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I'm getting married next month but my fiancé argued with me n yelled at me so I wanted to call off d wedding.he gets mad n treaten me tht he's telling his mom.I can't take it anymore.he always treaten that.I cook for him almost every day,n I think he just don't appreciate me.after 8hour ago we argued ,we haven't spoken to each other n I can't go anywhere.it's complicated now coz we're staying together.I hate this.for now I wanna run somewhere tht I can ease my mind.other people even his friends always tell him tht he's lucky to have me,but when it's just us,he always start d tantrum.I'm sick n tired of this coz I deserve better.
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I don't really depend on him coz I work n have my own money..we've been together since i was in college n he did this b4 .I broke it off in front of his mom coz he asked her to come n talk to me.both blamed me n my family didn't know abt this. Who will be ok if this always happen..then he waited everyday n apologize.I forgave him but now he's doing it again.everytime I wanted 2 tell my parents he begged me not to.he promised tht he 'll treat me better in d future n he did for awhile until yesterday...a few months after he got back 2gther,he proposed.we're getting married in a month n I don't know wht should I do now.I'm still young, n love my job as a model n self employed to my co.n actly I never planned b4 to get married at this age.but since my parents didn't know anything abt b4,d date has been set n I tried to think positive, at tht time n now I'm giving up hopes.but he can't take it if I break it off n will go crazy.how n wht should I do
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Rikab
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Ive been with my husband for 15 years and married for 5. If he's yelling at you and you are not even married yet how do you feel he will act when you are officially HIS? You are young and maybe you two can get counseling before marriage. It would be a way for you to get him to hear your point of view and a chance to understand your feelings about how he is treating you. Maybe he is a little intimidated by you because he knows you are independent and don't need him for support. He may be afraid that he will lose you so he tries to keep you thru control. Talk to him, tell him how you feel face to face. If he loves you he won't get mad about your feelings he will try to change his ways and make it better. plz visit my forum @freemind.forumotion.com |
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LAZY
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he doesnt love you. |
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Joe w
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Is this a sample of what your life will be like? |
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scoobychick
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I only have one thing to say. If things are bad now they will only get worse after you get married. I would call it off if I were you regardless of wedding stress he should never misstreat you or threaten you in anyway!! Be strong!! (ok that was more than one thing but oh well lol) |
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Lizzie81
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It seems like he's quite controlling and demanding. weddings n stress do tend to go hand in hand but is this just wedding related. You dont want to be in a relationship where you arent your own person. I was told never to marry a man thinking you can change him. If he's like this now, he's going to be like it when the rings on the finger..... |
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China Doll 3
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You are not ready for marriage, sort out your problems. |
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DJ
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I don't know what you argued about, but wedding pressures can bring stress; however, if this has been going on for a while, it's best to back out now. If you don't feel lucky to have him, that's one big red flag that he's not your Mr. Right.
Threats are no way to resolve a problem. Tantrums are thrown by immature people; this guy doesn't sound like he's ready to be a husband or a father.
If you're fed up with his behavior now, it's not going to improve after the wedding. It's best to back out gracefully now before you're really in over your head. |
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Pete Rock
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OKay after deciphering your 3rd grade lingo...
He really doesn't appreciate you. I suggest you ask him for a break, and reassure him that it isn't another man, it's him messing up. The break is so that he can miss you and start to appreciate. If he doesn't and goes screwing around, time to move on. |
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F*U*TROLL
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Any normal person would tell you the same thing as me. Leave!
There is no need to follow through with this relationship or worse marriage and kids to suffer is So uncalled for. |
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