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Once a man cheats, will he do it again? Honestly.?
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Once a man cheats, will he do it again? Honestly.?



    




entourage602
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yes


ciberpunk1
There is no absolute answer to this, as every person is different. However, having said this, it is only MORE LIKELY that a man OR WOMAN would cheat again.


ateez9
not always..........some guys actually do have feelings and sometimes they just need to get burned to learn.


kceg85
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hmmm there are lot of ways to tell.
1)Did he tell you first OR did you have find out?
2)Did he apologize and show real remorse OR did he make excuses?
3)Did he take responsibility for what he did OR did he blame you and everyone else in the world for what he did?
If you answer yes to the first part of the questions then I would say go to counseling and try working on your relationship. But if you had to answer no to even one of the other part of the questions then I say leave him now before he cheats again.


bestadvicechick
Yes. I really believe, once a cheater, always a cheater. Cheating is basically LYING and people who lie will lie about everything and anything.


WorriedAJ
Yes....I forgave my ex who cheated on me and he ended up dumping me and started sleeping with a bunch of different women. These type of men are losers.


zoyaaa
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it depends on u.


nancydrew
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if he cheated on you that means he's not committed to you and doesnt love you enough to respect you. so chances are, he will do it again


Penelope Smith
I don't think that it's fair to assume that. I do think he needs to figure out why he cheated (and no, don't blame the woman!) and work on the problem.


pinkphases
yes unless they are older 60's. I believe men and women will continue either in a steady relationship or one night stands occasionally. once they have a taste it is never the same. my father uncles cousins friends husbands continue untill they find religion or almost die. It has nothing to do with the women there with she could be perfection. Its about ego and adventure.


Flaming Tresses
Yes, unless he realizes what he has done and has a deep desire to fix the relationship.


Oula
If he is still married with the same person or going out with the same person, most likely... she tolerated it and/or is naive to it...

But I also believe one can change... but it would have to be spiritually... I know it sounds corny, but just my opinion


juda75
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once a cheat always a cheat


sassyredhead1968
You have to accept the fact it is a possibility. Can you live with that in the back of your mind always? People can and do change, but it's always easier to do something the 2nd or 3rd time. Good luck and mostly importantly...take care of you!


hot *********
yes


daisyrose
yes, cause they dont really love the person they cheater on , so they always a cheater


kathryn m
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Most likely, yes... it's just the way it is.


felix8462
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Yep.


April First
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Not necessarily. My husband and I were both married when we met and we have been together 17 years and neither of us has cheated. People cheat for many reasons. Sometimes they feel justified because they are not getting what they need from their partner, others cheat because it is a game to them and others cheat because they can't help it ( they are sick)


Ebonee
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Well, the chances that he will cheat again are very high, but it doesn't mean he will cheat again......Did he confess? If he did he probably won't cheat again. Did you catch him? if you did he will probably cheat again.....


waterlover
A leopard does not change his spots....of course he will.Move on he is not worth the heartache.


Christina
once a cheater always a cheater!!! honetsly it will not get better and if he ever got the chance he will do it again. and is it worth the trouble the wandering if he is cheating with someon at work or why is he 30 minutes late. it isnt cool always thinking and wandering if he is doing it again. I say forget the three strikes you're out, one strike you're outta here......................good luck.


lavell
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Anyone can change if they want to.


Dance
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Some will, some won't. Depends on who they are. Sometimes mistakes happen and you won't make the same mistake again, but others just like to cheat and will always cheat. Depends on the man.


Doodlestuff
I don't support the once a cheater, always a cheater, although stats would indicate that it is more likely.

If he cheated on you are you are not married, chances are he will again.

If he cheated on you and you are married, then I'd say it's a reasonable 50/50 chance he will again. Some depends on whether it was a one-night-stand vs. a relationship.

If he cheated on you when you were not married, and then you married, chances are much lower that he will cheat again (most men feel committed when they marry).

So, you really have to decide if what he did is going to bother you or not. Having it always at the back of your mind will just eat at you. I'm not an expert--but have been hit on by a lot of married men (it's very creepy).


sherry n
No two situations are alike.
It all depends on the person.
Once they cheat, will they do it again? Not always.


BillyCostigan
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There's a high probability. Leopards don't change their spots.


dannielle w
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9 times out of 10 yes he will


tellthetruth
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maybe its all where his heart is? Watch his body language and you can read if he is or not. Pray and ask for wisdom for peace because you will deal with more trying to forgive him than he will. If you are going to stay with him and try to forgive and forget don't bring it up ever again and don't be columbo is will only make matters worse be blessed





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