Pls help me i am not a virgin?

LucyLinnae M

You want to start out a life long commitment with a lie?!?

Hopefully within 5-10 years time you grow up!

Bev

I think being a liar far outweighs being a virgin.

Tiffany

Good luck with that one. If you enter into a marriage with lies to start with how do you think the groom will feel about you once he learns the truth?

Bubbles

You shouldn't lie about things like that. Eventually you'll let something slip and you'll ruin the lie. I bet he'll have more respect for you if you just tell him the truth and be honest with him. If you don't have honesty... the relationship/marriage won't last anyway.

Don't lie. That is the wrong thing to do. If he loves you, it will not matter.

Anita

why would you want to lie to your husband??? if he is the one for you then he will understand that your not and more than likely he wont be one either

Happy

Why would you lie. It is not anything to be ashamed of. Just tell the truth. He will appreciate your experience.

Btieti

OK, to start a marriage off with a huge lie is definitely not a good idea. let me just warn you that someday the truth WILL come out. and wouldn't you rather it come out before you are actually married to someone?

horsecrazy07

Honesty is the best quality going into a relationship. odds are he wont be a virgin anyway.

chona a

Virgin or not doesn't matter in a relationship, but honesty does....because it's in honesty that you will gain one's trust....if the guy you'll marry really loves you, he will take you for what you are.....Goodluck!!!

bocasbeachbum

Get real. and find a good counselor.

hummingbird

Do NOT be a LIAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

S K

Practice saying 'no' a lot.

amigawalker3000

ok you should tell the truth otherwise you will feel guilty

djessellis

would he want to marry a 35 y/o virgin - maybe he'd thin there is something wrong with you if you hadn't fvcked by then

freeatlastboone

Why would you want to start your marriage off with a lie? That is a bad ideal

Steven S

Why do you want to base your future marriage on a lie? That's never a good idea. I don't think anyone expects a 30 year old to be a virgin. He'd probably think there was something wrong with you.

James R

come here ill believe ya....

fortyninertu

Most men today realize you have a past. I doubt many if any want a virgin. Dont worry about it and let the past be the past.

Tiffany A

Whatever you do, do not start a marriage with a lie. You need to be honest with your future husband. Everyone has a past. It's what you are doing in the present to plan your future that matters. Marriage is built on honesty and trust. If your future husband loves you, he will appreciate your honesty.

Blondie

give it up you are not a virgin!

nins

what's the big deal abt being a virgin, a good soul is more important, being kind, loving & being honest. do you think so?

joj

don't worry sweet heart ..u can make an operation make you a virgin again .. all u have to do to about the dr.s who make these kind of in your country

spelling nazi

Well, I don't know if anyone would want to marry a 30-35 year old virgin.

brillantnut

In times past when it was totally required for a girl to be a virgin bride, they would do the following. First, douche with an alum and water mixture for tightness, right before bed. Take a small balloon filled with a teaspoon of chickens blood to bed to simulate loss of maidenhead. Copious amounts of alcohol to the bridegroom after the ceremony helped the illusion.

j3z7kd1j09aj

i wouldn't recommend starting a relationship with a lie, but if you had to then put fake blood inside.

gmconlan

Keep your legs together and hope it grows back.

centrline

I think your on your own with this one...

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