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Alright, I have been married almost seven years, to a husband that lies and cheats, but last night, he completely just picked up our daughter and threw her in her room on the floor, she wasnt minding he wanted her to clean her room, but he got mad at her, he says hes tired of us, and i say well what do you do want to do about it, he doesnt ever answer me at all, what does this mean?


    




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Wow, you let someone throw your daughter into the floor and he is still alive or not in jail?!?!?!

People baffle me.

I wonder what's wrong with most women. You should have already called the police. Whether he IS her father or NOT no human being has the right to treat a child that way.

So, if you really love your child and understand you are the child's protector, you'll get off your butt and take care of it right now before it becomes worse.


sheh8shim4ever
u need to leave him right away before he hurts u or your daugter.


Russell
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Wow, you picked a winner didn't you?
D I V O R C E the slime.


cookie
Your husband has been lying and cheating on you and now he is throwing your daughter? You need to leave him. If you don't want to do it for yourself, then do it for your daughter. Obviously he isn't happy and is lashing out on you and your daughter. You need to leave him immediately or face dire consequences. This man is no good and if you continue to stay with him he will either end up hurting you or your daughter. Think of the safety of your children and do what must be done A.S.A.P. Thank you.


Rachel
Time to leave!


psycho_ward_03
you should give him the boot or pack up and get out. he doesnt appreciate what he has....


uniquechild
Personally I think your man is frustrated, and a very angry person. Why is he so angry? What on earth would make a man treat a child is such a terrible manner? Was he abused as a child? Quite frankly he needs a good slap! Besides that this whole senario appears to be very childish and it is time both of you grow up and stop acting like children throwing your toys including your children around! Whats with you guys? Can you not sit around the same fire and speak like mature people? I think you need help and fast, before someone gets killed out of selfishness!

Maybe he is driven to the point of no return from frustration and anger because he is so unhappy with life. Go speak to a pastor and seek help or its going to be at the expense of the child God gave to you to look after.

Dont wait any longer. Get help FAST!


Ceajae
How can you let him harm your daughter???What are YOU going to do about it? Take care of yourself and your child, divorce him!


lisa b
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i think your husband needs some anger management classes before he really hurts someone. I think it best if you get out of there until he does decide to see he has a problem and seeks help for it. he is obviously going through something that he is not sharing with you but he need to talk to someone. dont let it blow into something really bad or you will be sorry for it and said that you should have done something about it. Its a good thing she didnnt hit her head on something and get hurt or killed.


june clever
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First of all, you cannot let him treat your little girl like that. If you didn't have any children that is your business to do what ever you want with the situation, but you do. This little girl is your first priority. You should get help for him or start talking about time apart. This type of behavior will get worse. For him to actually tell you he is sick of both of you. What kind of man does this. Please think of the child, she deserves a life of trust not fear the same advise to you, be strong.


country girl 006
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Get out before he hurts one of you! He sounds like he has a really bad temper and he is going to hurt your daughter or you! It's especially scary if he is then giving you the silent treatment. You don't know what he is thinking or what he is going to do next. Please, get you and your daughter's things together and leave - as soon as possible! Go to a family member's house or a friends house. Please - just leave. If you don't have any relatives around, there are shelters for women and children in your situation. Things will get better, but only if you take the first step and leave him! Be a bigger person than he is. Be the smarter person. Give your daughter a future!


favrd1
What does this mean? Please let me make sure I understand you correctly...Your husband "threw" your daughter.... Any man that would tell his child he is tired of her and "throw her" is an abuser...You need to get out of there now...I'm sure he has abused you too since you are asking this question on Yahoo Answers. He has probably physically abused you too, but you are also the victim of his mental abuse. Leave, do you hear me? Do not stand by and allow this man to abuse your daughter again!!!! I don't know how hold your daughter is but you better keep her away from him. He will not change, so do not be one of the passive women that feels sorry for him and stays with him. Have a little self respect and respect for the child. Good Luck.


Blondie
It is time to put your daughter FIRST. GET OUT, GET OUT, GET OUT!!!!


Poppet
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Take your child and run. Get out of the house. He is an abuser and you do NOT have to put up with that.


Miss Marilyn
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Girl get out of there. You deserve much more. So does your child. Better things are waiting.


Tina M
The question shouldn't be 'what does he want to do about it?'. The question is "What do you want to do about it?". You need to send him packing. You should never allow anyone to abuse your child, not even her father. It is against the law.

He apparently does not want to be in the marriage anymore and neither should you. It is time to move on. Don't be complacent and stay in a marriage because it is convenient or familiar. You need to end it now for the safety of your daughter and yourself. This is not a healthy situation for any of you.

Good luck!


cindybells2001
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PfcsBaby
You need to leave, with your daughter. Hes at the point to where hes being physically abusive and hes taking it out on your daughter. Leave now before things really get out of hand. Dont let you child be subjected to his violence. Call family or friends to help you get out if you have no where else to go.


plsedntbthtway
WHY would you let him hurt your child? I would file for divorce. he has no reason to put his hands on either of you


wantstoknow
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it means that its over, and that you have to leave him and report him for child abuse. if he lies and cheats, what are you doing with him in the first place? Leave him!


lee911
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If he will abuse your child, then he is not worth the energy you have placed in writing this question. GET OUT NOW!


snddupree
He abused his daughter and you asking what it means? It means he lost it. It also means he probably abused his daughter and, if he did, the police should have been called (depends on what you mean "thrown". . . spanking or punishment is one thing, picking up and throwing a child on the floor is another).

This guy needs counseling and NOW. Otherwise abuse will be the least of your troubles.


quatrapiller
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I'd get out of there right now, if anything to protect your daughter. How long are you going to stay there?! Until he hits her hard enough to snap her neck? You need to get somewhere safe and file for protection against him.


Angel R
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WOW... and your still with this loser. I think that you need to re-evaulate what it means to be married to an abusive partner. Get out while you still can. Get you and your daughter as far away from this monster as possible. Get a protective order! LEAVE!!!


ronnny
Time to leave before someone gets hurt. Find someone that will respect you and talk with you.


rEaL n1gGa
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dont give a damn what buddy think slap that n1gga in da head throw his @$$ out in da backyard MAKE HIM SLEEP WITH TA FISHES


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I think ... that after 7 years .. you should know



Dr BAd


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Bigger question what did you do when he threw your daughter to the floor? Sounds like an anger management problem and I would not be letting him discipline my daughter without counseling. Kids don't clean rooms fact of life, no reason to abuse your kid, just make her stay in it until its clean.

On your latter question why wait for someone else to decide your fate? You husband doesn't sound all that great and lying, cheating and abusing your daughters would be enough for any "responsible" woman to seek a divorce.





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