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If your husband has a co-worker (female) that occasionally gives him "adult" movies and then gave him one with her as the star in one of these "adult" movies would you be offended? BTW, these are professional movies not home-made.


    




InMyOpinion
That is WRONG on sooooo many levels!! Yes, I would be offended. Not only would I be making it clear to my husband that he is being completely inappropriate; I would also be going to have a face-to-face conversation with this skanky ho! She needs to be told to show respect for others, and a little self-respect wouldn't hurt either!


Polly
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the movies, maybe okay, but w her as the star? no, that's wayyyyy too much


Miss Crickett
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I would be very offended!


g00dapple
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Yes, especially if he was watching them...... You need to talk to your husband about this. Seems like its getting a little to "cozy"


Jo K
That's really disrespectful of the woman to give such a tape to a married man.


Nicki
Did he accept those adult movies with her in them. She is either trying to bait him or already has.


Janelle
Yes, I would be offended and upset with him for accepting such a thing. I would end my relationship with him, actually.


pmosiejc
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It really depends on the relationship of the women and the wife's personal views.

If my husband came home with a movie that was a gift from a co-worker I didn't know, I'd have been angry in the first place, let alone that starred her. But if he's been accepting them all along and the wife's been ok with it, I'd assume she knows and approves of the co-worker.

If I were the husband, I would take it home with me, hand it over to the wife and say "she gave me this movie she was *in* this time and I'm not sure whether that crossed a line ... I haven't watched it, of course, I wanted to talk with you first."

Maybe she'll be interested in seeing it with him, maybe she'll just think that it has gone too far and ask him to stop accepting the films. Either way, I doubt any blame would fall on the husband if the wife hasn't said anything before now.


Personally, if it were a co-worker I knew and liked and she was the type of person I felt could hand my husband adult movies just for the joy of sharing good quality entertainment with me and my husband, I wouldn't care if she said "and here's one I did that I'm particularly proud of." But I can't think of a co-worker that I would ever enter into that sort of friendship with.


Shem
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At least he was honest with you..I think it would bother me that she gave him a movie that she starred in..Yup i'd be offended

Have a Good Night


Volleyball♥Country Music♥Amanda
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YES! THAT IS YOUR HUSBAND, AND SHE IS GIVING HIM ADULT CONTENT MOVIES WITH HER AS THE STAR!!!


shasta
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offended??????? i'd be pissed !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...


Bowski
Yes, definantly. She's probably trying to make a move on him. Why does your husband accept them? I don't know much about this stuff, but if I was in your shoes violence would be my answer... but that's just me...

Tell the co-worker that you don't like her hitting on your husband!

--bowski--


sabes_k
Not good! She crossed the line when she started giving him the first movies. Her plan was to give him "her" movie. Next, she'll be looking for "live" action. BEWARE!


nitenurse
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Unless your husband is a producer or something and she is handing him her resume other than that she should be keeping that crap for her own entertainment


nosredna3
That's a tough one. If you've been ok with these movies then you need to decide if you trust this women... your husband is never again going to be able to look at her in the same way again... he's going to be able to see himself with her alot eaiser. the fact that they are professional makes it alittle better but it's still questionable.


the7thseal
Is hubby in said industry? Sounds a bit weird to me.


helly
No, I wouldn't be offended. I would find if funny. She can try all she likes to win your husband, but he is with you, and as long as your relationship with your husband is solid, no dirty slapper is going to entice him away with her filth.


Angela B
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It's hard not to be offended in that situation, no matter how understanding of a wife you are. I've given adult movies to male friends before (normally as a joke), but I've never given them to someone that was in a serious relationship with someone else. I think that it depends on the situation that the movie was given in and what your husband's opinion on the subject is. You would also have to take into account the relationship that your husband had with this woman prior to the "gifts". Was she a really good friend? Did the relationship start with strange gifts like this? All of these things need to be taken a look at in order for you to decide the appropriateness of these gifts. Good luck.


Je vous aime. ♥
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Yes i would be very upset, you shoud tell him that you don't appriciate him looking at the co-worker in the "adult" movie. Maybe hes cheatting with her..


Sweetness
I can't believe you are even asking. You're marriage is in trouble.


bettys
I WOULD START WORLD WAR THREE. IT WOULD BE WITH HUSBAND AND CO-WORKER.I WOULD MAKE SURE I HAD SOMEONE TO MAKE MY BOND


Chloe
At least your husband doesn't hide it from u!
Watch the movies together and laugh together, like a comedy!
Make your own movies together.....


brittney s
ARE YOU KIDDING ME?? i would beat the crap out of my husband for accepting one and then beat the girl for giving him one knowing that he is married. you should be extremely offended and pissed off. this is totally unacceptable.





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