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Now that I found out my wife is cheating....?

Should I post naked pictures of her all over the web?


    




bigbadwolfe_2
No, thats illegal without her permission.... you'll just get yourself in trouble.

Why waste your time anyway? Move on with your life to better things & better women.


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tjjkara
What is that going to solve in the long run. You are thinking irrationally. It may make you feel better but she is the culprit not you. Don't fall to her level and give her an excuse to play the victim.


Secure Indeed
She has cheated on you, and they only thing you can come up with is posting naked pictures of her on the internet. Obviously that is not a problem because the man she cheated with has already accomplished that. It sounds like to me you are going to stay you just want to get her back while staying. I say if you love her just talk to her about why she did it and see if this relationship is worth saving if you are going to stay.


CHASE_ME
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ABSOLUTELY NOT! SOMETIMES WHEN WE'RE HURT, WE TRY TO THINK OF VINDICTIVE WAYS TO GET BACK AT THE OTHER PERSON.

YOU NEED TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL LOVE AND RESPECT YOU THE WAY THAT YOU DESERVE! TELL YOUR WIFE TO GO EAT PIG VOMIT! AND GO BACK TO WHEREVER THE HELL SHE WAS WHEN YOU FOUND HER... WHEN SHE NEEDED A ROOF OVER HER MAGGOT-FILLED HEAD!

I'M SORRY IF I SEEM TO COME OFF KIND OF HARSH, BUT THERE ARE TOO MANY GOOD WOMEN WHO DESERVE A GOOD MAN AND WOMEN LIKE HER MESS IT UP FOR HONORABLE, HONEST, HARD-WORKING, FAITHFUL WOMEN WHO DON'T MIND TREATING A MAN LIKE THE PRINCE THAT HE IS...


joyceeleann
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Arn't you being childish.

Men are so stupid.

Why waste your time when you can be out doing the same!


jollybear
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no dont it will only haunt you i belive you are just upset cool down first. be an adult it hurts but act in a mature way.talk about things and kove on with your life it wont be easy but atleast your heart will heal quick .its hard though but try anyway just dont revenge in anyway leave her the guilt and you being quiet and cool about it will make her feel so ashamed and guilty the more you want to poor your frustrations the more she will make you fell you deserved it so ignore her and give yourself time to heal


Ohemgee~It's~Nina
NO! that is so rude! confront her about it!


AVA
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If it bothered u to share then why would u share it all over the net? Forgive her or Leave her. If u decide to salvage the marriage then u will just be humiliating the both of u by posting it.
If u have done similar hateful things to her during the marriage then it was probably what enabled her to spit on her vows.


Michael
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Don't be stupid, you will only embarrass yourself. Not to mention you may later on regret it and there is no turning back. She is your WIFE after all!

If you are unhappy with her then take some time alone to cool down.


happy_cute_mom
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no like someone said it's illegal. Anyway that would just show how immature you where. Just move on with your life. You probably deserve better anyway. Good Luck.


zeakster01
No, that would only cause undo hardship for a woman you once loved, would you really want to do that? You have been wronged, but two wrongs only make things worse. DONT do something you would regret later ...it doesnt make anything better, and wont even the score.. You cant.


Bluebells21
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Your first, and most instant response is NOT THE RIGHT ANSWER. To do the right thing; put some time and distance between you; and the hurt, she has created on you.
Right now, anything you think of is tainted by the overwhelming bad feelings that you are trying to squash down.
You WILL come to a more peaceful place, where there will be a fresh start; and the promise of a better way in life for you. But you won't get there if you enact your vengeful thoughts.
Put them away, and find a new challenge!
Good luck with sorting this out for yourself.


cobrasnake
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Honest answer: Get divorce,forget about her,and for sure you will find someone else,who will love you indeed.It is better for you: go out of her life, and avoid more problems with her.Good luck.


monkeysjumpingonabed
ok just becase she went low does not mean that you have to go lower~ just tell her if you love him so much it's over~ don't to the pic thing!


Cat
nay just leave her go and find someone else that will treat u well move on


Scalawag-101
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I understand why you’d want to but NO you shouldn’t do it.


Pam_perfect1
Please do not try and hurt her in this manner. I know that you have been hurt, but do not lower your standards just to get even with her. Take your time and think about your actions. Getting even is not always the best thing to do. Just smile... she will wonder what you are up to and it will drive her crazy.


teresa d
no she will get hers be patience believe in karma what goes around comes back around


CaliMa
Whats the point that would just be vindictive and thats not good just let the ho go and see how bad the man shes cheating with wants her as soon as you divorce her hes not going to want the HO because he already knows that its exactly what she is a HO.


not meant to be tamed
Two wrongs do not make a right...but that is funny as hell....but could get you into big trouble...Just get out now


cheetah7
As much as that might be a good revenge, be careful that it doesn't get used against u in court when u decide to divorce. Why even give her any chance to get one up on you?


Bucs Fan
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Tempting, but I don't think I would do it...


robsnor
Don't be so childish. That is what kids would do.


KANDY_GIRL
no let her come home and find you with a preetier girl by ur side to see how she like it!!


Jayne s
if you have kids no! If you don't, go for it!


AnswerMom
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No.

You found out your wife is CHEATING.. You're better than her. But the second you do something dumb like post pictures of her, you're just as low as she is.

Kick her out, get a divorce, and find yourself someone who loves you for you.


indm45
no ,why give her the attention,she,s a **** move on and be a better person


spacedchic00
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It will look bad in court. Use them as evidence to get what you want, then claim they were stolen and post 'em if you haven't moved on!


lessonslearned
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You are very hurt right now. Although this seems like a satisfying act for you right now, you will regret it in the end. Let time heal you.


?
Yeah, go for it. But then she will do something worse to you. Why not just leave her and get a divorce. Let her deal with her f*cked up life on her own.


olive_olive_72
no, how about just leave her and go on with your life that will be the best revenge you can get. 2 wrongs don't make a right. i know right now that you are mad and you are hurt. it will take time for you to get over it. good luck on whatever decision you make.





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