OK last night my husband went out drinking. when he got home l check his voice mail on his cell phone.?

Valerie X 11th Account WHOO HOO!

Ah, the old "My friend" line......next he will be telling you he let his "Friend" borrow his phone to text message his girlfriend.......RIIIIIIIGGGGGGHHHTTT!!!...

Anji

If it walks, quacks and looks like a duck - then it's a DUCK!

Get rid of this lying piece of sh*t!!

MissingInAction

babygirl you better find another

Vilicity-Tea

Call the number.

sissy k

Go with your gut!

vonlup

I know one thing. Trust your instincts. If you think he's cheating then he is.
Sounds to me like he's cheating.

2009 here I come

go with your gut instinct on this 1. you know your husband better than any1 on answers.

Cate

Honestly hun if it was me I would call the number and ask her if she knows him. It sounds like he's really not telling the truth; especially if she said his name in the phonecall and not his Friends name. I know you really really want to believe him but I just can't see how you can. I mean if you turn out to be wrong -apologize. But it doesn't sound like you are.

Kimora Leeann

CALL THE NUMBER !
but don't do it around him. you need to know for sure who it is and don't just take his word for it, cuz your insticts usually is right!

Juanita D

sounds like he met a girl at the bar

Callie

If you believe him I have some swamp land in Arizona for sale!!

YUMMY1

The fact that you feel the need to check his voicemail is a BIG redflag. Obviously he gives you reason not to trust him!! Go with your gut and CALL THE NUMBER and find out the truth!

inoffensive nickname

Call it only if you're emotionally prepared to know the answer. Still, she may lie to protect him and herself.

:-)

Girl, get on that phone and dial!!

CHICKA

She knew his name and number get phone bill and call her up of course from his cell.

Otepfreak

call the number and pretend to be a telemarketer

reddevilbloodymary

well....it very well could be that nothing happened but she was hoping for something to happen. Either way, he should not be handing out his number to random women, he's married. I say call her and next time he goes out, follow him (get a baby sitter if you have kids) and find out what he's really up to.

Christiana

I have a friend that has been cheating on her boyfriend with another guy, and she told her boyfriend the same story. "I let my friend borrow my phone and the message was for her, I don't even know who the guy is" When really she's sleeping around with the guy. You need to call the number when he's not around and confront the other woman. But just keep in mind she probably doesn't know he's married so you can't get mad at her for what your husband is doing. If he's getting super defensive about this message, saying he's going to leave and all that bs, then he's most likely guilty.

I really hope everything works out...

jaded

Yeah he is definatly lying, I've heard the she is just a friend line before don't buy it. If he wont tell you what's going on call her before you get hurt anymore.

Kara

my husband did the same thing and said the same thing. he cheated. he's now my ex-husband

Baby Girl...Call the number but also realize you may not like what you may hear ; (

Just be prepared...and if you hear what you think it is...what are going to do? He is going to be pissed that you called the number and say the chick is lie (ing)....

Trust your gut...you already know the answer...just confirm it.

Good Luck ; )

Debbie

Its been my experience that when they get mad because you are mad or questioning them, they are lying! Its like they try to get mad before you have a chance to. Not only would I call the number (under false pretenses of course and from a blocked number), Id call the so called friend (without his knowing), pretend I was the woman who called your husbands phone (again, under false pretenses) and then make a nite out for yourself! Let him wonder where YOU are and what youre doing for a change.

Lily

I would call the number in a blink of an eye and get the "what's up" from her. (I have done this twice in my life)

I would never let my husband go out drinking in the first place. That kind of behavior is for young adults (young adults with no direction in life).

bgulleyb

Follow your gut instinct... it's always right. His answer was so Fckin full of of it. You should have just let him leave. He is not the being honest with you.

irish_lad_921

Call the number and act like a third party or something. I have had that happen to be before a woman called my cell left a voice message and my wife listened to it and heard thanks for last night it was really a very pleasurable evening. I was pissed the woman used the word "pleasure" when all we did was sit and talk because she was haveing a rough night and she was like a sister to me. so i had my wife call then lucky for me this womans mother was with us that night and explained every thing but boy was I in the hot seat.

Riotess

trust your gut

u confronted him with something that would make ANYONE question their spouse about...instead of caring about ur feelings and say oh hunni i can understand ud be wondering about that, this is what happened, im sorry...his response is to get mad and threaten to leave...why did he do that? he did it because its manipulation, it takes the heat off him and turns YOU into the bad guy so he doesnt have to answer to his actions...how could you accuse me? how could you not trust me? bla bla bla, all manipulations to take the focus off of his mistakes

leave

Caligurl

i say you call the number and just ask in a polite way if she knows --------? and if she says yes ask how she knows him and if their some typr of relationship if she sayd yes tell him what she told you in this situation you are the hurt one not him if the lady then says no then tell her that are really sorry to have called her and ask if she could not tell your husband if they are like co -workers or something and if she tells your husband that means she trust him and you should ask him mor about her if he is cheating he will get caught most guys are bad at hidding things like this they always live clues behind

Alrozz

Your better than that. You don't need to snoop around to find out if your husband is having an affair.

All you have to do is sit him down at the table and gently and softly ask him. "Are you having an affair with another woman".

If he say's no then tell him I trust you and love you. Do not ever hurt me or I will leave this marrige. If you love me you better show me.

You are the apple of the eyes...he doesn't realize that yet.

You have more power than you can imagine because God gave it too you for a reason.

bored_ at_ work

go with your gut feeling... my EX husband tried telling me the same thing... wanted to believe him so i didn't call. few days went by and it was bothering me so much so i finally called. he had told her he was single living with his mom. we had been married 5 years with two kids.... i would definately call.. he'll probably tell you she's lying but why would she lie?

piglettsmom

Go with your gut. You are doing nothing wrong if you call her. He may be telling the truth, and if he is this will ease your mind. If he's not, you will know and then you just have to decide where to go for him. don't just take his word for it, Call Her.

moonshine057

Okay he is lying dont believe him. His story doesn't even make sense. He came up with the first excuse he could think of.There are 2 options here. Since you already confronted him and he denied it, watch for other signs you have to catch him. For example another sign would be like if he starts keeping his phone from you, than obviously he is hiding something from you. Because of that really small chance he is telling the truth I would act like normal until you notice other signs before you go crazy on him.You could just call the number and try to get informaton from here, start asking her questions, because there's a chance that she might not even know that he is married. I personally would call the number I'm impatient and probably would have done that right off the bat.lol.

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