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mwilson865
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Having urges is normal, we are all human, the grass always looks greener on the other side I would suggest not throwing away years of marriage to go after another girl. Another option would be to talk with your wife and see if it would be OK, some couples have open marriages and it works for them but for most it is not a good idea. Good Luck! |
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Lv Dr. 4U
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Why do you want this other girl? Booty call vs. 21 years, come on man! |
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cooter726
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What do you want us to do, give you the ok? NOT!!!!! |
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j j
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Just think... is one night with this other girl worth risking 21 years of marriage. Men who love their wives don't cheat. |
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Shadow
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Help you with what? At your age you should know how to cheat. |
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☻Cheshire Kat☻
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Be ready to lose it all -- wife, reputation, money, children. Have fun with that.
You don't love your wife. You don't do things like that to people you love. Would you sell your child to a stranger and then say you love your child? I don't think so. Cheaters only love themselves. Get a conscience. |
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Stick
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Women are like a drug. Very addicting! That being said, if you don't want to take that drug , then "just say no". |
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Cameo
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You're married to a woman and your tempted by a "girl." That says a lot about the problem you're really facing. |
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Yoda
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The want you speak of is fleshly desire and will bring you no happiness only pain and despair. It is tempting I am sure, but you owe it to your wife and more importantly yourself not to persue this trist. Unless of course the last 21 years have been a lie and a waste of time for you, if so then trash your marriage and get your 30 minutes of pleasure.
Yoda out |
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littlexmissxkickbutt
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Don't you dare. Your wife shall hate you for enternity and you will lose what is really true to you. |
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TABBY
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I would ask yourself this question: Are you willing to live the rest of your life without your wife? Are you comfortable with seeing her with someone else? Because let me tell you buddy that is exactly what is going to happen! But hey if its worth it go for it dude. |
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uneekqamar2004
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Ask your wife for permission, why ask us? What kind of conditional love do you have for your wife that you would disrespect her? |
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pitchingcoach
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You need help with your zipper or what? If you love your wife live it in your pants. If you just got to have someone else file for a divorce and spare your wife. She'll be hurt but not as much as cheating and then divorcing. |
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4u2nv
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If you really love your wife, fight the desires to be with this other woman. 21 years is a very long time, if you did it for that long you can keep doing it. |
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***Nickster***
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We all go through changes and urges, I would really think about it, do you want to throw 21 years of marriage away if your wife found out. I think maybe you should do something diffrent with your wife. spice it up a bit......Honestly dont do it, think of how you would feel if she did it.... |
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Hoping he will bless me with #1
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What do you need help with? I'm confused. |
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Amber
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Please don't say u still love your wife but are thinking about cheating all in the same sentence. If u truly love your wife then why don't u work on your marriage, because you are obviously not happy. (because happy people don't cheat) You have 2 choices here..........either seriously talk with your wife about spicing up the marriage and making it great again..........or leave her. You marriage will be destroyed in the end anyhow if u stay and cheat......so be more of a man than that. You better really think hard over your decision though, because there is no turning back.........and u know the old saying the grass isn't always greener on the other side. ;-) Good luck |
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faith
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Quit thinking with that thing between your legs!!! Be faithful to your wife!!!!!!!!!!! |
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nonameblonde
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Time for therapy! If you really love your wife, this wouldn't be happening. Stop being selfish and consider how she will feel when she finds out. Would you want this done to you? |
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Swindoll
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My questions to you... how would you feel to find out 1. That your wife had desires for another man. 2. Claimed she loved you but still want to be with another man? 3. After she's with this man, come back home to you? How would you feel again and if you don't feel anything, you should be asking for counseling because divorce is soon to follow. |
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cangirl
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if u love ur wife u wouldnt want this other girl think before u do cause if ur wife finds out u cheated then she might divorce u |
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juliette
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A cheater is a cheater is a cheater. No way around it. Either you are a decent human being..or you are a cheater. |
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Christine B
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Why cheat, talk to your wife, maybe a threesome, you never know it might be something your wife might go for. |
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minerva
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instead of thinking about the other girl, sorry, isnt she a woman? anyway, think about what is going wrong in your relationship with your wife. then, go talk to your wife, tell her you want to cheat on her, and discuss. |
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Angel_Eyes
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Wow aren't you a ******* A**hole your willing to throw away 21 years of marriage on some girl that you just want to sleep with... your wife deserves better! |
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lvbrdy4vr
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Please get a divorce first.Don't cheat on her.I am so tired of seeing people who take the vows to be faithful but just don't.If you even think about cheating,you shouldn't be married.Marriage is not a game.Stop thinking about yourself,and worry about your wife.You say you still love your wife?Why are you on Yahooanswers asking this imature question? |
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