Question about threesomes?

AntoineBachmann

threesomes are fun. They're also a great way to destroy a relationship. Threesomes are like quite a few things in life: best if done at the proper time in life, in this case, before marriage. If your husband is so good at picking girls (something which you should worry about, not be proud of, as you seem to be ;-), how come he never managed to pick two up in his single life, and do threesomes back then?

go ahead if you want, but be careful, threesomes and married couples often lead to trouble.

L~A~N~A 6

why on earth would you even want to bring in a third party? relationships are hard enough already if you do this trust me things will never be the same and not in a good way.

missourim43

You seem very confused....you just posted this 6 days ago.....
can you fix trust issues?
I have been with my husband for 8 years and I always trusted him until he told me he kissed another girl and now it is like he is kindof trying to fix our realtion ship, but I am working alot harder than he is to fix it. well now I just dont feel like I can trust him know matter how hard I try I feel like he is lying to me.

So having a 3some will somehow help with the trust issue you have? Hows that workin' for ya?

â™¥ Karen â™¥

For you marriages' sake, please don't do it. If you guys need that kind of thing to feel connected to each other, your marriage is over.

Clarkie

You and your hubby need to have a prior understanding about what is permissible and what is not....
Otherwise, things can get out of hand, and someone (you) will get their feelings hurt.
Will you and hubby be threeing with a guy next time?

my_lil_buttercups

More than likely she is going to do it because of your husband.

And honestly, I don't know what to tell you...I think threesomes in marriage is a sign that things are either A--going to get really bad, soon due to the emotional havoc it causes or B--things are already headed in a bad direction if you need to resort to this kind of activity...

Sorry I couldn't help you more.

GoodLuck

angle_of_deat_69

This is a no no, your husband is married to you, even if you go in for that sort of thing he should ask your opinion. It seems from what you say you are not very interested in a 3 some, just going along with your husband to please him. I think you are right to be concerned, your husband married you, not every man and his dog.

Threesomes break marriages and freindships

bellita_716

Get ready because you are in for heartache and pain..

Suthern R

Ask yourself these questions before you ever talk to her...
Does he think she is prettier than I am?
Does he like it with her more than me?
Is her body nicer than mine?
Why do we need to add another woman?
Is he tired of me?
Do I not excite him any longer?
Why am I not enough?

...because you will be asking them and a bunch more later...bad move, I do not recommend even going there...

g cruise

Threesomes sounds thrilling but obviously dangerous

applecheeks

You need to shake your head girl.

hippiechic35

DON'T DO IT...YOU WILL REGRET IT IN THE LONG RUN!

jstalitbit29

i have read the other answers giving to you and i can agree with those who say that a threesome is best done when all parties are single.
it sounds good in conversation but the actual act can be devistating. Really! It starts off okay...maybe you play a little high school game called truth or dare...get a little tipsy so you can relax then you start getting into it...then you realize your husband is paying more attention to the other girl than you...and she is paying more attention to your husband than you...then comes the feeling of being inadequate. then you see yourself sitting on the side of the bed watching your husband and the woman he picked up getting it on. Next, your outside the room pacing the floor waiting hours until they finally finish. And when they do your husband doesn't even notice that you were not involved.
What comes next...couples counceling!
it's not a safe thing to do.
if your really comfortable with doing this make sure you both pick a woman. not just your husband. and make sure she is as into women as she is into men.
IT COULD BE A TRAP SO PLEASE BE VERY CAREFUL!

Lori Lapp

If there's NO actions both ways. It won't work trust me I know. Lori

Valerie

It never ceases to amaze me the lengths people will go to in destroying their own marriages........

Kiss your whole union goodbye, dummy.

Becky

If you husband is so good at it, let him initiate the conversation. Let him ask all the questions. Good Luck.

~My 1st. Girl~

If i was you i won't do this it will ruined my marriage think about it really good like everybody is saying it will destroy your marriage.

GeniusGenie

if you r not sure then pick up a guy who would definitely satisfy you and even you could enjoy the pleasure of your life.

CosmicLight

If you go for threesomes then this type of issues are bound to be there..

Mentally prepared to face them? If yes, then go ahead....

ohiofirefighter42

My wife is attrcated to women, we toyed with trying a threesome but decided it wouldnt work well for us. The problem being if the idea is that he would like to watch you and the other girl its awfully tough for him not to get involved, if the idea is for him to participate that could lead to hard feelings or mistrust after the fact. What worked for us was to find other couples that had the same interests, girls play, guys watch.
The main things are that BOTH of you are comfortable going in, You both agree to what is OK and what isnt, the other people invloved know what the rules are befor hand.
It has been great for us and weve met some great lifelong friends. We've seen other couples that it was great for and others that it was a disaster.

just_jerk_it

hope she gives u something nasty and last a life time. or least till it takes yours

bfm

If you really want to do this let your husband talk to her and see if she want to. If he is that good with women.

hogsnotbubbles

Just come right out and tell her what you and hubby are looking for. That should give you an idea about where her's are.
Have you tried 2 men and just you, or is that out of the question for your hubby?
If the girl is open to it, and is attracted to your husband, she may go ahead and do it, and take him on down the road with her!!!

Drey M

Just be honest and up front. Tell her what you and your husband are thinking and that you were wondering if she would like to help the two of you full fill a couple fantasies. Tell her that if she is not interested that it is ok too. Good luck and enjoy.

BOO

if your husband is that good at it then let him start.

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