NOW what do I do about him...?!?!?
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NOW what do I do about him...?!?!?
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So check my recent question about my husband if you want further detail, but I'll just recap here real quick. Doctors think my husband is bipolar, and he's been switched from medication to medication, and just recently (Thursday) had his prescription for Abilify doubled. Since Sunday he's been really weird -- VERY irritable.
Last night he snapped and left the house for a "walk" saying he'd be back in 10 minutes and didn't come back for over 2 hours. I was really worried because he wasn't in his right head. He returned, thank God, but was still not in his right head. I left him alone. This morning he still seemed to be off. When I started talking to him this morning he said that he thought maybe we should separate for a few days and see how it goes. We talked about it like a month ago and he was very adament to NOT separate. Now he's saying maybe he wants to because he "can't live like this" but we haven't even been fighting!
I don't know what to do because I know he's not in his right head right now. He's been really weird since they doubled his medication, and so I'm not sure if it has to do with that or what. I just don't know what to do. Even this morning he was like "Maybe I should just kill myself then nothing would ever be an issue again!"
I'm really worried. What should I do?
Thanks.
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He actually signed a release with his doctors that they can talk to me about anything; so I know they'd be able to. I'm just worried about over reacting.
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Happy-2
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Call the doctor's office that prescribed him the medication and report this. Sometimes people have unexpected reactions to dosage changes, and his doctor needs to know what's going on.
Edit: You're not overreacting. Being gone for 2 hours, proposing separation, and mentioning suicide add up to being call-the-doctor worthy. |
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ablex
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Talk to his doctors. Even if they can't give you information (patient confidentiality) they should know about the suicidal remarks and the change in behavior so they can adjust the meds or take other action as needed. |
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mrsphd10
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Speak to his doctor now! |
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Winter is over... yay!
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Like most people said, call the doctor. Explain how he is behaving.
Changing meds in bipolar sometimes screw them up badly. My ex-husband switched meds at some point (when he was taken them) and it REALLY wasn't working. Made him worse... but got switched back to another one that worked better after that.
Call the doctor, do not wait to do so. |
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SwEEtie PiE
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Call the doctor |
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Baby Doll Pregnant W Baby No.1 x
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Hun i would call and talk to his doctor about it tell them everything thats been going on and maybe suggest him coming in to see the doc again he may need to change his dosage or even prescription.x |
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