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well i have to agree with jeremy and the others that said jesus will help you pray about it but its not healthy to be miserable |
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Jeremy
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Jesus will help you! |
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notyou311
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You must have seen signs of this before you married him. Try marriage counseling or see if you can get an annulment. |
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l i n d s e y (:
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Leave him, and take your children with you. |
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MummaKins
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So leave him. What else do you want to hear? |
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Liz
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You desperately need counseling.Maybe a trial run at a separation to sort things outs. But definitely find yourself a counselor. |
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Silenceâ„¢
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It starts with communication.
if that doesn't work - work on getting your own place. |
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Logana
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The first year of marriage is always the hardest. However if your husband repulses you physically then you have a problem.
If he is not contributing financially to the family and is not the father of your children and you don't love him, then you probably don't have any need for him to be in your life.
What got you two together in the first place? |
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JellybeanLOVER
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Explain openly & honestly how you are feeling. Maybe some couples counselling could help.
Communication is the key.
Good luck. |
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broken
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if your paying for everything and you hate him and eh is an *** freeloading then kick his butt to the curb you can meet better nicer men try church remember you dont need a man to be happy Just your self |
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Doc Phil
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you've been married a month and a half and he has already got you to hate him. doesn't sound like you will lose much by leaving right now. |
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avavu
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doesn't he see you crying?Doesn't he ask?Doesn't he care?Don't you talk about your problems?If no,then it's about time for you two to sit down and have a serious talk.If that's the only problem it can be fixed.You had to love him enough to get married to him.Sometimes you have to make the right decision and sometimes you have to make the decision right.Talk,talk and talk.You can always get divorce but what if you regret later?If you try,that way you know that you tried really hard and you did everything you could. |
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twizty1
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get a divorce! life's to short to be miserable,and your kids will suffer for it. |
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locofro
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I say u should have a serious talk wit him bout changin his eatin habits. If he doesnt, then I guess it would b better for u and ur kids if u got a divorce. I mean ur miserable and ur kids gotta live with dat. U should pray bout it too. |
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lostmindproductions
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Well, you cant blame anybody but yourself for this one. You should have been the one to take the essential steps to getting to know him. You have to remember, you will be breaking some serious vows here. If you dont care about that, then just divorce him, thats the only thing your gonna wanna hear anyway. Other then that, remember, your tounge is your worse enemy, be carefull and watch what you say, HATE is a very strong word. |
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marine honey
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if your really that miserable you need to leave him get an anullment and next time you marry make sure you relly know the person and really love them but i know how men change after they get you try talking to him get him help for his eating disorder threaten to leave if he does not change if he does not change than haul a** out of their |
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Teenage-Monstrousity.
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Gee, well UM.. Have you tried sitting down, and talking to him? You should try settling things... If you really despise his living style, and his communication, maybe you should just... Reconsider the marriage. It's never too late.. If your worried about what the kids will think of the divorce, well, this is all coming from a 17 year old who had his parents split his whole life in half because of his father's drunkaholic abusiveness... Sit with the kids for a while, talk with them through the situation, etc.
I highly recommend that you also try having marriage counseling.
BUT, if you 'love' while hating him, then maybe you should wait a little while. It's only been about a month anyways, right?
I'm sorry if this was no help, but i'm trying. |
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shelly
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i got sad to read ur your problem dear u should have thought about it before marriage and now u have kids as well u cant destory their lives as well wht i suggest you first talk to your husband and make things clear and discuse everything clearly dont think a bout divorce for a while may things work out discuse with ur parents iam sure its an arrage marriage right??? try ur best to sort out the problems and if it doesnt work then better to divorce best of luck and please dont cry its not the solution |
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ghosai
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If he is that horrible of a husband, then leave him. It doesn't sound like he's the father of your two kids so there's no attachment there. |
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Sealed with a kiss
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File for an annulment. It's not too late |
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RayBlaq
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I've been in a similar situation for the last three years and I finally realized I have to move on. If you don't love him enough to deal with who he is then move on because nothing can change the situation if you truly don't like who he is. |
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Phoenix mom
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Digging for that gold its not fun any more huh? |
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*~Millenia~*
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hate is a very strong word! and i think talking to him and being encouraging would be best for both of u. u guys need some serious counceling if u hate him after being married such a short time |
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bere
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eww sounds like disgusting man & lazy!!
yes you are married & you are expected to work things out
bt i would kick him out since you pay everything & if its your place
you don't need a man to raise your two children
i would get a divorce because he's lazy and you are better off alone
everybody makes mistakes & if you are not happy eventually you're children won't be happy
if you pay everything then why are you still with him?
your children should be your priority & you need to be happy so your children will be happy
thankfully there's a thing called divorce & im sure that's the only solution to your problem because this man grosses you out |
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♥Tara♥
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Kick his fa *** out and file for divorce. you did it on your own before you can do it again. good luck |
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Tag23
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He was fat when you married him. People seem to define engagements as weeks even a few months clearly it's for getting to know your partner. 2 or 3 years would stop all these divorces because they would then know better. What can I do? are you serious take the next exit. You can be miserable or happy . No one says you have to sit there and cry. |
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abused no more!!!
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Why in the world did you marry him in the first place? You had to have know that he was like this before! You made a stupid decision to marry him. Get a annulment and make better decisions next time. |
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~*Flick*~
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I don't understand people like you. Sorry, I can't try and be caring with hat I say, but rather blunt. You married just recently, I mean, you shouldn't even be out of the honeymoon stage! You married him as he is, I mean, normal people get to know their partners before they marry them, not after. What you need to do is act like a woman who just made a commitment that should be honored and treasured, not complain and act like he is a chain about you. I dunno, I really hate how a lot of people are treating marriage! |
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Mike the man
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i read some of your other questions and its clear to me you just want to be with a woman so now you are finding a ton of things wrong with your husband that you just married. why don't you come out the closet and be what ever you are going to be and not go blame him for being him. |
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Nikki
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When I got sick of my husband gaining weight, I started to serve him his food so that i could monitor what he is eating. Also, I do not keep anything other than healthy snacks around the house and started cooking more healthy meals.
As for the bickering about money, just tell him to stop paying for the cable bill then if he needs to whine about it. If hes really that stressed out about money, tell him that you would rather have him be a provider than a lazy slob that only cares about the cable.
Yeah, basically, you need to have a talk with him though and tell him if he doesn't change that a divorce will be coming his way. Just stand your ground and don't let whatever stupid male things he says get to you.
I hope that helps.. I mean I was in a sort of similar situation and we worked through it. |
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