Home     Links     Contact Us     Bookmark  
 
   Homepage      News      Legal Forum      Dictionary  
Home : Legal Forum : Marriage & Divorce

Not Looking for Love...?
Find answers to your legal question.





Not Looking for Love...?

I've heard it said that once you stop looking for it, it comes to you. Do you believe that?

Well, even w/ my limited experience...I've decided that I am just going to currently stop looking for it but remain open to possibilities. I am graduating from college next May (2010) & I've decided that since I'm beginning to look at graduate school, job opportunities, & possible relocation along with my university extracurriculars (class, work, church, volunteering, Student Foundation, classical choir, being Vice Pres. of Membership of an honors frat...that I'm a pretty busy gal...All that to say:

I believe that whenever it happens, it will happen. I'm not going to look for it, I will continue to be a friendly person & although I feel like I'm ready for it...I know that even though I've dated guys in college, the right one will come when I'm least expecting it...

I don't know, I guess what I'm trying to ask is if this a good idea for right now? I've also concluded that I worry way too much, apparently for no reason either...so my mother & my friends say...Ugh, yeah...so much for avoiding schoolwork like the plague, just need to vent.


    




bandaid_46
Rating
I don't know if that is the solution, but I do know that life is a lot more enjoyable if you aren't obsessing about finding Mr. Right. And if he does come along, he won't look at you and think, wow, is that gal ever desperate...


secrets hurt
Rating
Yes love come to you...when your ready for it or not...everything just falls into place.....the way it was meant to





 Enter Your Message or Comment


User Name:  
User Email:   
Post a comment:




Legal Discussion Forum

 Look i need help america its about anger?
i have a lot of anger problems and its affecting my marriage, its like every thing i do i get this angry attitude, what is it its not bipolar, its somthing ...


 Can part of my husband's gross income be considered mine for child support , in a community property state?
I don't work. So isn't half of his income legally mine?
Additional Details
I am talking about how his child support to his ex is being calculated. If i can file an injured ...


 How do I get my list of hotties back?
Man, I had a ton of women as my fans...and now they all gone after some broad went and had my account deleted.

Ladies...where you go?...


 What is the "correct view" on marriage?
I've been told that my marriage views are "warped".

Can you help me become a better married person?

Does that mean I have to give it good to wifey otherwise she ...


 My husband has exclusive possession of our home and?
custody of my children.This is such a messy divorce .He is using them to get back at me.He is the bread winner and pays the bills .i was a stay at home mom.He was super controlling ,physically ...


 Is there a problem with wanting to be a house wife.?
I've been thinking about this for a long time. I'm only 17 years old and really shouldn't be think about marriage, but i like the idea of taking care a someone like that, I don't ...


 Repost due to no answers, please suggest?! This is a terrible situation!?
First off, I love my partner. When he isn't doing my head in, he treats me well and cares for me where he can. When he is allowed too (yes...allowed..) he spoils me, and we have a deep ...


 What do you do when the person who hurt you the most wants back into your life?
...


 Ladies, IF you cheated on your man?
(and I know no one you would) and he decides to take you back, would you see him as a weak man with no backbone or as a forgiving man who truly loves you? How can you tell the difference? I already ...


 Should I try and get the newborns named changed?
My ex and I had 2 kids and then she behind my back when and got off birth control. Then a few months before the new one was born she took off from Oregon to Louisiana whle I was at work. Yeah I know ...


 What have you learned from reading other people's Q&A on YA M&D?
...


 Ex Husband or Current Marriage?
I am married to my second husband now for six years, recently I have just been feeling like I have lost that connection with him. I think a lot about maybe being happier by myself. I recently have ...


 Since i found out wife was talking to guy at work for emotional support she said she did not get from me.?
I cant reach orgasm with her when we do it. I still love her and we have talked out our issues, I dont feel like I used to about her....


 How come so many married couples on here are so..?
tempted to cheat? Its like thats what all they ask about and the answers are all so lame and typical..Oh I wish to cheat..er...oh do not do it...etc...etc......


 Why do divorced women sometimes keep their husbands last name?
Sometimes the women hate their ex-husbands and still keep the last name anyways. Is it just because getting your name changed back is a hassle?...


 How do I get them to understand I'm not interested?
My wife and I just moved into our new house not very long ago. We met the neighbors and they were nice. The husband, Jeff, asked me if he thought his wife was hot. I said she was nice and left it ...


 What three words do you want your lover to say to you?
...


 How do you deal with a partner who is married to his job?
...


 What makes a relationship work?
To you what is it that makes your relationship work?...


 If you accused your mate of cheating?
and they said, "Well, if you're accusing me of it, I may as well do it!", would you think that they were already cheating?...




Copyright (c) 2009-2011 Wiki Law 3k Monday, May 28, 2012 - Trusted legal information for you.
Archive: Forum  |  Forum  |  Forum  |  Links
0.024