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This could be just out of privacy, but from what you said I understood that this started after you had kids? Maybe she is embarrassed of her body, of your seing her body or something like that? Do you complement her often on how beautiful you think she is, or do you sometimes make little jokes that to you are no big deal?
I used to sometimes make little jokes about my partner and I feel like that made him feel a little held back, so maybe if you can not remember you could start complementing her more often and try doing some romantic things, you children are now teens, they are mostly out of the house, so it is just you two, try taking her out for dinner, or lunch, coming home early... Try to make her feel more confortable around you, and if it doesn't change you will know it is just out of habit.
I know it is a lot to go through just to fingd out why she is locking the door, but at least you will have a good time, she will get closer to you and you to her, you two will have wonderful moments and memories together and your relationship will be better.
If it is out of habit, you could talk to her about it, your children don't need to know you two are taking a shower or bath together, she could lock the door with you inside!!! And imagine how much more fun love will be knowing that you could get caught?
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Felani Perez
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Maybe she wants to take a dump in private. |
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Libby
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A woman needs her privacy in the bathroom. And yes, she probably even needs privacy from you.
Who needs someone walking in while taking care of private things?
Stop obsessing on it and allow her her privacy! |
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Abby Corneto
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Privacy is a relative thing.
She just needs some space.
Don't sweat it, cause you could end up ruining a peaceful and smooth relationship that you (and her) honor. |
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Some Dude
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take a hint. it's because of your kids and your friends. besides i don't think teen boys want to see their mother naked. i know i would't. ERGH!! |
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Sarah Fields
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Probably just habit..
Maybe next time your sons are away for the weekend, offer a bubble bath? |
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drewxjacobs
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Don't go looking for trouble where there is none. So she locks the door even when no kids are around. Can't a person have a little privacy? Since you always seem to know when she locks herself in, maybe she would just like a little time to herself without you or the kids barging in.
There is nothing wrong with total privacy when one is in the bathroom. It may not have been her habit before, but apparently she likes it now. Leave her alone and let her bathe in peace. |
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taken
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I say habit. Talk to her I think you may be overreacting. If she was locking the door and going through the window you might want to worry. Just Kidding. She'd probably get back into the habit of leaving it unlocked if you tell her how you feel. |
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dude4∞
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It's kind of nice to have a little private space for things like that. I don't want someone walking in when I'm sitting on the toilet. Maybe she doesn't feel as beautiful naked as she did before your teenagers were born. Things change and sometimes it's hard to take back ground that has been lost. It sounds like she's pulled it off, though. Enjoy it, there are some things that maybe it's cool to share when you're first married, but in the long run, maybe it's nice not to. Don't read too much into it. |
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jackbondnj
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You could bring it up to her. But it's probably not worth the trouble. It seems pretty harmless. |
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vonmousecat
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I think if she is one woman in a house of three men, and I'm not criticizing you guys : ).....
But a woman needs some time to be by herself and have twenty minutes alone to relax...
I'm sure it's in no way a reflection of you.
I wouldn't think anything of it. |
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tearzofaprincess
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I would think that she is doing out of habit. I think it is nothing to worry about. :) |
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stepintostep
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Probably just out of habit, ask her about it and see what she says. Me and my husband usually keep the doors lock because we have four kids ages 15 - 8, but when their sleeping over a friends or at granny's house we usually don't even close the door when we bathe. But sometimes when the house is clear I have done it out of force of habit, nothing to worry about. |
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Ms. GTO
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think about it!! would you like her walking in on you while you were in there doing your thing?
And when you have kids living in the house, sometimes the time you spend in the bathroom is the only "private time" you get! |
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stopbeingretarded
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She probably just does it out of habbit now. She probably doesn't even think anything of it. But, she may like the privacy too. Maybe she's not as comfortable as she used to be with her body or somehting? |
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I Dream of Best Answer
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dont worry about it... my son is 2 and i lock the door. even when he's sleeping... i do that because it's a habit now. your wife is probably the same way. |
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chelseahlywd
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i think youre making a big deal out of nothing. girls need privacy, they need to be alone sometimes. it most likely has nothing to do with you. just ask her. its not a big deal, trust me. |
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~Amor~
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That's a funny question. I never thought of that. Yeah... You have a point... Why does our partner lock the doors when it's just only the 2 of you in the house? Good question. |
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latrailera2000
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Don't read anything into it she's prob just doing it out of habit. |
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T H
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I lock the door whether my hubby and son are home or not. It is about privacy. Some days it seems like a shut bathroom door is an open invation for everyone to come marching through. There are some things that I do in the bathroom that I do not need an audience for. Don't read too much into it. If it really bothers you; why don't you suggest washing her back for her? Or giving her a soapy massage? Maybe draw the bath, light some candles, get out and when she is ready to get out of the tub meet her at the door with a towel fresh from the dryer. Give her some time by herself and be supportive. |
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LaDii_Nae_Nae
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thats not a big deal!!! she wants some privacy...everybody need some privacy especially when u have some grown children now |
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U is for Uranium
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Get a lock picking set...problem solved. |
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kiki72404
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prolly just habit, she may also just feel she may need to keep up her personal boundries |
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Juice
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naw. sounds like its just a habit. Sometimes I have the house to myself and I still lock the door. ......I didn't even notice I did that until now lol |
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Good Comrad
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Get over yourself, it is now just a habit. If she is now locking her legs together to keep you out, then it might be something. |
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Kc
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I'd be tempted to say out of habit.
It's difficult to switch on and off a habit. Besides, it's better for her to keep the habit of locking the door than otherwise, don't you think?!
Just knock on the door and remind her that there's just the two of you.
Besides, being in the bathroom gives her some time to herself, as it sounds like it's a mad house when the whole family is together, with friends coming in etc...
Just ask her if she's ok with you sharing some moments of her privacy with her sometimes.
I don't think there's anything to worry about really.x |
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aneil
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stop being so girly. if everything in your marriage is fine don't pick out little stuff like locking the door, it can start a whole motion of other things that used to be great in to being bad. "love your wife". the boys their friends maybe she doesn't want to freak them out did you think of that. |
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joyceeleann
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After having kids and taking care of your butt..she deserve to lock the door... |
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