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Over 40 and having hard time getting over my ex.?

yes, he has moved on matter of fact he has ben married for 1 1/2 years and has a baby thats two..so oh my god ,what is wrong with me,,he is not together with her anymore .she lives with her parents and is seventeen his junior... but she is very into the drug scene and he has outgrown that part of his life..he says..but why cant i get over this man ???


    




It's Me ! =)
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Life is too precious to be thinking about the past, and the people in it who don't seem to have done you any good ! just spend time with your friends, do things you love to do, and just let him go. life Always gets better, but you have to make an effort for it to happen =] take care*


jacpen
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How long have you been divorced? And why do you know so much about his life?

Yes, he has moved on. You need to do the same. It seems like you are just sitting around waiting for the next tidbit you can get.

It's time for you to move on to the next chapter in "your" life. Find something that puts your mind somewhere else. (get a hobby, exercise, start reading or find something that really interest you and go for it. but stop doing what you are doing)


Jazzy
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You dont say how long you were married or if there were kids? Im assuming you had fallen in love with him and didnt want the divorce. You build your life around him...your hopes your dreams your plans for the future. You dont just turn those on and off. And you are still in contact with him so you dont ever really let go of him. He keeps your dream alive.
Please see a therapist. She can help you find yourself again. You are loss and you are stuck. Your not moving forward. IT is too hard too painful. Your energy is drained and you have none to motivate you to move on. LIfe just doesnt seem fair or fulfilling without him. You are in mourning. You have to take control and take your life back. You need a therapis tto help you hon. good luck.


Oh My God It's That Guy
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boy oh boy did you make a mistake leaving him bofore he could change





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