Recently my husband cheated on me just the after we go married what should i do forgive him or divorce him?

samans442

Adultery is grounds for divorce. Get the papers started.

Denis B

2 words..............Jerry Springer

Cesar G

Divorce him...have the marriage annulled. And kick the
FU*&^ER to the curb.

Halawa

honesty I think your making this question up because this sounds too fake that you would even ask... if its true I am sorry for you and leave him and your sister and start a new life :)

punkin

this must be some kind of joke question.

Sarah

Ouch! You don't need him. And on your sister of all! Oh my goodness! He obviously wasn't ready to get married... and your sister doesn't have much respect for you.

emalee

ohh jeez, kick his *** out!!

Bug Fuggy

Jeeze! What a loser! Him and your sister. Get rid of both of them quick

Perfectly flawed.

UM DIVORCE HIM WHILE ITS STILL EASY! Wtf....

Phr3ak

Dump him!

If he cheated on you SHORT after you got married... hes more likely to do it again!

Find yourself a better guy then that!

Mommy of 2 sweet babies

You should divorce him of all people your sister that is just WRONG. Kick him out now.

HereweGO

O BOY what an ugly scenario. What's your heart telling you to do? Me I would divorce the sob and take him for everything he has!!! Then I would punch my sisters lights out!!!

Thomas K

Can you live with it?

Cut your losses, get rid of the bum. It will be a slap in the face everytime you see the child. Would you be the step mom or the aunt? Wish them the best and start to steppin

prettyblueeyes101010

I think every cheater is different and this is a complicated issue. Do you feel like you will be able to forgive your husband for his infidelity. Also you need to realize your anger should not be just at him, but at your sister also for her own infidelity. Are you going to be able to spend the rest of your life with your husband knowing what happened? Also realize your niece/nephew is going to be a constant reminder of this infidelity.

If you can forgive him you are a stronger woman then I am.

Tim

it still come to both parties and i believe such instance you need to sit down and reflect where the root problem lies and try to work things out from there. forgiveness and love is important as marriage is never meant to be a bed of roses.

Neolani

Divorce your husband and be very pissed with your sister for a while. She will always be your sister but that is the ultimate betrayel. He will easily be replaced. It will hurt at first but soon you will see that you deserve better from both of them.

RedBeard

Cheated with you on your sister, thats terrible, I would reccomend moving and starting over with brand new people.

hustler121

that is really messed up! i think you should talk to him about it and then divorce him. what he did is unforgivable.

Wally Y

Get rid of him. He will do it again. He is now used to it. No good will come if you keep him.

lilyana v

Its not bad enough he cheated on you, but with your sister, that is sooooooooooooo not cool. Kick that fool to the curb.

ccstangfan2

Divorce, and sorry to hear it, wish it on noone.

JEN33

tell him to hit the road.

why would you stay with someone who is having a baby with your sister?

where do you live? Kentucky?

there is a great show you can go on. it's called Jerry Springer

Mom of 3

WOW...I think I would get out of the marriage and have a long talk with your sister. I don't think I could ever forgive, or even forget for this action.

That answer if for those whom this may have actually happened to. However, for you, please realize that people can read your past questions.

Hi its me again

divorce him, this was your sister, they'll do it again. Tell your brother in-law too.

ophirhodji

Divorce him and tell your sister what to do to herself. Neither of them gave a damn about your feelings so you better start thinking of them for yourself.

neednomore00

Get out now. I don't know how recent recently means but you will never get over this. Don't waste another week trying to make sense of this. I would even encourage you to put it behind you but your sister is pregnant by your husband. That kids will be so screwed up. It's step mom will be it's aunt??? and it's aunt will be it's mom???

Run forest run

Mr ME

Darling, us men will N E V E R refuse a quick session on ponky ponky with another gal. We may have brangelina or Paris at home, we'^ll nevertheless never refuse that extra sl*ut who will want to jump into bed with us.

But also keep in mind and save your marriage coz if us guyz enjoy sleeping around due to all the slu*ts the world has to offer, we usually only love one girl, the one at home.

So for Pete's sake, stop making such a big deal although I know it is harsh for you, and keep in mind that E V E R Y guy on this earth, no matter what he says, if he is a real man, i.e who will say the truth, he will always jump into another slu*uts bed just for on one night stand. Men do not commit adultery for the same reasons as women. With us men, it's plainly physical, and the next day we would have even forgotten the name of the previous night's bimbo.

Best of luck .

"U" is for Uranium

Divorce the bum. Doesn't matter who he cheated with (your sister, another man, the neighbor's dog, etc.), the fact is he cheated. Any future trust is gone forever. Dis-own skank sister, divorce him and start fresh. If you stay, it's your own fault!

A good person

The same situation has happened to me. In Dec 2009 I was devastated when I found out the whole truth about my partner having an affair with my sister and ended up pregnant. At the point of finding out the child was already 5 years old. My sister lied to me and the family about who the father was, when she was giving birth I volunteered to be her birthing partner - only reason I offered was because I felt sorry for her because she was on her own. I had what I thought was a breakdown, which resulted in having to have counselling sessions to get me to where I am now. I still think of things, and still on occasion am very tearful - but trying my damn hardest to move on with my life - its not easy!!. I had considered taking him back, but concerned that he may do this to me again. He is desperate to have me back in his life and thinks that we can move on from this, but I think it is too little too late! As for my sister - she has done this to me before, (with my previous boyfriend) and now with my recent boyfriend, whom I lived with for 10 years, this time round she ended up with his baby. I don't want anything to do with her and don't recognise her as my sister anymore. Once was enough, but twice is taking the piss!! and yes I have wanted to punch her lights out. I am now putting myself first and taking the time out for me; to think about what I want; what's best for me and where I see my future - it's not about anyone else but me!! - Its hard, but suggest that you do the same!

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