Serious responses only please?

so alone

well if u dont talk anymore put it on there..let her see it...it will be interesting what she does next

CrG

Sell the ring on e-bay or trade it for something you want like a nicer watch at the same store where you purchased the ring.

Raspberry

Then don't put it on your myspace. Put it on ebay or in your local paper or craigslist.

Good luck!

FREDDYN

Ya. Sell the ring. Get the money back. Screw her.

HooliganGrrl

Don't post it on your myspace. Use e-bay, Craigslist, or Postaroo. It is anonymous, and she doesn't have to know about it.

free_angel

I'd sell the ring and may the highest bidder win.

Elly

She might regret backing out
and or is kind of spying on you.

If you want to you could ask her about
going on your page all the time.
I wouldn't though.

I think selling the ring is a good idea.
Can you not return it?

Remember, she backed out, good reason
or not. And she gave you the ring,
you have every right to sell it.
You said yourself you're not seeking
revenge.

Good luck.

Jenny

It's nice that you are thinking about this, but she doesn't need your kind thoughts, she ended it with you.

You can list the ring in as many places as you like, if she does see it, well you have moved on and are getting on with your life.

Have a nice one, too. One door closes and a window will open :)

leerus

do what you have to do if it makes her sad then so be it she will be OK

pictureshygirl

Part of letting go is not caring too much about what she thinks. She broke off the engagement, gave you back the ring, the ring is yours to do with what you want to do. She is being childish to think you should keep the ring after paying so much for it and not having any further use for it. Sell the ring, trust me she will admire you more as a man with his own mind. You sound so nice, she lost a good thing in you!

â™¥ Im AwEsoMe CaZ i SaY sO â™¥

it might piss her off but, shes the on who broke things off and thing didn't work out between you to and if you to don't talk let her think what she wants, if it was expensive and you don't have any use for it sell it, who cares what see thinks you cant keep it forever just so you don't piss her off, she will get over it

Slim Whitman

Give it up. Sell the ring, take the money and go visit the bunny ranch.

Kidding aside, sometimes you need to quit pineing over what might have been and get along with what you have.

take the money from the sale of the ring, put in a decent mutual fund or pay off some debts.
Get on with the business of living.

kaylee

My brother is in the same situation and he stated that he would keep the ring, you never know when the right one will come around.

Torn

Hi! It has been 8 months since you guys broke off the engagement. If there hasn't been a reconciliation try of some sort since then I would safely assume it's not going to happen any time soon. I don't know the reason she broke off the engagement, but if she was scared of such a serious committement you guys may have tried staying bf / gf a bit longer until she was ready? But since that is not the case, move on! Post the ring on Ebay, MySpace, Craigslist, whichever...why keep it? If you ever meet someone else you would like to marry, I wouldn't think using the same ring is such a great idea. Could it be that subconsiously you are still attached to her? Obviously you care enough to not want to hurt her feelings! Which is kind of you, but what about your feelings? Move on! Sell the ring!

The One, The Only Krandazzo!

any question on here that has the word "myspace" on here can not be taken seriously.....sorry to be rude but its the truth anyone grown and married knows that site is for children

Syra

You really don't have to post it over on my space.
Though you don't have any intentions of hurting or pissing her off, she will think that you are putting an ad on my space out of revenge for what she did. You could actually put the ring on auction on e-bay or might as well advertise it on a newspaper.

;-)

God Bless America

Tell her what you are going to do and tell her it is not to get back at her but you really need the money. If it was my ring, I would rather you sell it than give it to another girl anyway. Tell her that you don't want any other girl to have it because it was meant for her and your going to sell it. She should understand, if not, then you did your best anyway.

dingding

I'd do the same thing...you need to recoup some of that money! I can't imagine she'd be angry, and if she is, she needs to deal with it.

dulce_candygirl

I don't think she should have any right to get mad being that she broke it off, gave the ring back, and was not willing to work things out. You did all you could on your part to make things ok but it doesn't seems like she really cared or took your feelings into consideration so why would you now. I say sell the ring because its is just going to remind you of what happened every time you look at it and you can't keep it to give to another women because that would just be wrong. Move on with your life don't stay stuck in the past. And some women are like that even though you break up they will still try to see whats going on in your life just for curiosity. In my opinion I think she goes to your my space just to see if you have moved on and whats new in your life, but may not be necessarily because she is still in love with you because if that was the case she would have not stopped talking to you all together.

Jaydee

That's natural to care. You were about to make this chick your wife. Yeah, she may wonder why you're selling the ring, but you're not getting married so she has no choice, but to accept it. As for her still checking up on you, that's natural too. Women are curious creatures. That doesn't necessarly mean she's gonna come back. I wouldn't get my hopes up.

If you're gonna sell the ring do it on EBay. She doesn't have to know if you don't want her to know.

God Bless and good luck.

medit8a

What do you hope to get by thinking about her so much? Love yourself, not her. She doesn't care for you, and she's shown that by leaving. There's someone else waiting for you. Find them. You'll probably need a different new ring when you get engaged again. Can you afford two like the one you're keeping?

E&L

Try Craigslist instead . . .

She cares just enough to keep tabs on you via myspace, and you care enough to know she's checking your myspace . . . after 6 months it time to move on and realize she not coming back, no matter how expensive the ring was.

nobody_000

mate i've been to ur situation. expenssive ring?? yeah i had to buy my wife 2 of them. first one she had to sell for her mom to pay rent and so i ahd to buy the second ring. ofcourse i was pissed off when she sold it. but i loved her. so ....
and yeah when we broke it off i had the ring back . i thought of selling it. but deep inside it was killing me. so i gave her back told her to do what ever she likes with it. im preety sure she sold it!!!
i know its hard dont put it on my space. just sell it on ebay. or cash converter. cheers

Monica B

Sell the ring - why is she looking at your MySpace anyway? Honestly, if it was meant to be you would be together. Whether she is pissed off or not, it's not your concern anymore.

Boss

Well if you two are not together and not going to work things out, there is no reason you should not sell the ring. You paid for it and you deserve to get your money back. Try selling it on eBay or craigslist. She missed out and it is not your responsibility to watch our for her feelings any longer.

david g

give her one more shot cause it seems love is there if its not then sell the ring and move on atleast one more try will not hurt and if it works out then there you go but if it doesnt then atleast you know for sure

orphan annie

Simply. Just don't list it on your Myspace. Only put it on Ebay and Craigslist. Too bad if she finds it there. She ended it, not you.

Moe

Its your ring now and you can do what ever you want with it, most people do pawn it or sell on ebay when things don't work out.

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