Ok my soon to be ex hubby.....?

biggsbabygirl

I dont consider a group of friends going out to catch a movie, a date, I consider it just that, a group of friends catching a movie. I don't that there is anything wrong with that. No it is not cheating on your soon to be ex husband, and it is nothing that he can use against you later in court.

stopbeingretarded

I think it is okay, but just make sure that the guy you're going on the date with is aware of your situation and everything that is going on. If you aren't honest with him, it could bite you in the butt later

Yvette D

I think morally for yourself you should at least wait till you file for a divorce....If you want anyone else to value you then you need to value yourself FIRST

Wylie Coyote

Yes. Wait until you have at least signed the papers.

clarissa

i think its fine. go have fun. :)
its happening sooner or later :)

Noone i

sounds to me like you were both doing something that you are splitting up over.

blakie

what do you mean group date? but you can do whatever you want, you aren't committed! serperated is single.
have fun

Pssst dating neighbors has never been a GREAT idea but good luck! just remember whatever happens you have to see him all the time, bring home other people and vise versa and.. ohh the possibilities are endless

glandens_pi

I am a private investigator, and it is ok to see someone after the legal separation... i.e. as long as you've filed for divorce, you're legally separated. If you haven't filed yet, you could be in danger of adultry, which could hurt you in the divorce proceedings.

Lynn

My personal Opinion is wait til the divorce simply because he can turn the proceedings into a she did this.................. and she is doing that..................... and the focus is no longer on the what he did..........he can't stop you after the divorce you can do what you please!

Bull in a china shop

Nothing is wrong with that.

lizzy

You are okay to date other people.

natasha

Idk. Don't rush into anything. I mean you dont want to wind up back where you are at right now.

Richard F

Rule of thumb is..........wait until your divorce is final.......then wait a year. If you violate this....you will only regret it later.

What I'm saying is not easy, but no one said life would be easy.

Cliffe-climber

What's the problem? You're on a group date. Nothing's going to happen. There's no harm in being sociable with your neighbours.

You can't be held responsible if this relationship expands after your divorce.

minootoo

It can complicate the divorce, your lawyer should be your guide, he knows the case well, is there a separation papers drawn up already?

Ask your divorce lawyer.

pplz1st

i would strongly consider the mental heath of our husband and whether he would snap and possibly be a danger to you or the guy

Colleen O

There is nothing wrong with going out with a group of friends, but keep in mind you are STILL married and will be until you get a final decree of divorce so any relationship is not really a good idea...but a group thing...go out and enjoy.

essentiallysolo

a group date is fine, just be sure to stay with the group and don't give your hubby any potential fuel to burn your butt in the divorce procedings.

Ms. Pirate

I would say a date would be OK. You need to be careful though and not get too involved. I have seen people get back together in the middle of a divorce (even though it seemed impossible at the time). Just be careful!

â™¥áƒ¦â™¥ Finally Got My Miracle â™¥áƒ¦â™¥

Why not?? Your gettin a divorce anyways..It's not like it's cheating. I say go for it..Good Luck =]

â™¦justmeâ™¦

I would think you would want to have one relationship resolved before trying to get into another one.

Jeremiah W

I like how you posed the question "is dong someting that we are spliting up over" You know that you are going to go on that date no matter what people on here tell you. I think the only thing that would stop you would be something like that guy in 3b yeah i know him he has herpes.

Good luck remeber the grass is always greener ;)

Emma B

You should not be tied down by people, do as you please as long as you are safe, nothing wrong in talking to this guy, take it one step at a time.

blueeyd_princess

I would get legally seperated first. Thats just me. If you want to go for it just be prepared for anything this could stir up.

rhsaunders

Certainly. Given that the divorce is committed, you may do anything you please, except get married again until it is final.

I â™¥ CHRiS BR0WN

No as long as you dont feel guilty and actually go through with the divorce!!!

kao x

Key word "Ex", of course you can...don't let a good chance past you by.

Bobby Rippz is in mourning

As long as the ex is no longer living with you , if so then your best bet would be to wait until he moves out then you can go all out ;-)

nickay v

if its a group date then sure why not.
but if you's two are alone and you are still married why rush into things give it time girlfriend. just be friends at first.
unless he is going out with other women then i dont see why not. just dont get hurt

Nicole

NO you little tramp

Mary A

So you and your husband are defiantly getting a divorce? I take it he is no longer living with you?
If you two are separated and getting a divorce, the paper work is in motion and no one is changing their minds about it. Then there is no problem on going forth with your life.

shaz2840

Go for it. I am in the same boat. I want to divorce my husband he wants to do two year separation. I have grounds to divorce on Bad behaviour. My husband had refused counselling, refused to ever take my emotional and physical wellbeing seriously and I ended up having a breakdown fighting for his affection and love. After many years of misery we have separated. Feb 2011. I registered on a dating site for an ego boost and have been chatting to other guys. I am now kind of seeing one and I am loving the attention. Its early days and I dont want anything serious yet but after so many years of unhappiness i know i am over my husband and he too is over me. So i feel no guilt about looking for a new relationship. lifes to short to mess about and if you know in your heart you are right to be separating and divorcing..... don't let anything standin your way. Just keep realistic and acknowledge your motives and feelings, take it steady and enjoy letting someone new make you feel good........ it has probably been a very long time xx Good Luck :D

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