Possible to married and never cheat?

BudLt

Not everybody cheats. You should really focus all of your energy into what makes a marriage successful and stop pursuing the destructive negative stuff. Nobody goes into a marriage wondering when things will go wrong. You sound pretty intelligent and I am certain that you will pick a man that is like minded. Keep you eye on the prize, My mom and Dad have been married for Fifty years, he still treats her like they are on a date. Its pretty cool.

sniffydogs

30 years tomorrow. No cheating!

MeL

Very possible

sashyboo

its ok to be worried...its only natural but problems will always arise in relationship...good to know that u do not believe in divorce...at least you will be curtious enough to sit and discuss them or attend marriage counsels...everyone seems perfect until something happens just remember why you love this person and keep all the good things in mind...

princessfionafantasy

i hope its possible!!!!!!!!!!
i would never cheat on my fiance

onebigfool

It depends on the two people involved. A marriage takes a lot of work and a lot of the time one or both take the relationship for granted. When that happens it becomes easy to have your head turned by someone giving you the attention your spouse does not give. I think an affair is usually a wake-up call in a marriage, and if you stay alert to your spouse's needs he/she will not stray.

Smiles

Good question. I would say yes because anything is possible. There isnt a hundred percent in anything so i guess this includes cheaters too.

Bantree

Don't worry about your future husband and future cheating. When you get to the bridge, you'll cross it. What you need to worry about is now. Good luck.

mom of two

It is possible. But then again there are so many people with so many different values and ideas of right and wrong that you never know what someone will do til they're put in a situaton like that. People make mistakes, but marriage is sacred, at least to me. There are no right or wrong answers here, just what ifs. Which is what your scared of anyways. Just dont sweat it. You've got a lot of life ahead of you and you might find the one for you.

lamplight03

Yes, been married for 19 and I have never cheated!

sweettart29646

yes it is possible! my mom and dad and have been married for 25 years and they have never cheated on each other! my father was a truck driver that was only home 2-3 days per weeks for not very long.. my mom could have cheated on my father but she never did.. i guess u can say it all depends on how trusting the two of u are and if u love each other enuf to be married and not do that!

CountryLove

IF YOU TRUST HIM THEN YOU HAVE TO TRUST HIM AND PUT IT OUT OF YOUR MIND.

bbfyhjd

Dont marry someone you have doubts about to start off with. And you cant live like that. You cant live your life saying what if, what if , what if. What if I leave my house today , would I get hit by a car?

The OTHER Boelyn Chic

Yes there are couples that are married that long and never cheat. My grandparents were married 55 years and no cheating. I know other older couples from church that have been married 20+ years with no cheating. My husband and I have been married almost 10 years and no cheating. Just make sure you have Christ in your marriage (when you do marry) and all will be well.

God Bless!

Praire Crone

No cheating here and I've been married 30 years.

barbara c

Ive been married for 27yrs and neither me or my hubby has cheated.

dad

YES I GOT MARRIED AT 18 AND SHE WAS 16 3KIDS LATER AND 7YRS LATER CAME DEVORCE THE FIRST CHILD WAS FROM HER CHEATING IT WAS A DISTER WAITING TO HAPPEN YOU DONT SOUND AS MESS UP AS I WAS THE SSECONDTIME AROUNDI HAVE BEEN MARRIED 23YRS AAND DID NOT CHEAT MY WIFE TELLS ME SHE ALL I CAN HANDLE SHE RIGHT AND THE LOVE GROWS STRONGER EACH YEAR BOY TO DAD WHAT DID THEY WHERE IN THE OLDEN DAYS TO PREVENT S.T.D. DAD TO SON WE WORE A WEDDING BAND.AMEN LUV DAD. BASIC INSTRUCIONS BEFORE LEAVING EARTH BIBLE GOD SPEED luv dad

kiki

i would encourage really really good open communication. both sides need to feel acceptance if they come to the other with a problem. you dont have to live in the other persons shoes to know whats going on in his life. men need to be proded to open up. get out that stick and gently poke. ask questions then really listen. it will mean alot to him if you can recall the score to the game he went on and on about, or that the fish he caught was a trout.

Randy P

I have successfully been through a 13 and a 14 year marriage, and can honestly say I never cheated, and neither did my spouses. Trust and respect for the sanctity of your marriage can only come through time. You will go through those insecure times occasionally. It is natural. It is important to always remember what little can be gained by cheating, and what can really be lost! Work at your marriage every day, and it won't wear off. In my case, both marriages ended because we just became different people as we grew older. Quite different than when we met. Now, we are all happier realizing we made better friends. You can not "believe" in divorce all you want. The reality is that you don't own anyone, and cannot dictate what actions they may take in the future. You can only control what you do! You both must develop, and keep trust, throughout your marriage. It's the only way to be happy.

Zapata

Very difficult but not impossible

LaMariposa

It's very possible to be married and never cheat. The thing is, you two will have to honor your vows and your commitment as much if not more than you love each other. Looks fade, love settles into a kind of routine, stress enters the picture. The point is, something bigger than the two of you has got to be a part of your marriage. In our case, it's God.

Rudi A

When two people are compatable and are honest,
committed, respectful, to each other then cheating
is not an issue. Where the problem lies is they
BOTH, have to be that way for as long as they are
togeather and if one strays, well need I say more.
Going on over 20yrs my wife and I have not stray-
ed.

melody

I know a lot of couples that have been married for 30-40 years & remained faithful to each other.

Krinta

I was married for almost 24 years to the same man and we never cheated on each other. We would still be married today if he had not been killed. So, yes it is possible to be married and not cheat or even in a relationship. It boils down to how much you love and respect the other person.

âˆž sky3000 âˆž

I guess it must be the people you hang around with because most study say that the majority of people don't cheat.

It's a media driven misconception that everybody cheats. That is what we see on TV and Movies because it more dramatic, but it's not what reality.

It might also be where you live. If you live in California, then yeah, the percentage of cheaters is way higher.

tannerlady

I think it is possible to be married and not cheat, you just don't hear of it so much these days.

Leila

I believe there are different stages in love in a marriage (know the stages). I also believe RESPECT for each other is very, very important that's what keeps love alive and well even up to the last days together on earth.

Hobbs

Yes, it is possible to be married and not cheat. I have many friends who are married and they wouldn't think of cheating. If you think your future husband is not going to be faithful than he shouldn't be your future husband.

Nancy M.

I have known different couples that are married and have been married for alot of years and have never cheated on each other. You have to learn to trust and to stay in love with the other person. When a person cheats it's sometimes because they are not getting what they want at home.

christine

that are the chances that everyone has to take. no one can tell you that your future husband will or wont cheat on you.thats why most married couples try to do their best to make each other happy so it never comes to that. at least i know that my husband and i do.

Allie R

those people are freaks, if he loves you,and you love him, and you really are true to each other, then he/she shouldn't cheat, not everyone's like that.

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