sure sound like you are a caring person, you want your child to grow up like his father. Good for you for seeing & caring, but most of all for wanting to do something about it...best to you...:)

A Canadian

Hmmm...you said "my son" not "our son". Is this her biological child also or just yours? If this is your child from a previous relationship, why aren't you looking after your son in the evenings?

Nate

probably if she's not even being responsible

softballcutayx33

if shes nt taking responsibility and is just going out partying i think the best option is separation until she gets her act together

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