Please help me??

Frank R

Find somebody with like interests that you are attracted to.

strangelittlegirls

DO NOT SETTLE FOR SOMEONE YOU DONT LOVE/ OR LIKE, IT WILL END IN HEARTBREAK AND UNHAPPINESS

Sean B

you should not do it Intel you meet me then make your chose.

Sadie's Mom

Its mean to waste his time if you know you cant stand him! You will find someone else, and so will he..There are lots of fish in the sea, but wait and you will find a shark!

marilynfsmgm

dont do to him something that you wouldnt want done to you. you arent happy with him and that sad. dont let him waste his time on you. let him find someone to share his feelings with. when the right person comes along then you will see it was worth waiting on.

marcia f

Don't marry him. You have to be completely attracted to the man you marry. You would be better off never to marry than to marry someone you don't love completely.

â™¥Toloveistolive

Dont settle for the one you can live with wait for the one you cant live without. Do what your heart says girl! Dont settle if your not happy because it will never work out,find the right man and keep holding out he will come! good luck hun!

ashleyrperez84

if you're already having doubts don't do it. you sound like you're not happy with him already. but then again, it's not everything that's on the outside, it's what's in the inside of the person. but if the outside of a person is really bothering you don't lead him on. that's just painful for him especially when he sounds like a great guy. he also sounds like he didn't do anything wrong to you. so be honest to him and don't hurt an innocent man. good luck to you.

smiley

he might be the person,
whom u want to meet.
i'll suggest to check the heartbeats,
and ask ur own heart,
that never cheats!!!!!!!!

toxic21

a fear of being alone lead u to this guy and that was ur first mistake.

desperation (and that was the mode u where in) and cause u to end up with totally wrong characters for u.
so then what do u do to kill that lonely feeling?? just date, just date and stick to that, keep busy and soon u will see that u will meet mr "Right"

for now save him the misery and let him know u not interested in him for the long run but dating or remaining friends is ok with u (right??)

Keith in SC

You don't ever marry someone you don't love
This is a disaster waiting to happen you will be miserable and he will have a broken heart. MOVE ON this will never work!

Jenny 867-5309

if you dont like him then just move on and try to find the right guy
P.S. pls pls pls help me on my question!

teen the bean

if you cant stand him what makes you think you can marry him and have a good future. Let him go and stop leading him on because you want dont want to be single.

rashida_16

If you aren't into him find someone that you like! Don't settle for someone that you don't like. Stop wasting your time!

Whitey

Typical woman...
Don't lead this guy on.

girlfriend

Girl all I can say is don't do it, I know that you can sometimes grow to love...but If the chemistry is not there you will not stay or you will stray and you can't stand him? at least you ought to like him, Don't waste your time for things and a pretty dress, wait until you connect with your love. you will know when it really happens. Good luck

snackpie2001

You should never marry someone if there is no attraction or if you are not in love with them. If it should ever come out later that person would be hurt. Try to put yourself in the other person's position, would you want that done to you?

Gabriela

I think it's nuts that you ask that question and put you own photo in it. What if someone sees it and forward it to him? you'd be breaking the poor guys heart. Be more sensitive.

cotton3860

f.u.c.k.him

halyr

not attracted to him? dont gamble...u need to like and love him before gettimg married.

southern_belle1973

When you say he has everything you want what are you talking about?
At any rate, dont lead him on and dont you settle.

Jessica

Dont go there. If you cant stand the way he looks and you just flat out dont love him its not worth the trouble. Just let him know the situation and it will be better for both of you in the long run.

Love Me Not

Love those who love u not those who u love because they tend to take u for granted.

Lady

Getting married to someone just because you are tired of being single will result in a divorce and divorce is never easy.
I got married once for that reason and the man kept telling me that he loved me enough for the both of us and I won't help but fall in love with him eventually. As we wed, everything in my body told me to RUN. I didn't and I was very miserable.
My being miserable also made him miserable until one day he said it is obvious you are not happy, do you want a divorce. I said yes.
It was painful and miserable thing for us both to go through and should you marry someone you do not love, you will only end right back to square one-----right where you are now but also will a whole lot of regrets to go along with it.
Be good to both yourself and him. There is someone out there that you will truly love. Focus on finding that person. He is out there for you. Be patient and do not make a terrible mistake.
Be strong enough to tell this man that you do not love him. You both deserve to love and be loved - but it needs tro be a mutual thing or you will both end up miserable.
It's not too late for you to keep from making the mistake I did. RUN!!!!!
Today I look back at that time in my life and all I can figure is that it must have been "temporary insanity" or something.....don't make a terrible mistake.

â˜†BTriXâ˜†

If you're not attracted to him now then you never will be.

You'll have to make the decision whether you're more concerned with being lonely or trapped in a chemistry-free marriage.

Personally I'll take being lonely till I found someone that lit my fire, but that's just me.

Ozzie

People want what they cant have...

its better to be with someone who loves you than an a hole your attracted too

you can only answer this q of yours

o and if he is good in bed.... its a done deal go for it!

KathieJo

Clearly you are young and do not understand the real concept of marriage...he will not always treat you like a queen, he won't constantly call and he won't always like you quite as well as he does now...however, if you can't stand him now....honey, you'll probably kill him later! Say good-bye sweetly and move on...do BOTH of you a favor! KJL

dacus2472

Don't settle! You already know in your heart that you don't love him enough. I made that mistake with my first husband and it just doesn't work out. You can't make your self feel something you don't no matter how good he treats you. Be patient, your prince charming is still out there it would be an awful shame to miss out on him because you were already commited to someone you didn't really love.

Rob

stop playing him... my god.... just cut him loose already.... he's gonna stalk you if you don't do it soon, and SPELL it out for him!

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