Not your every day lovestory!?

The Wiz

Yes. Sometimes people don't meet their soulmate until much later in life. These two sound like a perfect example & as you said, they understand each other which is most important. If you want to have a long & happy marriage then marry someone with whom you like to talk, because when the rest wears off, at least you'll enjoy the conversations, and you have become best friends. Best of luck, congratulations & many good wishes for them both.
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iaskwhy2007

Get em drunk. that always works.

Krystin =]

oh yes, if they are in love anything can happen just wait

Forever & Always

â™¥ Of course there is hope! They have to take things at their pace. When they time is right they will move behind just understanding each other & getting along so well.

:-)

nite_angelica

Slow is one thing, but my goodness..... :(

Sparks could definitely fly, but somebody is gonna HAVE to make some kind of move for that to happen.

8 months is a long time, but it sounds like they were made for each other.

I guess if none of them is ready to take the first step and if there's no situation forcing them into it, then, it may take for ever!
But what does it matter, it's their life and they are allowed to take it as slowly as they feel comfortable with it.
There's no rules or obligations!

lovely

I think that if something is really meant to be it will be. Patience is Virtue.

chowderboxallnite

They are made for each other.

Wanna

Granting this is a true story, I think there's hope.

If their feelings are mutual - that they are in love and are willing to pursue a serious relationship I think they will realize that there is more to a relationship than just physical attraction. They may already have emotional intimacy and that is more important. If they're happy with their status, however slow the pace then there should be no rush.

spnkitman

If they are happy the way things are then it is already working for them.

yorkmaybeblue

If they value their virginity, which they do, I can see the sparks after the wedding. Good for them.

mj_skittle

I guess if they're still with each other after 8 months, and have not kissed or done anything else, there must be something there. Don't fret about it. If it is meant to happen, then it will, and they will do it on their time, not yours.

Let's go Red Sox!

Maybe they are waiting for marriage. Who knows?!

Cori

Just like any other friendships people move at there own pace. It sounds like they really care about each other, the rest will fall in place. If the want to move faster they have to find a safe place where they both feel they can be there self's. Sparks will fly when they are both ready

Carol T

Yes. It may happen but it will be in their time. By their terms. Who knows, they could be enjoying the romance of coy glances and warm company. Memorizing these moments that are so often overlooked by todays far too easy ways. Let them have their gentle romance.

tikiman127

they sound like soul mates

â˜†BTriXâ˜†

They will just need to get over their insecurites and begin intimacy. It can be scary at first, especially when one has been a virgin for 43 years, but it can happen.

Kerry

I know that this is becoming more and more rare in this world,.but perhaps they are waiting until after marriage before they openly show physical affection for each other.

lee

Yes, I think they will get closer over time. If both of them have made it this far in their lives without being intimate, it will take time to get to a comfort level where they can relax completely with each other. If they trust each other completely, then the comfort will follow...they probably have a wonderful future together in front of them!

brandy G

I would say sure. I mean with them both being a virgin at their ages they want to be sure. As long as they enjoy being around each other, it will happen.

ohiolady1974

I am sure there is some sort of attraction there. They can wait until they are ready. There really is no rush in a good relationship for the physical attraction. Sounds to me like they are doing just fine.

sun day

The unique and wonderful aspect about this relationship is...who cares if they ever spark? They seem so happy together just the way things are. As long as both of them are comfortable and there are no pressures to go further, things will happen when or if they want it to. And after years of being married, as they get to know each other and feel more and more comfortable, maybe something will spark. Until then, no worries, their happy living and enjoying life...together! How romantic. My Mom is divorced and lives with her best friend (girl), no they are not gay. They share the same bedroom but sleep in seperate beds (twin beds, it's sooo cute). They act like there married and argue and laugh like they've been married for years! Sometimes I just wonder why they never went further, and then I push it away and I'm just happy that my Mom is happier and more content than she ever was with my Dad.

kiya

I'm sure it is. I think if you work at it, then anything is possible, both have to give there all.

Baby Gurl

I think they have a Good chance of having sparks fly!!

Best Of Luck!!!

staymay

Yeah why not? Sounds like you and he are just the right speed for each other. Oops I meant he and your "friend"

Good Luck

XxKatiexX

I believe so. There is always hope. Try being more open and honest with each other about your desires. Best of luck!

Nick K

only if they get married because it sounds like they are loyal to their religion

Tesorito

lol... i think there is hope... but, would you please advise one of them to make a move? a kiss or something?

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