Question about husband?

well my husband works in another city n comes home on weekends, i live with his parents, durring the week i miss him so much & when he comes home on weekend he used to spend most of the time out doing shopping with his parents n helping them at shop, he doesnt have friends, i know he is doing the right thing but i cant stop myself fighting him, i want him to stay with me at home, i love him so much, i cant go with him becus i m pregnant, what should i do, do i ve no right over him, should i not force him to spend sometime with me??????????
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no we cant afford our own place at the moment... financial problems....

rene57

Count yourself lucky that he only goes out with his parents and helps them do the shopping etc., and he is not drinking himself stupid in some pub or bar and more importantly not running around with other women. You start fighting him and you will lose him. Just be patient it will all work out out in the end.

redhead27

First off... why are you living with his parents if he is working? Can't you afford your own place?

EDIT: uh.... you can't afford your own place, and your pregnant... hmm... poor kid, he's got a couple of geniuses for parents... why did you get pregnant if you can't even afford your own place? How are you going to feed your kid?

paellaella

Just talk to him without arguing and see if you can come to a compromise where you spend some time together just the 2 of you. Maybe he feels obliged to help his parents cos they're looking after you all week. Maybe you could help them out a bit so that he doesn't have to do as much when he's home. I'm sure he'd make an effort if he saw you doing so. I'm not criticising you but it must be hard for him working away all week when you're at home doing nothing. I'm sure he doesn't want to fight with you when he comes home at the weekend, try biting your tongue for a couple of weeks and being super supportive and you might get more of a response from him. Men can be useless at times in picking up subtle hints so just let him know you need him without nagging.

TUNNINGSTYLER

Well he is maybe nervous for the baby, i was too try to talk with him and tell him no problem everything is all right this is not the first time a woman has a baby, and tell him you need him next to you to the baby feels him its important bye

DREW D

Q; where does he stay when he works away
why don't you go with him during the week your pregnant not disabled there are hospitals all around should you difficulties with the pregnacy?

your hormones may be driving you mad must be frustrating living with the in laws hence the fighting

you gotta work it out for the child sake talk to the guy
good luck

Tolerant b

Why not simply talk to him about it. Ask him to spend time with you especially now that you are pregnant and need his support. Be polite and reasoned don't get angry and shout.

Remember that he probably is clueless about how he should behave around you now that you are pregnant and also, feels that he must give his parents quality time as payback or simply to keep the peace while you and he live with them.

Mrs.P

No he should spend time with you. If its possible talk to his mother about it I'm sure that she can help.

shady

Get your own place. Simple

Taboohunter

sorry i don't have a husband and can't comment.

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