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You're in the right, and she's just being defensive.
Sorry you're going through this. Plenty of women would kill for a faithful man with a job! And one who cares about his kids, too? :: swoon :: |
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mannliz
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Sorry but your wife is just a jamtart,and i wouldn,t let her have my dog let alone the kids. |
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Rav
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Way to stick to your guns. You two have kids to consider, and this woman is obviously putting herself above everyone. She may have decided that her behavior is OK, but it is NOT something children should see. Divorce her and move on. You deserve a LOT better than that skank. |
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Kiki B
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She is commiting adultery and trying to justify it by calling YOU narrow minded? I have heard just about everything, but this comes close to the top 10 lame excuses for cheating. The number one is "You made me do it"....
See a lawyer before she messes up your children's heads, and remove them from this abuse |
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box of rain
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Don't let her control you anymore with her mental games. Use you balls man and get out now. It is only going to get worse from here. And while you are at it, go to an al-anon meeting so you can learn how to deal with her substance abuse issues. |
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moonchild
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I agree with you. The kids don't need to be around that type of behaviour. She doesn't have a clue what marriage is about or she wouldn't be sleeping around. You're not narrow minded she is just a tramp. |
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mafiosu
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Your wife has a screw loose somewhere. I would move towards a legal separation and get custody of your children. You can't reason with someone like her. It doesn't matter how other Americans view her lifestyle, they are free to view it however they like. And they can, because they don't have to suffer the consequences of it. However, a divorce judge will probably side with your viewpoint. Her lifestyle isn't something she needs to have children involved in, and the judge will probably agree (if he/she isn't a swinger too). |
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tj0744
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i have a cheating wife too, so i feel for you, although mine only did it once. as for the swinging lifestyle, she's not swinging unless you are included in the encounters, shes just sleeping around. Time to see the almighty lawyer, and tell her to kiss her kids good bye, as harsh as that sounds, she isnt teaching your kids anything right. Sorry man, good luck |
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darlene z
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Well, I guess I must be narrow minded too, because I would call her a cheating - - - - -. She is not being a very good role model for the children, and no, I would not let her take the children ANYWHERE. |
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atiana
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I think you have made a very wise decision for yourself and your children. getting her out of your life and the lives of your children will be the best thing for you and the kids.
and she should never be allowed to take those children anywhere. with her lack of morals, I wouldn't trust her with them, and I wouldn't trust any of her "friends" around them either. I would honestly be scared to death that the children would be molested.
she may have given birth to those kids, but she is no kind of mother to them.
I suggest that you go to court and get full custody of your children. and if you ever feel like letting her see them, make sure that it's in your home, and that she is supervised with them at all times.
if she wants to live a repulsive lifestyle and expose herself to every kind of disease out there, then let her. but you and your children deserve far better.
you're obviously a great father, and you have the best interests of your children at heart.
I wish you all the best.
by the way, you should let your wife read this. I'm sure that I'm not the only one disgusted by her behavior. |
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Racist Answer Man
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I'd say her mind, and her legs, are wide enough for the both of you.
Go to court and get sole custody on this one. The court normally doesn't care who slept with who to break up the marriage - but it will care about her swinging lifestyle. It will be adjudged to present a serious threat to the children maintaining the lifestyle that they have become used to.
Other than that I really don't care about what consenting adults do. |
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WDOUI
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Sometimes being narrow minded is a good thing. I would say you are not being narrow minded in this case. Take the kids and run. Do not turn back. Your life will get better and you will enjoy it.Your kids will be better off not visiting this life style |
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AlwaysWondering
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that would probably make me doubt her judgement on anything. good luck to you and the kids |
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barb s
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Narrow-minded? She just wants to sleep around and wants your approval. I'm not too sure if you can keep her from the children, but I wouldn't want her around the kids. |
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shes_marie77
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Narrow minded? NO!! Marriage and child minded? Yes! The majority of Americans have values and want the same for their children. Don't let her bum fuzzle you into thinking you've done a thing wrong. She needs to think about how her action affect the children and quit being so selfish. That kind of behavior is an embarrassment to you and to the children. Document everything, and don't let her have your children without supervision. |
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lotteda717
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I'm sorry sir,but your wife is worse than a hoe.I would be afraid she will want the kids to join in the actives.Divorce her and get soul custody of the children.Then go on with your life.In a few years she will die of AIDS anyway.You are not being narrow minded you are being moral.You can not live a decent life with some one like this. She is not a mother any one would want. |
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lousy@love
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You're not narrow minded, your normal. Find a lawyer, file for divorce and get custody of your kids. I wouldn't let her take the kids, she's hardly a good role model. I wish you and your kids the very best of luck. I was humiliated to have to go after a cheating husband, but you really need to have an Aids test. |
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anoldmick
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I'd no more let that woman take my kids than I'd hand them over to a serial killer. You're damned right you're being narrow-minded, and you have my heartiest congratulations! That is exactly what the kids need - a father who does not put up with that kind of bull! |
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mayrad
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your wife is sleezy and dirty. |
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godschildforlife
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I think you are an excellent father for wanting to do what is best for your kids. Mom needs a reality check. Just because other people are doing something doesn't make it right. What kind of example is she setting for your kids?? Not one you want them to have. I admire you for not wanting them around that lifestyle even if it means they don't get to see mom, which i know has to be hard to deal with. I would suggest telling mom that as long as she is sleeping around, the kids aren't allowed there. She will either decide she loves her kids and wants to straighten out her life so she can see them, or she will choose to do what she wants. Whatever she chooses, you are doing the right thing by protecting your kids. Keep up the good work. Good Luck and God bless. |
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Carpe Diem
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Its so nice to see that there are still dads who care for their kids and loves them. You are defenitely not narrow minded, but just a normal human being. Good luck for the future |
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sharky
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Listen, if that is the lifestyle she wants, then my sggestion to you is that as painful as it may be, let her have it. Obviously you don't agree to it, because if you did, you wouldn't have had a need to post this question about it. Neither do i agree to it, and I would not stand for it. And call a lawyer immediately, file for divorce, and protect your children by not letting her near them...the lawyer can file for a restraining order or something, but you need to get away from her as fast as you can.
Thats my heart felt suggestion to you............ |
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Notbusy
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WWWWHAT???? You actually question whether to trust your children with some two bit alley cat? You did the right thing, it is women like her that make us good women look bad! Good luck with your kids. |
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rainydaze
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I wouldn't let her take the kids to the bathroom!
She has the nerve to call you narrow- minded? You took her back two too many times is what you did wrong.
She is cheating on you right in front of your face and your kids.
She should be sent packing to the boyfriends house (without the kids) for good with her swimsuit only.
As for you, how could you put up with that crap from her???
Enough is enough ya think? |
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518
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You need to get a divorce and stop thinking that she is going to do the right thing you can file and have the paper sent to her. Let her know that you married her not to continue a single lifestyle. |
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drewxjacobs
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She sounds like a ****. She is sleeping around outside the marriage but you have the problem of being narrow minded? That's rich. There is also that pesky little problem of STD's. Does she care if she gets anything by messing around with all these guys? Obviously, she doesn't nor does she care if she gave it to you. Be glad you are rid of her. |
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