My wife said she would have a threesome with me and then changed her mind. What should I do.?

treasure

so let it go & move past this idea

Lioness

Don't do this. She said she would do it only to please you. But I have a feeling it is violating her whole value system. Don't ask her to go against her values for you. It's not right and it's a great way to destroy your marriage.

missy1261983

Quit being a pig and be happy with your wife, shes hot!

ÊŸÉªÊŸÉªá´›Ð½

Apparently you don't have much respect for your wife.

You might as well start writing up the divorce papers now. If shes smart, she has already.

Sad boho girl

Have a two-some with your WIFE! That's how it works stud.

serra

let it go dont push it or it will all back fire!!

Veni

Nothing be quiet before you find yourself on the other end of a divorce.

SomeGuy

It was probably a trick. If you said yes, then she would think your a pig. If you said no, then she would think you're honorable. Did you even answer? Because if not, she may have gotten the expression that you were seriously thinking about it.

ST0MP3R

YOUR A PUNK DUDE,YOU MAKE A MOCKERY OUT OF MARRIAGE AND THINK ITS A JOKE.YOUR SAYING TO YOUR WIFE HEY HONEY I LOVE YOU AND WILL DEVOTE MY LIFE TO YOU BUT I WANNA BANG OTHER GIRLS AND DISHONOR YOU AND OUR MARRIAGE.YOU MAKE THE REST OF US REAL MEN LOOK LIKE @SSHOLES,YOUR GRADE -A TRASH BRA

sunshine97

Love you wife and leave it at that.

cass the shiz

That's disgusting. If you're married to someone you only do stuff with that person, you don't let other people join in. That is extremely dirty.

say "what ever makes you happy, dear" and never bring it up.

Cure for your blonde addiction

Have respect for her and drop it - obviously she didn't wanna do it in the first place. If you truly love her you wouldn't have EVER aked her to do that or expected her to!

mike g

was it to be a boy/ boy or a girl/girl? either way let it go or get her really drunk,lol,but never force it or you will lose in the end,she sounds as if given time you will have a birthday present you want some time,which is better than not,right! good luck dont push it.

ramni222

so now you know how charlie brown felt when lucy moved the football.

Let it go. You will lose her forever if you have a threesome. She clearly wanted to make you happy but realized she doesnt want to have to compete with another woman for HER OWN HUSBAND. If you have a 3 some your marriage will end. Drop the subject forever. You will never get it!

sweetie

Don't push her and you should ask her to do that anyways. Normally when people do it later on it causes issues in the marriage. Unless you are one of those people who don't mind seeing someone else touching your spouse. Also don't ask her to do it with another girl unless you are willing to do it with another dude.

Star

SHE WAS SMART TO CHANGE HER MIND. You must not have been reading all the questions on HERE about people who have threesomes and ruin there marriage from it. A threesome is not what marriage is about. You want to spice up your marriage try having your wife act out something or even be a different personality. but NEVER add people to the BEDROOM it will never work and can RUIN your marriage forever.

db14

You can't force it and even though she does it, it doesn't mean she is really into it. She is probably doing it for you and will resent you later.

goaheadnfireme

Don't do it. It will ruin your marriage. >>

happy wifey

Respect her feelings and let it go.

Sookie Stackhouse

Then get over it. It probably won't happen.

amare

Leave it alone; don't try to force her to do this. I will backfire for sure!

Sue C

First, I would NOT want to "share" my husband w/any other female. That just may be the tho't w/her too! She may have said it w/o even thinking just to make you happy, then once the whole tho't of it actually hit her, she no doubt just chged. her mind. I sure would NOT pressure her w/it tho as that really could be the very tho't of ill feelings twds you, & might ruin the good relationship you already have. You've sure told her, so she knows how you feel. I'd just let it go, & you know you'd be the first one to know IF she chged her mind..Good luck...:)

~*Aidens Mommy*~

Just let it go..don't push her towards it or you'll end up with a war on your hands.

trisha

i think u should respect her decision. its against god and it will probably change things 4ever.

Veronica

dont do anything.................its problay for the good trust me you'll problay regret it if you did lots of promblems can create

only 1 me

lay off

Ben Dover

With you? Don't you need a third party?

Lucius Scribbens

Drop the subject. It would appear that at first glance it was a hot idea for her, but after thinking about it, not so much.

She knows you want a threesome, so if she is ever at the place in her mind that she does to, she'll come to you and let you know.

Remember, nobody likes to be pressured, coerced or manipulated into doing something they don't want to do. Doing so will just cause them to resent you. Since you don't want that, I suggest you drop the idea for a while.

She's entitled to change her mind, just like you are. Be patient and she may change it back. Chances are, she brought it up because it interested her. If she was interested once, she will be again. In the meantime, hands and eyes off of other women, or you'll never get what you want.

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