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Please help me with this?

my ex has been waffling between me and his girlfriend. He left me and our daughter for her but now he's crying and telling me that he wants to come back. He misses being a family. We have been divorce for 2 years and he is currently still living with her. In my mind I know that I don't want him back but the dang heart is giving me trouble.

When I told him that I don't want to see him anymore he starting to cry I mean really cry. What are the chances that he has really changed?

Please help! Thank you.


    




Dale
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Not a chance. Crying could be him trying to break through to your weaknesses. Stand your ground and look deep inside. If you truly don't want him around, tell him and don't look back. If you aren't sure, and I mean really aren't sure, sit back and make him prove he's changed. Time will tell.


Miss Mona
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Next to Nothing if he still lives with her. Listen to your brain please!


SummerS
He might have regrets, but actions speak louder than words. Why is he still living with her? Incase you don't want him back maybe? I think that says alot. I know it's hard for you also, but after all the heartache I'm sure you already went through, be careful not to set yourself up for more.


Kat
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I don't think he knows what he wants so he is trying to hold onto both of you..that's my feeling..he will never be content ..he will always want what he doesn't have..i would not trust him and remember he left you for this girl before..and if you let him back in your life..he might do it again..you deserve more and need to let go of him and let him know you won't put up with him jumping back and forth into your life..its not fair to you or your child..good luck


Seth ...DILF-to-be...HaHaHa :)
I wouldn't trust such a person. I wouldn't leave my wife for anyone (or my kids) even though they're not born yet, he has misplaced loyalties and people like are hard to trust sorry,

Seth.


sissy k
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Slim to none. Move on and give yourself a chance to be with someone who will love you the right way.


murf_4g
wow! that really must be hard on you. I would suggest that you tell him to move out of his girl friend’s place and start dating as if you are starting all over again...you will be a born again couple!! good luck!





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