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My wife went thru my briefcase and found a receipt for where I took my girlfriend on vacation last December.?

We've been married 4 years now (no kids), and now she's all pronked off cause I took this other woman to Florida. I say she's got no right to be pronked, cause she SNOOPED where she wasn't sposed to. I can't stand snoopers, and I'm seriously thinking about leaving her. What should I do?
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I'd really like to hear from some guys, instead of a bunch of women who OBVIOUSLY endorse SNOOPING!


    




danxtsupamodel
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Well speaking from a wifes prespective. There has to be trust in a relationship-hell the marriage. I think that she feels like she's being lied to and she is....You have given her a reason to snope and when she did she found the answer that she was looking for. I think you should be a man and fess up. If you love her than you should go to counseling and try to make it work but as I see it you have given up and gone to another women so I would think that you both discuss the finances and part.....

You have fallen out of love or something has changed because you are with someone else. It's sad but you need to tell her so she can at least stop looking. You men never know how to hide anything. Not that I'm condoning this but you should have known better. It's you fault you got caught....Shame on you....


what's the point
Aint karma a b****?!!!!
Do you wife a favor and give her a divorce.
I bet all that alomony you'll be paying will cut into your vacations. HA!!
Were you looking for sympathy on here?

****We don't endorse snooping. We endorse fidelity. Get the difference?


lalena_06
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This saddens me... doesn't anybody take their wedding vows seriously anymore?


hotmomma
If you are taking a girlfriend to Florida then you do not love your wife. I am surprised that she did not leave you.


mamabear
She should be the one leaving you.


Barkley Hound
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There are no secrets between a husband and a wife. You are guilty.

BTW: I am 99% sure that your question is trolling. I don't believe it.


nancy b
Sounds like my husband...she has every right to snoop (obviously), if you cant be committed then yes, leave her. You cant stand snoopers, I bet she cant stand liars, cheaters and adulterers. What a silly question!!


Kelly RIch
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thats what you get for your actions.


Angelic Valentine
You should leave.....because you do not deserve her, not bc she snooped. Apparently you gave her a reason to snoop to begin with, therefore, you have to live with the consequences. Hopefully she will leave you and take you for everything you are worth....which cannot be much, bc a real man would break off a marriage before he cheats.


Elt
I agree, you should leave her. She deserves better than you!


Breezy365
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You're a flipping Idiot!!! And you know it!!! It would be a blessing to her if you left her, I think.


pearlsoutherngirl
First off you are married , you had no right to cheat on your wife . your wife should have been the one you took to Florida.
Maybe she should leave you


Meghan H
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Leave her. She'll be better off without you.


stenobrachius
Ya know, I think I'm figuring out. Most trolls keep the Q&A section of their profile private.


wannabhppy
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She should be leaving you. If you left her you would be doing her a huge favor, what are you waiting for.


green_clovers66
She should be the one leaving you! you cheated


Madkins007
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Snooping is not the issue. You are only worried about that because you had something to hide. If you had no real secrets, you would not really care if she was poking around.

You were cheating on her with big bucks involved before she snooped. You were obviously unhappy with her in some way already and you are grasping at straws to justify yourself.

Buck up and act like a man. Leave her if you want, but stop lying to yourself about what is really going on here.


(Father of 4,married for almost 30 years now.)


♫You hate Cuz I'm a RockStar
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Yeah do her a favor,she needs a real man.


lisa g
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I agree with all the others.
why on earth would you be taking another woman on holiday with you? she had every reason to snoop.
your relationship seriously should be over.


LJ
you shouldn't have cheated on her hopefully she leaves you
and don't get married unless you intend to be faithful


Navyexwife
Why does our opinion matter? Obviously you are doing whatever you want anyways....
Get some b@lls and be honest with your wife and yourself.


backwardsinheels
She should leave "you" because...

1. You cheated on her
2. You lied to her
3. You're misleading her (in that she apparently believed she was in a monogamous relationship)
4. You weren't clever enough to destroy the evidence
5. You blame her for a minor transgression to cover up the responsibility of your major transgression

Bring the Karma!


ukgirlblue
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Leave her, She's to good for you..


corkylane
Answer:

If I was your wife, I would have left you as soon as I found the receipt. Men like you don't deserve to be married if you are going to play the field

corky


flirty30
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All women don't endorse snooping. I think she found what she did not want to find. But that does not flip everything on her either. Both of you were wrong. You for your secret rendezvous and her for being nosy. You are at the root of the problem. You are the one with the infidelity. You actually were even more wrong for keeping your actions a secret in the first place. You are only angry because she found out. You should apologize and so should she and then the two of you need to decide how you are going to handle your problem. Just because you don't have kids don't mean you were any less wrong. Hope you get things straightened out.


KD
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Cut her a break and leave. You're "pronked" at snooping, but adultery doesn't even register? She deserves better.


♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥
You're a PIG!
Your wife is SNOOPING because YOU ARE CHEATING!





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