Not sure if I should cheat on my wife... I love her so much... Please help!?

Go Away Creep

I think you and "all your guy friends" are PIGS!!!!!!!!!!! If you truly love your wife, then why would you even consider sleeping with some bimbo???? Try making your relationship with your wife a bit more exciting. Buy a book on Kama Sutra and try out some crazy new positions or something. Don't cheat on her though. But if you're still determined to be a slimeball, then the best thing you could do for her and yourself is get a divorce.

what would you do if your wife cheated on with a man who a really, really, I mean REALLY!!! hot bombshell who lived two doors down?

you wouldnt like that would you?

mooncrystal6

NO! You'd regret it for the rest of your life. Why would you want to break the heart of the woman you love?

shadow1

you should get marriage help but I hope you love enough to atleast try to get help before you do something that you would regret

counterculturalist

when you said you love your wife, i believe you. when you said there was a really, really hot bombshell, i think i believe you too! LOL. there is a difference between fantasy and reality. think you should watch high fidelity by john cusack. he made a very good statement there (or rather, nick hornby the writer). anyway, i think you are on the verge of acting out on what you fantasise about, which is a bad thing. you should be incommunicado where this girl is concerned. if positions are switched and your wife has been talking to someone on the phone, how would you feel? i am sure your wife loves you so much... you probably have no idea. she's been with you for so long and is probably proudly counting the years she's been with you. fantasy is attractive when it is unattainable. but, as you go nearer to the goal and reach for it, guilt may consume you and i believe you will write again to this column and ask whether you ought to tell your wife about it (hang on, that woman may call your wife to tell her about it). relationship is crowded when there's a third party. when there's a third party, you do not have total control over the progress of your relation with your wife. your heart may be held to ransom by this girl's emotional blackmail. do not cheat by any means. it's fine to fantasise but totally wrong to cheat this way.

Hollynfaith

I've scraped better crap off the bottom of my shoe than you and your friends buddy!

Word to the wise, one hot chick will NEVER equal one good wife!

and REAL MEN don't cheat!

medium.skate

if you wouldnt want her to be filled with someone elses juice when you stick it in her so you come out covered in it, then dont do the equivalent to her

bethany j

I know you only want men opinions but anyway..you've only been married a year how are you tired of the same old thing already? you should be a real man and tell your wife you don't want her you want the chick up the street. She'd be sooooo wrong if she had some guy calling her and doing her. And how wrong are you sleeping with your neighbor while your wife is working all day to feed you???? Why did you even ask a question like that saying "men" when you knew it was going to be mainly women telling you you're dumb?????

Anon e Mouse

Just say NO to your desires and be faithful.

stuckondaeastcoast

So you go over and sleep with this other woman...then what? Will you tell your wife? Are you going to stay married? Or will you leave your wife (someone you have known for 7 years) for this new chick...who you know nothing about. If you think your wife would understand...how about you tell her you want to sleep with the neighbor before you do it?

Better question...how would you feel if you knew your wife had posted a similar question about a guy that she works with?

You don't need us to tell you what to do. You're a grown man. If you want to sleep with her you're going to do it no matter what you read here. My advice...Man up. Go tell your wife how you feel about this woman and handle your business.

Robert H

Your wife told her to flirt with you to see if you would cheat guess she's going to find out soon..pack your suitcase..

Kris

I do not believe that you love your wife 'so much' like you say you do. If you did, you would not be thinking of cheating. Hot bombshell or your marriage. Make a choice.

knowmeansknow

If the other chick lives two houses down, then you are 100% GUARANTEED GOING TO GET CAUGHT. Your wife will NEVER forgive you and, even if it didn't end your marriage, it would become a living hell.

And remember, the other chick is probably into you because you are married and unavailable. The really hot girls ... the ones that can get ANY guy ... well, guess what? ... you are a challenge because she can't have you. She is messing with you just to see if she can. Is it worth it? (You WILL get caught).

up4anything

thats not right and when you finally do it its not that good,you will not enjoy it as much as you think.you will be thinking of your wife while doing it and you will be living your life with guilt.

wait a minute i just read your previous question and you said you are a female,do you have a split personality?

Fromaggito

Idiot.....

Sadie

You're such a loser. You can't be that hot. The BEAUTIFUL woman is probably just messing with you. Besides your question contradicts itself. If you really loved your wife you wouldn't even be considering this.

MiaMia

You will regret it for the rest of your life. Where are your morals and self respect and respect for your wife. I can be almost positve that after you cheat on your wife you will feel TOTALLY DISGUSTED with yourself.

Kevin J

All your guy friends wont end up divorced if you do, but you will. It is NEVER ok to cheat on your wife. How did this girl get your cell number in the first place. Most people would say you are already cheating on your wife by talking to this girl behind her back. You want to cheat on your wife and feel ok about, ask your wife for permission to sleep with this girl. Once you do that you wont have to worry about it anymore because your wife will leave you. You must have thought your wife was beautiful at one time, you married her after all, look for what you found beautiful in your wife and rekindle what you have with her and forget the home wrecker down the street.

pjmom652003

If you REALLY loved her you wouldnt even consider it... no matter what she looks like. If you love her the way you say you do, before you do anything stupid go look in the mirror and slap yourself in the face. How would you feel if she did it to you? and by the way.....not all men cheat... Men with morals dont.

pandoras_beguiling_little_box

Are you serious? For a moment of fun, you will get a bunch of pain-- pain for your wife when she finds out (almost asuredly. People get a 6th sense for when they're being cheated on) and pain for you when she grabs the nearest bottle and cracks it over your thick skull. Imagine what you would do if you found out that your wife slept with another man and reverse it-- that's about how it will be. Not worth it. Not worth it at all, man.

â™¥SeReNdIpItYâ™¥

hhhhmmmm the only word tha comes to mind is LOSER oh no wait theres more... PATHETIC, SAD, WASTE OF SPACE!!!

lol are so so so pathetic if only you knew!

SCUMBAG!

crazywoman88

If all your guy friends tell you to go for it then they are trashy fools. Do you really want to risk losing your wife? You will. You have already cheated in my opinion by giving the bimbo your cell #. Some men are so shallow. Nothing but looks matter. Hey, I hope your wife leaves you and you get punished by winning the hand of this lovely uhhh, well I don't want to use bad language. Go ahead. She'll dump you after you've satisfied her hungry ego.

dÆ’

don't do it!! you wouldn't like it if your wife cheated on you

trish

put yourself in her shoes....you would kill that guy. that's a horrible excuse. resist temptation. going to a strip club is better than cheating. gaaahhh. you love her....but you want to cheat on her and hurt her completely? ....hmmm....but the chick is so hott....i can just bang her and my wife won't know........no. that chick could tell your wife. duhhh. idkk....it's up to you.

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