Please help: Is it too soon or just right to start a new relationship?
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Please help: Is it too soon or just right to start a new relationship?
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I've been talking to this amazing guy for over a month & have gone on 3 dates so far with him. He's 24, (I'm almost 23), and he has said he's looking for a relationship, something long-term etc (we met on a dating site, so we were both looking). We seem to just click & make each other laugh. He's not the player type or just messing around. He has talked about meeting my parents & doing things in the future (such as "we should go hiking again this summer") etc. When we went hiking the other day he couldn't wait for me to put pics up on my Facebook lol. We talk on the phone almost every night, usually for quite a while. So I think those are probably all good signs. When & how should I bring up our status? some of my friends say I should wait til after we hang out another time or two. Others say I should casually bring it up when we talk next on the phone. How would you feel about something like this? He may be waiting for me to make the next move. Any tips, insight is appreciated.. I haven't had a ton of dating experience, but want to make sure this one doesn't get away lol.. And I'm just really wanting to claim him as my own & show the world he's my man lol. thx for advice!!
ps - I put this here hoping for some mature, experienced insight.. singles section doesn't usually have that.
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Curious
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Is his profile still up on the website you met him on? I was recently in the place you are, he asked me if my profile was up, I said no I took it down, didn't think I needed it anymore in a cute way, he agreed and asked about his, he said it was up but he didn't need it anymore, so I simply asked, does that mean it's coming down, he responded with a yes, I cutely said awe does this mean I have a boyfriend and he said yes and I have a girlfriend! Things are going great and he did take it down a couple days later....I'd use the profile approach if I were you! Best of luck it all sounds really good! |
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the REAL© truth
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You should hang out many more times before you consider the future
Going slow never hurts, but rushing things does quite often
Don't trust your initial feelings like "we make each other laugh" etc. Honeymoon phase emotions need to be tested with time.
Also, players and non-players act a lot alike in the beginning, when will you girls get that?
Let the rush of endorhpins die down before you make commitments.
PS-and keep your hands off each other.
PSS-you don't show the world he's your man after 3 dates. That's not that mature or wise. |
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john paul
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Take your time, don't rush into it. It will happen on its own. Alot of failed relationships are a result of moving to fast. Take time to really know each other. |
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Mya L.
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I think that you should take your time and see what happens. The relationship is so new and has only been a little over a month. I think you should wait a little longer and see how things go because you never know what could happen in the next couple of months. After you have been together a little longer then you will know this man more and you will know when the time is right to bring up the conversation regarding the status of your relationship. |
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opaluz
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1. ndr_carr... makes an excellent point. As they used to constantly say on the aircraft carrier: "Watch your back!"
2. Elated is also on target. He's moving quickly. Ask him his expectations and tell him yours. And watch his eyes, face, and body language when he replies. |
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Fergy
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Seems like the two of you may have something special. Talk to him about how he feels about your relationship this far. I don't think you should come across as he is yours just yet. That may push him away. It don't seem like he is going anywhere anyway. He must really like you from what you say. Have fun. |
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Elated
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The best approach is always honesty. Just ask him where he sees this relationship going. Let him know you enjoy him and wanted to know how he feels. |
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iyamacog
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Sounds as tho you have the makings of a great relationship. Simply enjoy and give yourselves the time to get to know each other, COMMUNICATE honestly, and meet family on both sides. ENJOY the times spent together. New relationships are always fun, exciting, and 'perfect'.........NO hurry, PLEASE....♥♥ |
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ndr_carrington
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He is a stalker that wants to isolate you from your family in the future and treat you bad...run |
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