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Missie
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Stay with her or leave her. Either way you still have to do everything. Do you prefer to do this with her or without her? |
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Lunaeclipz
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Keep up the good work-oops you missed a spot |
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a v
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if you have a job and she doesn't tell her to do work
however if you both have jobs then split the work
if she has a job and you don't then quit biiiitching and do the work |
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My Account Suspended 4 no Reason
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Keep cleaning. Now you know what women go through. When I was married, I also had to do the yard work and put up Christmas lights, fix things etc...... |
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★ ±
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★★Watch your mouth before u talk
★Keep cleaning dude
and have fun ★ |
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RomeyM
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Find out why she quit doing housework. Is she depressed, overwhelmed, taken for granted, busy with the kids. Just throwing some possibilities out there. You should talk to her and find out what the problem is before you can figure out how to fix it. |
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Edge/Lita Own
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She probably stopped cleaning because she like you are now was sick of doing it all herself.
Maybe if you know "helped her out by cleaning up after yourself" then maybe she wouldnt have stopped.
I bet your to be blamed for this problem |
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Austen
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Tt G, that would make her even less capable to clean =) |
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CODY & PRINNY'S MAMA
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do it yourself or pay the merry maids....us women clean the house 24-7 quit yer bellyachin' |
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Azza
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get a hot looking cleaning lady, your wife will start to clean again |
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Sounds Painful
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Does she work? Does she feel overwhelmed by the housework on top of her job?
If she doesn't work, then you need to explain to her that you both have responsibilities, and your partnership should be equal. If you work 8 hours a day at a job, then she needs to pitch in at least a few hours a day picking up the house.
Or: make a list of all the duties (sweeping, washing dishes, laundry, etc), and divide them up. ASK HER which chores she is willing to do, and try to divide them up based on your schedules. For example: The laundry should be done during the daytime, so whoever is home during the day needs to take care of the laundry. The dinner dishes have to be washed after dinner, the dusting should be done during the day (so you can SEE the dust, LOL), etc. |
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B L
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ask for help just like she would do when she was cleaning the house asking u to take out trash pick up your own stuff etc |
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L
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Try and split duties, why did she stop? |
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Alexavier's mommy!!
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Talk to her about it!
Tell her that you can use some help!
Good luck! |
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wizmo64
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why did she stop cleaning? |
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Juicy Couture
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stop cleaning and make more of mess then maybe she will get tired of a messy house.
or even just talk to her about it,
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Lane
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employ a new maid this time pay her....respect |
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bert
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Live with it, have you asked her to help, ask her why she stopped. Maybe it was because she was doing to much work, offer fot her to help and you share equal amounts of work. |
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Susan C
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call Molly Maids... |
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alpha & omega
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You have a good wife. She gave you time to be on the computer. Go back, inspect the house, maybe you miss a dirty spot. |
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Che
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Just ask her for help. I think she's just trying to prove that you need her just as much as she needs you. Talk to her and remind her that marriage isn't just a engagement, it's a partnership |
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ditto
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stop cleaning too. maybe shell get sick of sitting in filth and clean it up. act like it doesnt bother you. |
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Kelly A
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She's probably depressed. I live alone, but when I'm depressed I don't feel like cleaning or even picking up stuff. Try to cheer her up, make her feel valued. Tell her that you love your home and want it to look nice, but can't do it all by yourself and need her help. If she's seriously depressed, she might need counseling/meds. |
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retread
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the dishes too.... |
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TripletsPlusOne
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Do you both work? You should both be helping with housework if you both work. If you do not then you should do the majority. If she does not work you should stop cleaning and let her spend her days in filth. |
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Brown Sugar
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get a new wife. lol! just kidding!! |
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ELLE
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Bring her over here so my husband will then really have something to complain about. I will move in with you as I don't mind cleaning as long as you don't mess it up withing 5 minutes of stepping inside the door. Deal? |
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Drop short and duck
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Next time you are cleaning up the house and your wife is around just pick her up and put her in the dustbin and put the lid on tight so she cannot get out. Nail it up if you have too. |
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pay it forward
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Make a chart & put it on the refrigertor. Mon-living room & dining room Teusday-Kitchen Wednesday Bedrooms Thursday- office or whatever rooms you have Friday- if she is able to clean tell her you are vacuuming & she is to wash the floors & buy on those fun swiffer mops, tell her to windex all mirrors & clean the bathroom while you vacuum. So try to just get her to prepare for the weekend if you both work on Fri but are off on Saturday make it your routine then. I hope this works out...this is how I do house work & I have almost no clutter to make it all easy. So you can cheat & not dust the l.r. & d.r. every week if you house stay pretty clean but this gives you a guide. Hope it works out well for you...Oh, I get up every morning & spray clorox spray cleaner on my counter tops & we have a dishwasher so that little everyday should help....when she washes the floors it is all that are not carpeted. |
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bluelotussmellslikebananas
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Not many detail provided so it is hard to answer. Only thing I would say is if she stopped cleaning the house, how is her hygiene? If that has slipped it's time to move on. |
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