Normal marriage problems?
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Normal marriage problems?
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we always are arguing about everything and i would rather aways be alone
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Lil B
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I agree that is not normal at all...you need to think about counselling to learn how to communicate and decide how you can want to be together. |
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whocj78
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Be careful about using words like "always" and "never" when describing your relationship. Not only are they rarely very accurate but both words tend to put your significant other on "the defensive".
If you'd rather always be alone, then maybe you should consider getting some alone time. It doesn't have to be weeks or months. It could just be for the night or go spend a weekend with your family, etc.
However, if you find that you're chronically wanting to be alone maybe you're avoiding addressing the actual problem OR perhaps you'd be better off being alone if you feel that you're trying to resolve conflict and after repeated attempts it isn't getting anywhere.
You might find a counselor or at least some sort of mediator helpful. At least so a dialogue can start flowing between the two of you that hopefully isnt' too hurtful.
I hope this helps.
Good luck to you. |
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magerious
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All marriages have down cycles where you just can't see eye to eye on things, but as long as the conversation stays productive and doesn't descend into name calling and hate speech then you can work through it and find a way to meet each others needs.
If you can, write a letter to your spouse telling him everything you love about him, and everything you wish would change in your relationship. You can't interrupt a letter, and so you can feel free to get everything out. Ask him to return the letter and then read his letter and begin the conversations that you will need to restore the union. |
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Aimes
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That's not normal at all.. |
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Ruth L
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I'm not sure how long you have been married, but i know that the first 2 years or so were pretty tough for my husband and I. Just adjusting and stuff. Everyone definately needs their own time to themselves, but make sure you are giving your husband the time and attention he needs too. As far as the arguing...if you are truly arguing the majority of the time, you might consider that a problem. Like i said though, the beginning of our second year of marriage was the worst and i felt like we were arguing the majority of the time. luckily we worked through that though. just dont let it go on for too long without getting some help. |
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Patricia M
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No, that isn't normal... |
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VHE123
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NO...I don't think that's normal. YES -- there's always disagreement and arguments in any relationship, but you would always find your way together again after a cooling period. You really never want to be alone. If that's how you feel, maybe you guys have grown apart without knowing it. |
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3 girls call me mommy
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i don't know if its normal or not
but me and husband seem to like to argue about everything we hardly agree on anything. and i find on his days off after we get the kids in bed i usually hope that he is gonna play his video game or go play basketball.
some of his days off i wanna hang out with him after they are in bed and we do.
but there is no one i would rather spend my life with than him |
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