Oh NO!! She's Called off the Wedding.?

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getrd2go

Geeze...first off did you ever tell her it was a diamond? If not, it's not like you lied to her, and if the material objects are that important to her....are you sure you want her back? I mean I would hope she was marrying you because she loved you not because she loved the rock on her finger!!

NOW: if you did lie to her and tell her it was a diamond when you knew it wasn't then you have some major butt kissing to do . Because she is probably more upset that you lied to her than the fact the ring is a fake.

dani_kin

Well is she mad because of the ring or because you lied about it?

If she is mad and wants a real diamond, then dump her, you don't need to marry a materialistic nut.

If she is mad that you lied, then try begging, pleeding, counseling and above all, respect her decision, whatever it may be.

tnm021

Why would you buy your fiance a cubic zirconia ring? Just take her with you to pick out a "real" diamond ring and let her pick it out to make her happy again. She probably thinks that you don't think she's worth a real diamond. She's just pissed and she should be. If you can't afford a real diamond make payments until it's paid for.

whoanelly00

if she cares that much about a material possesion....you guys are going to have a long and very expensive marriage........just tell her you were saving up for a nicer one to suprise her with at the wedding.

irisheyes

Well, you're going to have to work on your honesty to regain her trust. You tried to trick her. What do you intend to do in the future? I'm sure she loved you so much that she wouldn't have cared what it was but you misrepresented it intentionally & it's hard to figure out if you're just going to keep on lying. How does she know what to do. How hurt she must feel. All is not lost. Be honest with her from now on. If you can't be leave her alone to find someone else.

sunshine_01

i never heard of a ring like that before. but maybe you should just try talking to her. obvisiously you still love her. you'll think of something.

BonesofaTeacher

If you lied to her about the ring you have a real issue. Why did you lie? Why would you lie about something like that? Why should she trust you? You need to explain the truth to her why you did that and try to get forgiven. If you tried to pass a zirconia ring off as a diamond. You deceived her on purpose.

iam1funnychick

Unless you lied to her and told her it was real, she needs to get over it. If a "real" diamond is more important than having you for the rest of your life...realize that you will always be #3 in her life. She's #1, Money is #2 and perhaps you'll come in 3rd. A "real" winner of a wife would gladly wear a bubblegun wrapper for a ring and be happy and fulfilled.

Jet

Let her go and count your blessings!

jodie

Your problem is not the cubic zirconium. First if you misrepresented the stone she has got you for lying which is the first step to breaking down communication and lack of trust.
Secondly, why is it so hard to explain to someone that this is what you wanted to give her...an engagement ring does not have to be a diamond.

bvroeg

Let her go... You are saving yourself from a lot of pain down the road.

God is the answer!

dump her b/c she doesn't really love u if she wants to leave u 4 a ring! She's shallow!

"EL SANCHO"

SAY YOU DIDNT KNOW!!! GET HER A REAL DIAMOND! FAST!

if all else fails, then she is a money hungry ****** to begin with anyway. I suggest a mail order bride from Russia. They are used to the poor life.

or even find yourself a mexican woman that wants her papers. You can find some REALLY hot ones that will even PAY you to marry them (around 3-6 grand). Make sure you work in some nookie and dinner every so often into the deal.

asmoothrider

Let her go the money grabbing ******.
Dont she know how much they cost and how much she is worth,ideas above her station if you ask me.

uvette77

Tell her that It's the thought that count's & that if you didn't love her then you wouldn't have asked her to marry you. Good luck!

â˜†Lindsey & Jacksonâ˜†

That's your own fault. You shouldn't have done that. That's embarrasing for her and everyone she showed it to. How do you think she feels? She's probably been showing it off to people and here it is fake! You deserve to be dumped. You lied to her. You need to do something REAL nice for her now.

simply_sandy929

Goodness heavens!!!! That was my first reaction...First, why did you do that????

Actually, I wasn't horrified, I laughed because the situation is kind of funny. I know someone, the have been married a long time and she was interested in insuring her wedding ring, so she asked her husband if her ring is real diamonds or cubic zirconia...I was listening to them and makes me smile and now, here you are....totally makes me laugh...
Well, I'm, sure you've been together for sometime and been truly in love to think of marriage so you must know her by now, knows what ticks her and not. So it's up to you what you need to do to have her trust be back to you again. It's kind of hard to trust someone again once the trust were broken. So work for it, my dear....

micky73194

FOR GET HER! U DONT NEED NEONE THAT IS AS GREDY AS HER!

NoWonder

I don't even know what to say. If you love her... tell her you're sorry, and if it's that important to her to have a real diamond tell her you'll get it as soon as you can. If that's not good enough, she's too materialistic to bother with her. But if that's the case you would have known that already and shame on you for getting cubic zirconia!

Nina_Bruja-des

if shes willing to call off the wedding for a reason like a fake diamond id say let her shes materialistic

hesterthehester

Did you tell her )or lead her to beleive) it was a diamond?

If so, your a liar, and you deserve what you get..

Now your going ot have to get a diamond 1.5x 2x as big.. Get ready to shell out the bucks.

-HtJ

Jennifer

How superficial! I think you should dump the greedy bit*h!

CherrySplendor

She sounds like a gold digger. That means she doesnt love you really. She is in love with the idea of getting married. Not you. If the woman really loves you, then it wouldnt matter if she had on a wooden ring, as long as she has you is all that matters. Let her go.

â™¡LiLâ™¥Kittenâ™¡

Check the local pawn shops and buy her a cheap real one!

jshepard17

You shouldn't have lied to her. Why didn't you tell her that it was a temporary ring until you could afford a really nice one. You blew it.

Velken

Why lie about something so trivial? Why not just get her a smaller real diamond ring? Lying of any kind is not a good way to being a marriage. Maybe that was all she needed to get second thoughts. Did you try to lie your way out of it when she confronted you, or did you immediately admit it? You need to find out why she is so upset. Then you'll know if she's worth trying to keep.

aaaaa

why weren't you honest with her? if she's gonna call off the wedding is it because she found out that it wasn't real diamonds or is it because you lied to her?

tay

like OMG

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